Did this DAD go too far?

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Bender Rodriguez;5658510 said:
When I usta get whooped it went like this

1st offense warning...

2nd harder warning...

3rd whooping( belt)

4th extinction cord..

How me and my 3 bros were raised....I dont think any parents just come off with the belt after the first bad thing done

not unless your ass cant stay outta trouble an cops always knocking on the front door
 
This is what did him in. (on top of the video)

"According to the police report, one of the girls had visible welts on her legs and open wounds in the thigh area from being beaten with the video cable."
 
Like I said, that shit can do damage. Dude was whipping them girls like slaves and injured them in the same way. That's too much. And the mother agreed.
 
pralims;5658365 said:
damobb2deep;5658008 said:
DNB1;5657710 said:
Lol @ some of the comments...

What you niggas fail to realise is that if you need to beat a child with a cable cord, you already lost with you're parenting skills. Just goes to show that you can't handle reasoning with them and showing them the error of there ways without physical contact....loser ass parents.

If you're child only understands physical discipline, the long term effects are negative and reoccurring. Hence the child grows up to be the same.

And these girls will probably end up with a man that beats they ass...and when daddy goes to the hospital to pick up his busted up daughters...he can blame himself.

They say that females are drawn to men that display the same qualities as there father....

When I usta get whooped it went like this

1st offense warning...

2nd harder warning...

3rd whooping( belt)

4th extinction cord..

Most parents dont come out da gate wit da cord unless they told u multiple times about somthing or u doing somthin COMPLETELY out of line i.e. being a 12-14 year old girl twerking on da net...

this is how i was taught. and you know something, i have much respect for my elders. i learned good or so i think they are good decision making skills, because i have to think about the consequence of my actions.

did my parents beat my ass...yes. did i always need my ass whipped, no. did my dad talk to me after an ass whipping, yes.

Many times this part is left out. It's all "Whoop ass, don't explain shit to them. They're kids, they don't deserve an explanation"
 
Elzo69Revolutions;5658247 said:
blackrain;5658229 said:
Elzo69Revolutions;5658213 said:
blackrain;5658144 said:
Elzo69Revolutions;5658040 said:
He did the right thing cuz those are his kids ...he can discipline them however he wants

So a person should be able to beat their kids black and blue if they feel it's discipline? Not saying that's what this dad did, but saying a person can discipline their kids how they want is a dangerous thing to promote

How?

Answer this...do you think you should be able to hit a child like they're a full grown adult?

How u gonna answer a question with a question..and 2. Define child...3. He used a belt. And took it easy on them..

I did that to see just exactly where you were going with your original question. A child to me is between the age of new born-12/13 depending on maturity. If what that mom saw is true, I don't think taking it easy leaves welts and open wounds
 
Bender Rodriguez;5658510 said:
When I usta get whooped it went like this

1st offense warning...

2nd harder warning...

3rd whooping( belt)

4th extinction cord..

How me and my 3 bros were raised....I dont think any parents just come off with the belt after the first bad thing done

Some do, I know I had one of them.
 
Stopitfive;5658692 said:
White ppl want black men out of the family structure so bad...

Underrated post here...

Ive heard stories from friends dat had dads n dey life and the words "ima tell yo Daddy" will make a Lil chief keef turn 2 a drake in a snap...
 
BoldChild;5658631 said:
This is what did him in. (on top of the video)

"According to the police report, one of the girls had visible welts on her legs and open wounds in the thigh area from being beaten with the video cable."

Finally answering the thread title.

He went too far.
 
BoldChild;5658762 said:
BoldChild;5658631 said:
This is what did him in. (on top of the video)

"According to the police report, one of the girls had visible welts on her legs and open wounds in the thigh area from being beaten with the video cable."

Finally answering the thread title.

He went too far.

Like I said, you can't be beating the skin off somebody's legs. That's ridiculous
 
blackrain;5658683 said:
pralims;5658365 said:
damobb2deep;5658008 said:
DNB1;5657710 said:
Lol @ some of the comments...

What you niggas fail to realise is that if you need to beat a child with a cable cord, you already lost with you're parenting skills. Just goes to show that you can't handle reasoning with them and showing them the error of there ways without physical contact....loser ass parents.

If you're child only understands physical discipline, the long term effects are negative and reoccurring. Hence the child grows up to be the same.

And these girls will probably end up with a man that beats they ass...and when daddy goes to the hospital to pick up his busted up daughters...he can blame himself.

They say that females are drawn to men that display the same qualities as there father....

When I usta get whooped it went like this

1st offense warning...

2nd harder warning...

3rd whooping( belt)

4th extinction cord..

Most parents dont come out da gate wit da cord unless they told u multiple times about somthing or u doing somthin COMPLETELY out of line i.e. being a 12-14 year old girl twerking on da net...

this is how i was taught. and you know something, i have much respect for my elders. i learned good or so i think they are good decision making skills, because i have to think about the consequence of my actions.

did my parents beat my ass...yes. did i always need my ass whipped, no. did my dad talk to me after an ass whipping, yes.

