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Did she just ask him to apologize for a rape he was acquitted for?
D0wn;9409526 said:obnoxiouslyfresh;9409226 said:D0wn;9409191 said:Westie;9409097 said:D0wn;9408593 said:Westie;9407280 said:Brother_Five;9407210 said:obnoxiouslyfresh;9407208 said:Brother_Five;9407206 said:Fuck out of here
U don't give ppl an opportunity to apologize for some shit they said they didn't do
If u did that in real life it would be a fucking problem
These folks got y'all all twisted and confused
Find the word apologize in my post.
Don't try to play word games or do mental gymnastics with me fam
Why the fuck should he feel empathy for someone who (in his eyes) tried to ruin his life?
Why should he take the opportunity to be remorseful for some shot that you all imagined?
Also, the fact that u hold unrepentant convicted lunatic Charles Manson in higher regard than this dude shows how easily manipulated the population is
Brother_Five;9407206 said:Fuck out of here
U don't give ppl an opportunity to apologize for some shit they said they didn't do
If u did that in real life it would be a fucking problem
These folks got y'all all twisted and confused
Hold up though, I get him not wanting to apologize due to the legalities and maybe he feels like he wasn't wrong in the treatment of this woman, but why is he implying regret here?
http://www.ebony.com/entertainment-culture/nate-parker-rape-charges-consent#axzz4MIp1FCt3I’m trying to absorb a lot of information. I watched The Hunting Ground. I read Roxane Gay’s open letter, I read Maiysha Kai’s open letter, I read Demetria D’Oyley. Just to really…what do I need to learn about the situation? If I’m really down…if I’m really serious about changing my attitude, if I’m really serious that those comments are wrong, then what do I need to be feeling? And how do I get to that place that there’s an assault against women?
So I sat my daughter down and I talked about this specific situation, it wasn’t the first time because when she became a certain age I talked about it to her anyway. But I said you know, I gotta look at the situation as an opportunity to grow and become more empathetic and more sensitive to issues to that are outside of my everyday, and I don’t want to send you to college and say, “Be careful and watch out.” I said that, for one, when you’re in a relationship with someone you have to be in control of that relationship and you have to be as open as you can about everything, straight up, out the gate. We have a very unique relationship because I don’t ever want her to feel like she can’t come to me, so I allow her to talk to me about everything, which is hard. Being a woman in 2016 if very different, imagine being a woman 20 years ago, and when we talk about consent, maybe 20 years from now we’ll know things about consent and examine it from a different perspective than we are now.
I’ll say this, this whole situation I’m approaching from a standpoint of humility. I’m sorry for all the women who are survivors who felt hurt by my words because they were insensitive and they were nonchalant.
EBONY.com: I think the thing that could have perhaps handled this differently is if you came off more contrite from the jump. Like you said, if you had more empathy from the beginning, or if it wasn’t as self-focused…
Nate Parker: But you know what, I was…
EBONY.com: So why did you give those two interviews first? Because I feel like I had read some articles [about the rape case], but it wasn’t like this thing, until…
Nate Parker: This is hard; I’ve been trying to figure out how to say this. Not everyone has the best intentions. I thought I was giving the interview, at the time of those two interviews–and one really just bit off the other–I didn’t know the status of the women. I didn’t know. I was acting as if I was the victim, and that’s wrong. I was acting as if I was the victim because I felt like, my only thought was I’m innocent and everyone needs to know. I didn’t even think for a second about her, not even for a second.
You asked me why I wasn’t empathetic? Why didn’t it come off more empathetic? Because I wasn’t being empathetic. Why didn’t it come off more contrite? Because I wasn’t being contrite. Maybe I was being even arrogant. And learning about her passing shook me, it really did. It really shook me.
So now he forgot he was empathetic???
Yaaaaawwwwnnn
I always knew that bullshit Vibe article pandering to liberal whts, and blk feminist was gonna come back to bite Nate in the ass.Trying to empathise WILL NEVER WORK, WHEN THE OUTRAGE IS FAKE.
Y'all tried to pull the same FAKE OUTRAGE, on Micheal B Jordan just last year.
The only difference is, Micheal B. didn't have rape charges looming over him..
From 1999...
Where was this outrage when "Beyond The Lights Came Out???", The fake victim killed herself in 2012, Y'all rushed to see "Beyond The Lights" in 2014...
What i find funny is, y'all always fail to bring up the fact that, the fake victim falsely accused her own sister,
and her brother-in-law of kidnapping...
the fake victim was arrested, and put in rehab. after the fake victim came out of rehab, her family wasn't fucking with her like that, so she killed herself.
