cheating while married...let's talk.

[CottonCitySlim]

America is one of the few countries that doesn't allow pologomy. Look it up, it's mostly due to religion (new testament based). Men aren't supposed to have one women. We aren't wired that way, males of any species purpose is to reproduce.

Fuck it, I cheated 2 weeks after I got married...but I was overseas alone so it don't count...couldn't resist a thick Asian...

And twice while she went home to visit mother and sisters while pregnant and left me alone for months on end...

Didn't really matter cause there was no emotion with them other chicks, at the end of the day the wife was still number 1 emotionally.

Married 5 years and she never knew which was good for her, she was happy in ignorance.

Shit out of all the married couples I knew I can't think of one that had 2 people faithful. That's 8 years of military traveling all over and meeting thousands of married people. Was fucking married chicks when I was single and watching other people do dirt from the sidelines. It's a great site, they can be the best couple ever on some sitcom shit when together...but when they separate for a good amount of time, it's like a switch flips and people do dirt.

I blame the ring...from day one I put it on it was like I had a thunder cat symbol in the sky, women flocked soon as they spotted it. Hoes!

Also I ain't ever getting married again, it ain't for everyone.

 

[BeleeDatPleighboy]

America is one of the few countries that doesn't allow pologomy. Look it up, it's mostly due to religion (new testament based). Men aren't supposed to have one women. We aren't wired that way, males of any species purpose is to reproduce.

Fuck it, I cheated 2 weeks after I got married...but I was overseas alone so it don't count...couldn't resist a thick Asian...

And twice while she went home to visit mother and sisters while pregnant and left me alone for months on end...

Didn't really matter cause there was no emotion with them other chicks, at the end of the day the wife was still number 1 emotionally.

Married 5 years and she never knew which was good for her, she was happy in ignorance.

Shit out of all the married couples I knew I can't think of one that had 2 people faithful. That's 8 years of military traveling all over and meeting thousands of married people. Was fucking married chicks when I was single and watching other people do dirt from the sidelines. It's a great site, they can be the best couple ever on some sitcom shit when together...but when they separate for a good amount of time, it's like a switch flips and people do dirt.

I blame the ring...from day one I put it on it was like I had a thunder cat symbol in the sky, women flocked soon as they spotted it. Hoes!

Also I ain't ever getting married again, it ain't for everyone.

I feel you on that military aspect....seeing all these married ppl wylin while we overseas was crazy....I told myself...that aint gonna be me....needless to say....I slipped.....but you damn right about the bolded tho...

 

[Kat]

America is one of the few countries that doesn't allow pologomy. Look it up, it's mostly due to religion (new testament based). Men aren't supposed to have one women. We aren't wired that way, males of any species purpose is to reproduce.

Fuck it, I cheated 2 weeks after I got married...but I was overseas alone so it don't count...couldn't resist a thick Asian...

And twice while she went home to visit mother and sisters while pregnant and left me alone for months on end...

Didn't really matter cause there was no emotion with them other chicks, at the end of the day the wife was still number 1 emotionally.

Married 5 years and she never knew which was good for her, she was happy in ignorance.

Shit out of all the married couples I knew I can't think of one that had 2 people faithful. That's 8 years of military traveling all over and meeting thousands of married people. Was fucking married chicks when I was single and watching other people do dirt from the sidelines. It's a great site, they can be the best couple ever on some sitcom shit when together...but when they separate for a good amount of time, it's like a switch flips and people do dirt.

I blame the ring...from day one I put it on it was like I had a thunder cat symbol in the sky, women flocked soon as they spotted it. Hoes!

Also I ain't ever getting married again, it ain't for everyone.

You made that quite obvious.

 

[DNB1]

Damn this is a real ass thread, bravo IC yall keeping t grown and sexy in here.

That "keeping yourself out of compromising situations" is the best advice you can give to someone struggling with fidelity...because trust we are animals when its all said and done and youd ve surprised how fast that social conditioning goes out the window and that animal takes over.

I take pride in my discipline...there are just some things i wont do and cheating is one of them.

My wife cheated in the second year of our marriage, we seperated for like 2 months and i wanted out but after some reflecting and seeing how she was genuinely sorry i gave it another chance.

We just made 5 years and im still learning every day gonna just stick it out for now. Things are amazing.

Keep it classy IC im proud of yall.

Real nigga post...props

 

[Meta_Conscious]

Damn @Stopitfive you ain't shit.

How do you sleep at night.

:|

I sleep well knowing that I am true to myself... it took a lot to get me to the point of not giving a fuck...

I'm a man so I accept my wrong doing and make amends where applicable...

she mistreated a good nigga, so the good nigga became an asshole... so what?

 

[Dupac]

Damn @Stopitfive you ain't shit.

How do you sleep at night.

:|

I sleep well knowing that I am true to myself... it took a lot to get me to the point of not giving a fuck...

I'm a man so I accept my wrong doing and make amends where applicable...

she mistreated a good nigga, so the good nigga became an asshole... so what?

atleast he keeping it real....