Many times this part is left out. It's all "Whoop ass, don't explain shit to them. They're kids, they don't deserve an explanation"

but why does it need to be said?

why cant it just be assumed that it happened?

when my parents talked about my punishments ...they only said they whipped my ass.

when i talk about punishments with my kids...i just say i whipped they ass.

its assumed that a talk will follow unless its some crazy nigga we talking about.
 
obnoxiouslyfresh;5658790 said:
BoldChild;5658762 said:
BoldChild;5658631 said:
This is what did him in. (on top of the video)

"According to the police report, one of the girls had visible welts on her legs and open wounds in the thigh area from being beaten with the video cable."

Finally answering the thread title.

He went too far.

Like I said, you can't be beating the skin off somebody's legs. That's ridiculous

its not like they was bare legged and i doubt he meant to do it.

but i can understand his anger.

im not sure if you have a daughter, but most good dads see their daughter as the exception to the hoe rule. when something goes against your belief.... a nigga like me would kill a brick

 
pralims;5658983 said:
obnoxiouslyfresh;5658790 said:
BoldChild;5658762 said:
BoldChild;5658631 said:
This is what did him in. (on top of the video)

"According to the police report, one of the girls had visible welts on her legs and open wounds in the thigh area from being beaten with the video cable."

Finally answering the thread title.

He went too far.

Like I said, you can't be beating the skin off somebody's legs. That's ridiculous

its not like they was bare legged and i doubt he meant to do it.

but i can understand his anger.

im not sure if you have a daughter, but most good dads see their daughter as the exception to the hoe rule. when something goes against your belief.... a nigga like me would kill a brick

That actually makes it worse and furthers the point he went too far if they had open wounds on places on their body that was covered up

 
pralims;5658971 said:
blackrain;5658683 said:
pralims;5658365 said:
damobb2deep;5658008 said:
DNB1;5657710 said:
Lol @ some of the comments...

What you niggas fail to realise is that if you need to beat a child with a cable cord, you already lost with you're parenting skills. Just goes to show that you can't handle reasoning with them and showing them the error of there ways without physical contact....loser ass parents.

If you're child only understands physical discipline, the long term effects are negative and reoccurring. Hence the child grows up to be the same.

And these girls will probably end up with a man that beats they ass...and when daddy goes to the hospital to pick up his busted up daughters...he can blame himself.

They say that females are drawn to men that display the same qualities as there father....

When I usta get whooped it went like this

1st offense warning...

2nd harder warning...

3rd whooping( belt)

4th extinction cord..

Most parents dont come out da gate wit da cord unless they told u multiple times about somthing or u doing somthin COMPLETELY out of line i.e. being a 12-14 year old girl twerking on da net...

this is how i was taught. and you know something, i have much respect for my elders. i learned good or so i think they are good decision making skills, because i have to think about the consequence of my actions.

did my parents beat my ass...yes. did i always need my ass whipped, no. did my dad talk to me after an ass whipping, yes.

Many times this part is left out. It's all "Whoop ass, don't explain shit to them. They're kids, they don't deserve an explanation"

but why does it need to be said?

why cant it just be assumed that it happened?

when my parents talked about my punishments ...they only said they whipped my ass.

when i talk about punishments with my kids...i just say i whipped they ass.

its assumed that a talk will follow unless its some crazy nigga we talking about.

I don't assume shit from people...and truthfully the way some folks talk about whooping their kids is like they get some sadistic pleasure out of it. Like they just waiting for the next chance to do it so they can have another "I whooped my kid's ass story". I hear and have heard way too many parents brag about how badly they were able to make their kid cry while whooping them. There's something wrong with that
 
where can i send money to his legal defense fund......... oh and if the ass whoopin dont put a welt on the skin then it aint done right word to ma dukes switches...... thanks for them ass whoopins mom
 
blackrain;5659012 said:
pralims;5658971 said:
blackrain;5658683 said:
pralims;5658365 said:
damobb2deep;5658008 said:
DNB1;5657710 said:
Lol @ some of the comments...

What you niggas fail to realise is that if you need to beat a child with a cable cord, you already lost with you're parenting skills. Just goes to show that you can't handle reasoning with them and showing them the error of there ways without physical contact....loser ass parents.

If you're child only understands physical discipline, the long term effects are negative and reoccurring. Hence the child grows up to be the same.

And these girls will probably end up with a man that beats they ass...and when daddy goes to the hospital to pick up his busted up daughters...he can blame himself.

They say that females are drawn to men that display the same qualities as there father....

When I usta get whooped it went like this

1st offense warning...

2nd harder warning...

3rd whooping( belt)

4th extinction cord..