Don't "yall " me. I don't even know wtf you're talking about with Michael b Jordan.
I'm not outraged in the LEAST BIT. I'm sick of you niggas putting words in my fucking mouth.
Nigga plzzz. U and your fem-ah-nazi cohorts were trying to tear down micheal b last year, when creed was dropping.
"we're not gonna support him with our coins" :'(
"He called us female, that word... it's deragatory " :'(
"He don't respect blk women" :'(
"He's a misogynoir" :'(
Don't let me get started on Straight Outta Compton...
Wouldn't be surprised, if next year y'all pull this b.s on the blk panther movie...
And Ppl like @obnoxiouslyfresh could stay her ass home, or donate that money to Trump's campaign Cause, if ppl like her had their way, they'd be no Nat Turner movie.
Nigga I was reading about Nat Turner and Haile Selassie in high school when you was somewhere shittin in in pampers. Fuck outta here
What does all that have 2do with u, attempting to Sabotage this film from coming out???
Sabotage??? Wtf
The Lonious Monk
New member
deadeye;9409459 said:The Lonious Monk;9407752 said:most black men still work on the idea that men can't be raped by a woman.
The only way a man can be raped is by another man.
nh.
People have too many variations of what they define as rape.
Simply speaking, rape is forcible penetration against one's will.
Therefore, if someone hasn't been forcibly penetrated against their will........they haven't been raped.
Basically, the penetrator isn't a rape victim.......only the person being penetrated is.
Legally, that's not true, and you might not want to live according to definitions you make up.
obnoxiouslyfresh
New member
D0wn;9409526 said:obnoxiouslyfresh;9409226 said:D0wn;9409191 said:Westie;9409097 said:D0wn;9408593 said:Westie;9407280 said:Brother_Five;9407210 said:obnoxiouslyfresh;9407208 said:Brother_Five;9407206 said:Fuck out of here
U don't give ppl an opportunity to apologize for some shit they said they didn't do
If u did that in real life it would be a fucking problem
These folks got y'all all twisted and confused
Find the word apologize in my post.
Don't try to play word games or do mental gymnastics with me fam
Why the fuck should he feel empathy for someone who (in his eyes) tried to ruin his life?
Why should he take the opportunity to be remorseful for some shot that you all imagined?
Also, the fact that u hold unrepentant convicted lunatic Charles Manson in higher regard than this dude shows how easily manipulated the population is
Brother_Five;9407206 said:Fuck out of here
U don't give ppl an opportunity to apologize for some shit they said they didn't do
If u did that in real life it would be a fucking problem
These folks got y'all all twisted and confused
Hold up though, I get him not wanting to apologize due to the legalities and maybe he feels like he wasn't wrong in the treatment of this woman, but why is he implying regret here?
http://www.ebony.com/entertainment-culture/nate-parker-rape-charges-consent#axzz4MIp1FCt3I’m trying to absorb a lot of information. I watched The Hunting Ground. I read Roxane Gay’s open letter, I read Maiysha Kai’s open letter, I read Demetria D’Oyley. Just to really…what do I need to learn about the situation? If I’m really down…if I’m really serious about changing my attitude, if I’m really serious that those comments are wrong, then what do I need to be feeling? And how do I get to that place that there’s an assault against women?
So I sat my daughter down and I talked about this specific situation, it wasn’t the first time because when she became a certain age I talked about it to her anyway. But I said you know, I gotta look at the situation as an opportunity to grow and become more empathetic and more sensitive to issues to that are outside of my everyday, and I don’t want to send you to college and say, “Be careful and watch out.” I said that, for one, when you’re in a relationship with someone you have to be in control of that relationship and you have to be as open as you can about everything, straight up, out the gate. We have a very unique relationship because I don’t ever want her to feel like she can’t come to me, so I allow her to talk to me about everything, which is hard. Being a woman in 2016 if very different, imagine being a woman 20 years ago, and when we talk about consent, maybe 20 years from now we’ll know things about consent and examine it from a different perspective than we are now.
I’ll say this, this whole situation I’m approaching from a standpoint of humility. I’m sorry for all the women who are survivors who felt hurt by my words because they were insensitive and they were nonchalant.
