cheating while married...let's talk.

[bgoat]

A large % of men has cheated in a relationship at least once be it sexually or emotionally or even mentally. It's in a man's nature to be with more than one woman.

where does the bolded come from ?

I've seen comments like this or similar one's.... who decided that it's in a man's nature to want to be with more than one woman?

Instincts of mammals.

But isn't cheating a conscious decision...... are you saying men can't control themselves?

Not just men. All mammals, but of course some can control themselves.

 

[Crude_]

speaking for myself, and me alone...i just don't understand the risk....

damn near everything i do is weighed by consequences if shit goes wrong....

the consequences of cheating in a marriage outweigh any fuck in existence......shit's just not worth it..

at all...

Agreed you want get any arguments here particularly with the bolded.

Im not a cheater either but I do think you underestimate yout ability to be put in a compromising situation.

You say you faithful by ego @Du_Du but I say you are as faithful as your options and circumstances allow you to be.

Under the right circumstances and with the right option even the highly egotistical Du could possibly succumb to certain urges.

 

[Chi Snow]

Just had a 'marriage' talk on Saturday

Why can't my money be good enough, why she need my love and loyalty?

 

[BeleeDatPleighboy]

I believe it was/is God's intention for one man to be with one woman....but just like many other things....after the fall...this ideal was corrupted. I believe its not in a man's "nature" to be with multiple partners...its the deception that what God intended isnt good enough so we make our own rules....putting ourself above our creator...

 

[MsSouthern]

A large % of men has cheated in a relationship at least once be it sexually or emotionally or even mentally. It's in a man's nature to be with more than one woman.

where does the bolded come from ?

I've seen comments like this or similar one's.... who decided that it's in a man's nature to want to be with more than one woman?

men in the bible had more than one wife...i think thats what he is talking about. I could be wrong tho

But that's not nature.... that's something somebody decided and wrote about.

Not just men. All mammals, but of course some can control themselves.

I'm referring to @Cain1 statement about what's in a man's nature.....

Cheating is something a person decides to do....it's not like breathing or blinking ... which is involuntary.

 

[Meta_Conscious]

when I was married, I fucked everything moving... even had a couple chicks come to the crib and smash in our bed...

why?

I was young and felt like my wife didnt respect me... i didnt even consider it cheating because I told shorty I wouldnt stand for certain treatment...

 

[MsSouthern]

when I was married, I fucked everything moving... even had a couple chicks come to the crib and smash in our bed...

why?

I was young and felt like my wife didnt respect me... i didnt even consider it cheating because I told shorty I wouldnt stand for certain treatment...

wow..... why didn't you just get a divorce ?

what did she do to make you feel disrespected? I mean cheating on her is one thing... bringing a chick to the house yall share and fucking her in the bed yall share is another. IMO of course.....

And I'm not sure how you can even say that wasn't cheating.... unless yall had an open marriage or something like that.

 

[DOC H0LL!DAY]

cheating is something that people do. I don't condone it but it isn't frowned upon today as it was back then. i have cheated and i have been cheated on. my ex cheated on me with her boss so that was a disaster of a mess. I couldn't stay with her because she would still be seeing this nigga everyday.

 

[Dupac]

speaking for myself, and me alone...i just don't understand the risk....

damn near everything i do is weighed by consequences if shit goes wrong....

the consequences of cheating in a marriage outweigh any fuck in existence......shit's just not worth it..

at all...

Agreed you want get any arguments here particularly with the bolded.

Im not a cheater either but I do think you underestimate yout ability to be put in a compromising situation.

You say you faithful by ego @Du_Du but I say you are as faithful as your options and circumstances allow you to be.

Under the right circumstances and with the right option even the highly egotistical Du could possibly succumb to certain urges.

i'm stubborn as shit bruh

 

[BeleeDatPleighboy]

when I was married, I fucked everything moving... even had a couple chicks come to the crib and smash in our bed...why?

I was young and felt like my wife didnt respect me... i didnt even consider it cheating because I told shorty I wouldnt stand for certain treatment...

Damn breh....

 

[CP203]

me and the wife agreed to cut all side bitches so i'll see how this shit goes, been living the wild life the past ten yrs so its time for a normal one hope its worth it

 

[Kat]

when I was married, I fucked everything moving... even had a couple chicks come to the crib and smash in our bed...

why?

I was young and felt like my wife didnt respect me... i didnt even consider it cheating because I told shorty I wouldnt stand for certain treatment...

Trife.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

speaking for myself, and me alone...i just don't understand the risk....

damn near everything i do is weighed by consequences if shit goes wrong....

the consequences of cheating in a marriage outweigh any fuck in existence......shit's just not worth it..

at all...

Agreed you want get any arguments here particularly with the bolded.

Im not a cheater either but I do think you underestimate yout ability to be put in a compromising situation.