Most parents dont come out da gate wit da cord unless they told u multiple times about somthing or u doing somthin COMPLETELY out of line i.e. being a 12-14 year old girl twerking on da net...

this is how i was taught. and you know something, i have much respect for my elders. i learned good or so i think they are good decision making skills, because i have to think about the consequence of my actions.

did my parents beat my ass...yes. did i always need my ass whipped, no. did my dad talk to me after an ass whipping, yes.

Many times this part is left out. It's all "Whoop ass, don't explain shit to them. They're kids, they don't deserve an explanation"

but why does it need to be said?

why cant it just be assumed that it happened?

when my parents talked about my punishments ...they only said they whipped my ass.

when i talk about punishments with my kids...i just say i whipped they ass.

its assumed that a talk will follow unless its some crazy nigga we talking about.

I don't assume shit from people...and truthfully the way some folks talk about whooping their kids is like they get some sadistic pleasure out of it. Like they just waiting for the next chance to do it so they can have another "I whooped my kid's ass story". I hear and have heard way too many parents brag about how badly they were able to make their kid cry while whooping them. There's something wrong with that

i dont know one...not one parent that ever got joy out of whipping their kids. when people talk about the whippings its not braggin they just sharing "parent" stories an they are funny after the fact. most parents feel bad after they gotta whip they child but it has to be done

hell some people talk about how they got they ass beat by they parents...dont mean they braggin. i didnt get pleasure from that shit.

i talk about how my brothers used to whip my ass when we was little....dont mean i braggin or got some sort of pleasure out of it.

you say you are not assuming....but you did assume he didnt say shit to them. you did think he was too hard on them. you dont know the background yet, you can say he was too hard on them.

i think you are looking at this too deep or maybe you have your reasons why you feel like this outside of the fact you feel its just not right....just saying
 
pralims;5659161 said:
blackrain;5659012 said:
pralims;5658971 said:
blackrain;5658683 said:
pralims;5658365 said:
damobb2deep;5658008 said:
DNB1;5657710 said:
Lol @ some of the comments...

What you niggas fail to realise is that if you need to beat a child with a cable cord, you already lost with you're parenting skills. Just goes to show that you can't handle reasoning with them and showing them the error of there ways without physical contact....loser ass parents.

If you're child only understands physical discipline, the long term effects are negative and reoccurring. Hence the child grows up to be the same.

And these girls will probably end up with a man that beats they ass...and when daddy goes to the hospital to pick up his busted up daughters...he can blame himself.

They say that females are drawn to men that display the same qualities as there father....

When I usta get whooped it went like this

1st offense warning...

2nd harder warning...

3rd whooping( belt)

4th extinction cord..

Most parents dont come out da gate wit da cord unless they told u multiple times about somthing or u doing somthin COMPLETELY out of line i.e. being a 12-14 year old girl twerking on da net...

this is how i was taught. and you know something, i have much respect for my elders. i learned good or so i think they are good decision making skills, because i have to think about the consequence of my actions.

did my parents beat my ass...yes. did i always need my ass whipped, no. did my dad talk to me after an ass whipping, yes.

Many times this part is left out. It's all "Whoop ass, don't explain shit to them. They're kids, they don't deserve an explanation"

but why does it need to be said?

why cant it just be assumed that it happened?

when my parents talked about my punishments ...they only said they whipped my ass.

when i talk about punishments with my kids...i just say i whipped they ass.

its assumed that a talk will follow unless its some crazy nigga we talking about.

I don't assume shit from people...and truthfully the way some folks talk about whooping their kids is like they get some sadistic pleasure out of it. Like they just waiting for the next chance to do it so they can have another "I whooped my kid's ass story". I hear and have heard way too many parents brag about how badly they were able to make their kid cry while whooping them. There's something wrong with that

i dont know one...not one parent that ever got joy out of whipping their kids. when people talk about the whippings its not braggin they just sharing "parent" stories an they are funny after the fact. most parents feel bad after they gotta whip they child but it has to be done

hell some people talk about how they got they ass beat by they parents...dont mean they braggin. i didnt get pleasure from that shit.

i talk about how my brothers used to whip my ass when we was little....dont mean i braggin or got some sort of pleasure out of it.

you say you are not assuming....but you did assume he didnt say shit to them. you did think he was too hard on them. you dont know the background yet, you can say he was too hard on them.

i think you are looking at this too deep or maybe you have your reasons why you feel like this outside of the fact you feel its just not right....just saying

I didn't assume about this situation...I think he went too far because, as been said, when you to the point you leaving open wounds on your child that's crossing the line of discipline and I think that can be agreed upon regardless of my or anyone else's personal history is. Before that fact even came to light, I thought it was too much because it was clear the father wasn't reacting on some "Let me discipline them" he was reacting out of anger plain and simple. I never spoke on the father saying or not saying shit to them...me saying it went too far is specifically talking about the video. The talking aspect is just another part of the discussion that came up...

 

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