EBONY.com: I think the thing that could have perhaps handled this differently is if you came off more contrite from the jump. Like you said, if you had more empathy from the beginning, or if it wasn’t as self-focused…
Nate Parker: But you know what, I was…
EBONY.com: So why did you give those two interviews first? Because I feel like I had read some articles [about the rape case], but it wasn’t like this thing, until…
Nate Parker: This is hard; I’ve been trying to figure out how to say this. Not everyone has the best intentions. I thought I was giving the interview, at the time of those two interviews–and one really just bit off the other–I didn’t know the status of the women. I didn’t know. I was acting as if I was the victim, and that’s wrong. I was acting as if I was the victim because I felt like, my only thought was I’m innocent and everyone needs to know. I didn’t even think for a second about her, not even for a second.
You asked me why I wasn’t empathetic? Why didn’t it come off more empathetic? Because I wasn’t being empathetic. Why didn’t it come off more contrite? Because I wasn’t being contrite. Maybe I was being even arrogant. And learning about her passing shook me, it really did. It really shook me.
So now he forgot he was empathetic???
Yaaaaawwwwnnn
I always knew that bullshit Vibe article pandering to liberal whts, and blk feminist was gonna come back to bite Nate in the ass.Trying to empathise WILL NEVER WORK, WHEN THE OUTRAGE IS FAKE.
Y'all tried to pull the same FAKE OUTRAGE, on Micheal B Jordan just last year.
The only difference is, Micheal B. didn't have rape charges looming over him..
From 1999...
Where was this outrage when "Beyond The Lights Came Out???", The fake victim killed herself in 2012, Y'all rushed to see "Beyond The Lights" in 2014...
What i find funny is, y'all always fail to bring up the fact that, the fake victim falsely accused her own sister,
and her brother-in-law of kidnapping...
the fake victim was arrested, and put in rehab. after the fake victim came out of rehab, her family wasn't fucking with her like that, so she killed herself.
Don't "yall " me. I don't even know wtf you're talking about with Michael b Jordan.
I'm not outraged in the LEAST BIT. I'm sick of you niggas putting words in my fucking mouth.
Nigga plzzz. U and your fem-ah-nazi cohorts were trying to tear down micheal b last year, when creed was dropping.
"we're not gonna support him with our coins" :'(
"He called us female, that word... it's deragatory " :'(
"He don't respect blk women" :'(
"He's a misogynoir" :'(
Don't let me get started on Straight Outta Compton...
Wouldn't be surprised, if next year y'all pull this b.s on the blk panther movie...
And Ppl like @obnoxiouslyfresh could stay her ass home, or donate that money to Trump's campaign Cause, if ppl like her had their way, they'd be no Nat Turner movie.
Nigga I was reading about Nat Turner and Haile Selassie in high school when you was somewhere shittin in in pampers. Fuck outta here
What does all that have 2do with u, attempting to Sabotage this film from coming out???
Sabotage ? So you're just making stuff up? You didn't read where I said I am going to buy a ticket to the movie? You just missed that part, right?
dalyricalbandit
Moderator
Good the network didn't get what they wanted
desertrain10
New member
The Lonious Monk;9409587 said:deadeye;9409459 said:The Lonious Monk;9407752 said:most black men still work on the idea that men can't be raped by a woman.
The only way a man can be raped is by another man.
nh.
People have too many variations of what they define as rape.
Simply speaking, rape is forcible penetration against one's will.
Therefore, if someone hasn't been forcibly penetrated against their will........they haven't been raped.
Basically, the penetrator isn't a rape victim.......only the person being penetrated is.
Legally, that's not true, and you might not want to live according to definitions you make up.
Right
Wtf...
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Bussy_Getta
New member
deadeye;9409459 said:The Lonious Monk;9407752 said:most black men still work on the idea that men can't be raped by a woman.
The only way a man can be raped is by another man.
nh.
People have too many variations of what they define as rape.
Simply speaking, rape is forcible penetration against one's will.
Therefore, if someone hasn't been forcibly penetrated against their will........they haven't been raped.
Basically, the penetrator isn't a rape victim.......only the person being penetrated is.
Strap ons exist.
Don't get compromised, deadeye.
The Lonious Monk;9409587 said:deadeye;9409459 said:The Lonious Monk;9407752 said:most black men still work on the idea that men can't be raped by a woman.
The only way a man can be raped is by another man.
nh.
People have too many variations of what they define as rape.
Simply speaking, rape is forcible penetration against one's will.
Therefore, if someone hasn't been forcibly penetrated against their will........they haven't been raped.
Basically, the penetrator isn't a rape victim.......only the person being penetrated is.
Legally, that's not true,
Hence the reason why I said there are too many variations of rape definitions.
BoyPussy;9409910 said:deadeye;9409459 said:The Lonious Monk;9407752 said:most black men still work on the idea that men can't be raped by a woman.
The only way a man can be raped is by another man.
nh.