 

[MARIO_DRO]

REAL TALK, IN THIS DAY AND AGE, CHICKS GIVE ZERO FUCKS IF A NIGGA IS MARRIED.. THEY BE LIKE "OH OK, SO WE FUCKIN OR WHAT"... ITS HARD TO TURN DOWN SOME GOOD HEAD AND PUSSY, BUT JUST LIKE YALL BEEN SAYING, YOU GOTTA KEEP YA SELF OUT OF THEM SITUATIONS..

 

[MARIO_DRO]

Damn this is a real ass thread, bravo IC yall keeping t grown and sexy in here.

That "keeping yourself out of compromising situations" is the best advice you can give to someone struggling with fidelity...because trust we are animals when its all said and done and youd ve surprised how fast that social conditioning goes out the window and that animal takes over.

I take pride in my discipline...there are just some things i wont do and cheating is one of them.

My wife cheated in the second year of our marriage, we seperated for like 2 months and i wanted out but after some reflecting and seeing how she was genuinely sorry i gave it another chance.

We just made 5 years and im still learning every day gonna just stick it out for now. Things are amazing.

Keep it classy IC im proud of yall.

MAN LOOK... MY WIFE EVEN LICKS HER LIPS AT A NIGGA AND IM GONE!... NOPE... I SO SOOWEE! YOU BREAK YOU BYE BYE!

I CANT DEAL!

 

[Kat]

Boog can stfu...I guess just telling your wife how you were feeling was too much or nah?

It ain't even about your trifling ass behavior honestly, it's about you constant comments while hiding this little tidbit of info.

smh..this is exactly why I take the judgement with a grain of salt.

Ain't nobody perfect.

 

[Kat]

Damn this is a real ass thread, bravo IC yall keeping t grown and sexy in here.

That "keeping yourself out of compromising situations" is the best advice you can give to someone struggling with fidelity...because trust we are animals when its all said and done and youd ve surprised how fast that social conditioning goes out the window and that animal takes over.

I take pride in my discipline...there are just some things i wont do and cheating is one of them.

My wife cheated in the second year of our marriage, we seperated for like 2 months and i wanted out but after some reflecting and seeing how she was genuinely sorry i gave it another chance.

We just made 5 years and im still learning every day gonna just stick it out for now. Things are amazing.

Keep it classy IC im proud of yall.

MAN LOOK... MY WIFE EVEN LICKS HER LIPS AT A NIGGA AND IM GONE!... NOPE... I SO SOOWEE! YOU BREAK YOU BYE BYE!

I CANT DEAL!

That's cause you're looking for an out already..an out that won't have you looking like the asshole.

You're going to leave her after all YOUR dirt? smh.

 

[MARIO_DRO]

Damn this is a real ass thread, bravo IC yall keeping t grown and sexy in here.

That "keeping yourself out of compromising situations" is the best advice you can give to someone struggling with fidelity...because trust we are animals when its all said and done and youd ve surprised how fast that social conditioning goes out the window and that animal takes over.

I take pride in my discipline...there are just some things i wont do and cheating is one of them.

My wife cheated in the second year of our marriage, we seperated for like 2 months and i wanted out but after some reflecting and seeing how she was genuinely sorry i gave it another chance.

We just made 5 years and im still learning every day gonna just stick it out for now. Things are amazing.

Keep it classy IC im proud of yall.

MAN LOOK... MY WIFE EVEN LICKS HER LIPS AT A NIGGA AND IM GONE!... NOPE... I SO SOOWEE! YOU BREAK YOU BYE BYE!

I CANT DEAL!

That's cause you're looking for an out already..an out that won't have you looking like the asshole.

You're going to leave her after all YOUR dirt? smh.

KATT, STOP ACTING LIKE YOU KNOW ME... I AINT LOOKIN FOR NO OUT... I CAN JUST LEAVE.. PLAIN AND SIMPLE.. SHE TAKES WHAT SHE BOUGHT AND I DO THE SAME..

AND I HAVE NO DIRT...WELL ONLY YOU.. YOU WANNA HOOK BACK UP?

 

[gorilla]

I cheated on my bm a few months after we got married. This dumb bitch waits until the night we got married, to tell me that she invited her fine best friend to come stay with us until she found a new place.

Long story short, bm started fallin off helluva "workin late", not cookin, no sexy time, none of that. So her girl peeped game. Next thing you know, I'm comin home to home cooked meals, shorty askin how my days was and shit.

I almost knocked her off one night, we was watching tv and she decided to play hide the remote. She put the remote in her bra and I said fuck this lemme take my ass to bed. I straight went in my room and locked the door.

After she moved out, she hit me up at work (I don't how she even got my work number). One thing led to another and I got a couple throat sessions outta her. So I guess I only cheated a little.

Yeah, I know I wasn't shit for that.

 

[Kat]

If you say so..the vibe you give says something different, but I could be wrong.

When you're being hard on your wife, just keep that in mind when determining how you're going to behave yourself.

And no thanks, I've moved on.

 

[Purr]

I cheated on my bm a few months after we got married. This dumb bitch waits until the night we got married, to tell me that she invited her fine best friend to come stay with us until she found a new place.

