jetlifebih;c-10112440 said:blackrain;c-10112284 said:jetlifebih;c-10111703 said:twenty2;c-10111678 said:jetlifebih;c-10111620 said:twenty2;c-10111584 said:jetlifebih;c-10111437 said:playmaker88;c-10111413 said:I always say you can blame them for your conditions but not your actions
That’s ignorant of the nature nurture relationship tho and that’s my whole gripe with Denzel’s sentiments....
In theory he’s right but the reality of the situation is...he’s mentioning black peoples problems without mentioning the causes....any doctor will tell you in order to get rid of a cold you gotta kill the virus not cure the runny nose or aches...sure stop pointing out the fact that we have a runny nose, or a fever....point out the got dam virus that’s causing our nose to run and body tenpature to change in order to fight the infection
So by that example... If you know of a way or ways to avoid the virus and lessen your odds of coming in contact with it...would you not? And if and when you do happen to get sick cuz you refuse to wear a hat and gloves...is someone not there to point out when you get sick (usually ya mama, who been tellin you "Boy, put on ya damn hat!"), "That's what happens when you don't wear a hat."???
Is the system is fucked up and unfair? ... Absolutely. We've learned and known this since we got kidnapped and brought to this muthafucka. The question I always ask is...
If you know they aimin at you, why you gon' jump in front of the bullet?
The virus being this system.....you can’t avoid it....as much as i hate the way capitalism operates...i have no choice but to partake in it , as much as i can do without...even “living off the grid” can only alleviate some of the issues....
My analogy about the doctor was strictly to point out that it makes no sense to treat our symptoms of mass incarceration instead of attacking the system....as pointed out earlier by madame, poverty is just about as close to the root of the problem as you can get without saying white people and slavery and what followed after are / was / is the problem
The funny thing is if you look at the incarceration percentage by race .....it will clearly show you that the issue is outside of home....there are more black people in prison in the us than there are prisoners in countries like Japan and other big first world countries....
My nigga there’s nothing inside the home that can fix that lolol....740,000 black MEN in prison and roughly 33-40,000 black women in prison....we make up over 50% of prison population while being only 13 in some change % of the total population .....my nigga that’s not home training lol that’s system racism/oppression....tf is wrong with y’all niggas??
I love Denzel like a uncle....but my family would
Never get a pass talking crazy like this ....
Wait... So you mean to tell me that there is NO way(s) to avoid the prison system? And IF, even by chance there was, that home training plays no part in that?
There is no way that every single african American can avoid the United States Criminal justice system...can one ? Yes, can 2 ? yes, can 3? Yes... can more than half?? stats say no....and the reason is not because we aren’t being properly trained at home LOL think about it...Its almost a common black comedy routine to talk about how strict our moms and grandmothers are...the average african American mother or grandmother is strict or at least has the respect of the average african American child, it’s usually one group you see run all over their parents....
Tbh it’s not home training, it’s social training and or conditioning....we gotta turn them tvs off and social media has to be limited...but again I’m speaking from a collective...y’all sound like “i got mines i don’t know why y’all won’t act right and get yours too” type niggas...shit is set up for a select few to appear to be doing ok, while the rest suffer...and those who are selected can’t see it cause *que the movie where the white dude says “If you take him away from the group for a while he will feel like he is one of us”
The bold goes against what some niggas been saying over the past few threads about women and their lack of ability to maintain control and/or raise young boys and garner respect from them
There’s context and layers
Niggas who was raised by they Grandma’s was still in the streets, niggas who had strict moms but moms wasn’t there because she was working we’re too, it’s not that simple...the average bm has respect for his mom and grandma, it’s the lack of male figure to teach the bm how to pattern his behavior and enforce discipline that has young niggas wildin
But running over your stay at home mom is different than doing dirt when and because moms isn’t around and keeping it as quiet as possible
I understand context and nuance. Hence why I say using generalizations to make points is a faulty way of doing things. You're agreeing with what I'm saying. I'm pretty much saying this stance goes against the stance others have taken with regard to women...while Lem's statement directly shits on those who do agree with stances shown in other threads. So niggas is either going to ether themselves/mothers or contradict themselves because they use a generalization to make a broad claim and purposely ignore or disregard the fact that context and nuance can change the perception of people/situations