People have too many variations of what they define as rape.
Simply speaking, rape is forcible penetration against one's will.
Therefore, if someone hasn't been forcibly penetrated against their will........they haven't been raped.
Basically, the penetrator isn't a rape victim.......only the person being penetrated is.
Strap ons exist.
That doesn't contradict anything I said.
Basically, if you're penetrating someone.........in that specific incident.........you are not a victim of rape.
Mainly addressing the pc bullshit when people say a female teacher "raped" one of her male students.
Granted, she should legally be punished the same way as a man would be for doing the same thing.........but, as long as she didn't penetrate him.......she didn't rape him.
nh
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leftcoastkev
New member
Why doesn't girl on girl rape get more coverage....?
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/female-soldier-jailed-sexually-assaulting-7585376
A woman soldier has been jailed for seven years and dismissed in disgrace from the Army for sexually assaulting a female colleague after telling her she would "make her gay".
Lance Corporal Hannah Heslop, 25, sexually assaulted the woman when she had fallen asleep in her bed following a night out.
Lesbians getting falsely accused of raping little girls......
http://www.innocenceproject.org/san-antonio-four-wrongly-accused-rape-lesbians/
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leftcoastkev;9410095 said:Why doesn't girl on girl rape get more coverage....?
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/female-soldier-jailed-sexually-assaulting-7585376
A woman soldier has been jailed for seven years and dismissed in disgrace from the Army for sexually assaulting a female colleague after telling her she would "make her gay".
Lance Corporal Hannah Heslop, 25, sexually assaulted the woman when she had fallen asleep in her bed following a night out.
Lesbians getting falsely accused of raping little girls......
http://www.innocenceproject.org/san-antonio-four-wrongly-accused-rape-lesbians/
What does this have to do with this topic? That's like saying why does every other sexual assault case in the world not get attention?
deadeye;9409411 said:D. Morgan;9407311 said:Westie;9407294 said:ghostdog56;9407292 said:Westie;9407282 said:ghostdog56;9407222 said:Their is a difference between rape and being taken advantage of this white bitch got taken advantage of
So it's not rape then if the woman's unconscious right? Like passed out and someone fucks her because that's along the same lines. Because you can't say no and someone took advantage of her unconscious body.
Take responsibility for your actions she shouldn't have put herself in that situation. If I pass out drunk and wake up with my wallet missing I have to chalk it up to poor decision making on my part
Having your wallet missing and your body forcibly entered into are two different things. That is fucking ridiculous. So a woman needs to take responsibility for passing out and leaving her vagina unattended but the nigga who
forced himself into that vagina shouldn't?
But why yall jumping on the man who DIDN'T force himself on her?
Nate Parker was found NOT GUILTY!!!
The outrage is fake as shit because the co-writer of the movie was found guilty
Although the co-writer was originally found guilty, the guilty verdict was eventually overturned and he was found not guilty on appeal.
I know that.
My point is that the outrage is fake as shit cause people are going at Nate Parker who was found not guilty off the break. Yet none of them are saying anything about the man who at one point was found guilty locked up for 2 years and is also a big part of the movie.
My wife and I went to see the movie last night.
We both want to see it again so we will probably go again sometime next week.
The movie brought up a lot of emotions and feelings. It also made me think about my past, present and future.
I hope folks go see the movie and support it. The movie is worth yalls time and support.
We both want to see it again so we will probably go again sometime next week.
The movie brought up a lot of emotions and feelings. It also made me think about my past, present and future.
I hope folks go see the movie and support it. The movie is worth yalls time and support.
The Lonious Monk
New member
deadeye;9410086 said:The Lonious Monk;9409587 said:deadeye;9409459 said:The Lonious Monk;9407752 said:most black men still work on the idea that men can't be raped by a woman.
The only way a man can be raped is by another man.
nh.
People have too many variations of what they define as rape.
Simply speaking, rape is forcible penetration against one's will.
Therefore, if someone hasn't been forcibly penetrated against their will........they haven't been raped.
Basically, the penetrator isn't a rape victim.......only the person being penetrated is.
Legally, that's not true,
Hence the reason why I said there are too many variations of rape definitions.
While, I would agree that the definition of rap is a bit nebulous at times lending itself to interpretations that shouldn't fit, your definition is too narrow by pretty much every standard.
Elzo69Renaissance
New member
I'm going tonight and tomorrow morning lol 2 phones.....but naw u monkey ass niggas need to have yall asses in there. ..mother fuckery always complaining about the lack of black positive historical based stories being told by Hollywood....well we got one and we need to make this shit number 1