You say you faithful by ego @Du_Du but I say you are as faithful as your options and circumstances allow you to be.

Under the right circumstances and with the right option even the highly egotistical Du could possibly succumb to certain urges.

i think alot of dudes under estimate the bolded.

when you moving up that ladder...you will be surprised at the level of woman and the tactics to come at you neck in ways you would not beleive.

when i was back in the hood...yea chicks came at my neck...but now....i cant even explain.

i dont do shit because i have too much to lose and i love my family and i dont have the patience to keep up with lies and i can hardly deal with my wife now...fukk i need another woman for?

 

[Meta_Conscious]

when I was married, I fucked everything moving... even had a couple chicks come to the crib and smash in our bed...

why?

I was young and felt like my wife didnt respect me... i didnt even consider it cheating because I told shorty I wouldnt stand for certain treatment...

wow..... why didn't you just get a divorce ?

what did she do to make you feel disrespected? I mean cheating on her is one thing... bringing a chick to the house yall share and fucking her in the bed yall share is another. IMO of course.....

And I'm not sure how you can even say that wasn't cheating.... unless yall had an open marriage or something like that.

bringing chicks to the crib was foul...

I feel like i tried hard(not hard enough in hindsight). I tell shorties off the top, I aint no sucka so if i feel light i'm being treated second rate, I'll use u and do me... no surprises with me...

 

[Crude_]

A large % of men has cheated in a relationship at least once be it sexually or emotionally or even mentally. It's in a man's nature to be with more than one woman.

where does the bolded come from ?

I've seen comments like this or similar one's.... who decided that it's in a man's nature to want to be with more than one woman?

Instincts of mammals.

But isn't cheating a conscious decision...... are you saying men can't control themselves?

Yep cheating is a conscious decision just like lying but do you do it? The answer is probably yes.

Am I saying cheating is right no I'm not but its foolish to think that men are like women and vice versa.

Just like women tend to be emotional a lot of guys have strong sexual urges.

Unlike women though a lot of men see sex purely as fulfilling a physical need nothing emotional.

Thats why you see a lot of men that are married or in relationships that fuck other women but come home to their mate like it isn't nothing.

 

[Dupac]

man that option shit is ego and a lack of awareness.....

if you are aware that you're in a position that attracts women....it's not gonna surprise you or catch you off guard when they start throwing themselves at you....

when dudes aren't expecting that shit, their ego has them think that this chick is actually interested in them...it was something they did or how they looked that attracted these women....not their position of power, or prestige that attracted them.....

you just gotta stop lying to yourself and be aware of what's going on...

if i'm driving a $100,000 car and wearing a $10,000 suit or whatever making like 6 figures a year, i can't be all shocked and surprised if i got some bad ass chick following me around while i'm shopping for some other luxurious shit rich niggaz buy.....

the shit comes with the territory....niggaz just gotta be on point about that shit

 

[Kat]

when I was married, I fucked everything moving... even had a couple chicks come to the crib and smash in our bed...

why?

I was young and felt like my wife didnt respect me... i didnt even consider it cheating because I told shorty I wouldnt stand for certain treatment...

wow..... why didn't you just get a divorce ?

what did she do to make you feel disrespected? I mean cheating on her is one thing... bringing a chick to the house yall share and fucking her in the bed yall share is another. IMO of course.....

And I'm not sure how you can even say that wasn't cheating.... unless yall had an open marriage or something like that.

I mean to me, it sounds like he just validated her not respecting him.

She probably sensed his ain'tshitness.

 

[DNB1]

God's original intention was for man to have many wives and concubines.

All the early males in the bible had many wives.

I do believe the stance changed after Soddom and Gomorah. Then the 10 comandments were born.

Tho shalt not covert another mans wife...or some shit like that...

 

[Dupac]

like look at obama.... this nigga been in politics forever... so he prolly used to chicks throwing the puss at him....

but that shit prolly went up like a motherfucker when he became the president...

now i have no idea if this nigga smashing these broads or not.....but he gotta be aware that the higher his status got, the more women gonna throw the ass at you.....

that's just life

 

[Rasta.]

man that option shit is ego and a lack of awareness.....

if you are aware that you're in a position that attracts women....it's not gonna surprise you or catch you off guard when they start throwing themselves at you....

when dudes aren't expecting that shit, their ego has them think that this chick is actually interested in them...it was something they did or how they looked that attracted these women....not their position of power, or prestige that attracted them.....

you just gotta stop lying to yourself and be aware of what's going on...

if i'm driving a $100,000 car and wearing a $10,000 suit or whatever making like 6 figures a year, i can't be all shocked and surprised if i got some bad ass chick following me around while i'm shopping for some other luxurious shit rich niggaz buy.....

the shit comes with the territory....niggaz just gotta be on point about that shit

And for the life of me, i don't understand how/why females throw themselves at married or committed guys...