Long story short, bm started fallin off helluva "workin late", not cookin, no sexy time, none of that. So her girl peeped game. Next thing you know, I'm comin home to home cooked meals, shorty askin how my days was and shit.

I almost knocked her off one night, we was watching tv and she decided to play hide the remote. She put the remote in her bra and I said fuck this lemme take my ass to bed. I straight went in my room and locked the door.

After she moved out, she hit me up at work (I don't how she even got my work number). One thing led to another and I got a couple throat sessions outta her. So I guess I only cheated a little.

Yeah, I know I wasn't shit for that.

bitches ain't shit.

 

[gorilla]

I cheated on my bm a few months after we got married. This dumb bitch waits until the night we got married, to tell me that she invited her fine best friend to come stay with us until she found a new place.

Long story short, bm started fallin off helluva "workin late", not cookin, no sexy time, none of that. So her girl peeped game. Next thing you know, I'm comin home to home cooked meals, shorty askin how my days was and shit.

I almost knocked her off one night, we was watching tv and she decided to play hide the remote. She put the remote in her bra and I said fuck this lemme take my ass to bed. I straight went in my room and locked the door.

After she moved out, she hit me up at work (I don't how she even got my work number). One thing led to another and I got a couple throat sessions outta her. So I guess I only cheated a little.

Yeah, I know I wasn't shit for that.

bitches ain't shit.

That's what I tried to tell my ex wife. That bitch took advantage of me in my time of weakness.

She ain't believe me

 

[Purr]

I cheated on my bm a few months after we got married. This dumb bitch waits until the night we got married, to tell me that she invited her fine best friend to come stay with us until she found a new place.

Long story short, bm started fallin off helluva "workin late", not cookin, no sexy time, none of that. So her girl peeped game. Next thing you know, I'm comin home to home cooked meals, shorty askin how my days was and shit.

I almost knocked her off one night, we was watching tv and she decided to play hide the remote. She put the remote in her bra and I said fuck this lemme take my ass to bed. I straight went in my room and locked the door.

After she moved out, she hit me up at work (I don't how she even got my work number). One thing led to another and I got a couple throat sessions outta her. So I guess I only cheated a little.

Yeah, I know I wasn't shit for that.

bitches ain't shit.

That's what I tried to tell my ex wife. That bitch took advantage of me in my time of weakness.

She ain't believe me

of course because her friend told your ex wife that you were trying to hit on her.

you shouldve been up front about your ex wife friend doing these things for you. your ex wife wouldve stepped up and kick that bitch out.

 

[Kat]

Don't be mistaken, you ain't shit either...but she's extra ain't shit.

You can't even be a respectable cheat?

If a man will fuck with a close friend or family member, there is no hope for him..I'm out.

 

[MARIO_DRO]

Don't be mistaken, you ain't shit either...but she's extra ain't shit.

You can't even be a respectable cheat?

If a man will fuck with a close friend or family member, there is no hope for him..I'm out.

LOL @ EXTRA AINT SHYT

 

[gorilla]

I cheated on my bm a few months after we got married. This dumb bitch waits until the night we got married, to tell me that she invited her fine best friend to come stay with us until she found a new place.

Long story short, bm started fallin off helluva "workin late", not cookin, no sexy time, none of that. So her girl peeped game. Next thing you know, I'm comin home to home cooked meals, shorty askin how my days was and shit.

I almost knocked her off one night, we was watching tv and she decided to play hide the remote. She put the remote in her bra and I said fuck this lemme take my ass to bed. I straight went in my room and locked the door.

After she moved out, she hit me up at work (I don't how she even got my work number). One thing led to another and I got a couple throat sessions outta her. So I guess I only cheated a little.

Yeah, I know I wasn't shit for that.

bitches ain't shit.

That's what I tried to tell my ex wife. That bitch took advantage of me in my time of weakness.

She ain't believe me

of course because her friend told your ex wife that you were trying to hit on her.

you shouldve been up front about your ex wife friend doing these things for you. your ex wife wouldve stepped up and kick that bitch out.

I was. I sat her down on more than one occasion and told her she was slippin. She ain't straighten up. I was a young nigga with a young nigga attitude. My thinking was well if you won't another bitch will.

She eventually found out cuz my dumbass fucked around and left my email open one night.

The ex fucked up tho. She brought her into our house, slacked off, let ol girl see I was a good dude. She kinda brought it on herself. Plus I later found out that bitch was runnin round actin mannish. I started smashin this chick who cousin used to work with my ex. Shorty told me she ain't even know my ex was married cuz she was running round the job with no ring on and flirtin with niggas.

Justifiable cheat

 

[gorilla]

Don't be mistaken, you ain't shit either...but she's extra ain't shit.

You can't even be a respectable cheat?

If a man will fuck with a close friend or family member, there is no hope for him..I'm out.

I ain't "fuck", I just got the throat twice. And yes there is hope. Like I said, I was young and immature. I've since remarried and no longer practice such things. I'm faithful now