Blog: Black men are the problem

[fuc_i_look_like]

Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.

This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.

Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.

I can take all the bad rep, since I'm use to it, but you are right and most black men do not want to change from whore mongers, dead beats, sex addicts, drug addicts, chasing all the different races of women throughout the world, selling drugs, not going to school, living with their mother, etc due to not having higher standards. Black women and black men and the individual have failed them. Society takes advantage and pushes for that kind of backwater mentality as well and for black women. They need to wake up and smell the roses that they need to be an example and strengthen their community since no one is gonna do it for you. You just have to take care of your responsibilities and make it YOU and than you can preach to everyone about it and show them the true growth and progress.

Get rid of the Celtic mindset and foolishness and regain true principles and ideology to help your communities.

you sound like a member of the KKK with your bullshit ass generalizations

Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.

This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.

Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.

I can take all the bad rep, since I'm use to it, but you are right and most black men do not want to change from whore mongers, dead beats, sex addicts, drug addicts, chasing all the different races of women throughout the world, selling drugs, not going to school, living with their mother, etc due to not having higher standards. Black women and black men and the individual have failed them. Society takes advantage and pushes for that kind of backwater mentality as well and for black women. They need to wake up and smell the roses that they need to be an example and strengthen their community since no one is gonna do it for you. You just have to take care of your responsibilities and make it YOU and than you can preach to everyone about it and show them the true growth and progress.

Get rid of the Celtic mindset and foolishness and regain true principles and ideology to help your communities.

you sound like a member of the KKK with your bullshit ass generalizations

what he said isn't exactly false tho

 

[Ajackson17]

The whole op is a common trend on tumblr. I look at niggas ten years younger and just smh these hoes turning them bitch made.

The only nigga dumb enough to feed into this garbage is weak ass super submissive omega males; which is exactly who these women want some constantly apologizing emasculated fuck boi they can lay they problems on while he cook and eat her pussy. Straight fuck shit. I be critical self reflective about a lot of shit, everything else get the shaq face.

Fixed for you. Beta's are actually can be an Alpha male, the omega has no way in hell to be since he lacks a lot, but most males are beta's.

 

[A1000MILES]

Aye... @moneypowerrespect ...Where you from...?

good ol' nashville tn...

Okay, I'm from SC...Let's go get some barbecue and get busy...

the fat ass in me immediately got hungry..bt naw..i'm cool.

It's just a matter of time, b...

u payin.??

You poppin...?

my bby bump prevents me from doing such. oh...and my dignity. -____-

that's like askin me to bust it

open for a fish sandwich

#NoDice

1. You preggo?...Yoy was tryna trap me, guh....

2. Depends on the type of fish in the sandwich...Tilapia >>>>> Crappy...

1. i'm showing. you would've brought it up.

2. u wouldn't have penetrated anyways.

3. i'm not bustin anything open

for any reason. that's how i got in this mess in the first place.

What if...I could get you outta that mess...?

i don't get the joke..

Well then, fuck the joke...Just get this dick after you pass that child...I'll wait...

 

[Go figure]

I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some fucked up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.

me too @ the bolded, but not for the same reason as you, for me, pink penis looks terrifying, like it's see through or some shit, very off putting just from what i've seen in porn, i can only imagine how much scarier they look irl lol

*deep sigh*

It's worse in person

*walks away*

I gather you've given it a try?

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Aye... @moneypowerrespect ...Where you from...?

good ol' nashville tn...

Okay, I'm from SC...Let's go get some barbecue and get busy...

the fat ass in me immediately got hungry..bt naw..i'm cool.

It's just a matter of time, b...

u payin.??

You poppin...?

my bby bump prevents me from doing such. oh...and my dignity. -____-

that's like askin me to bust it

open for a fish sandwich

#NoDice

1. You preggo?...Yoy was tryna trap me, guh....

2. Depends on the type of fish in the sandwich...Tilapia >>>>> Crappy...

1. i'm showing. you would've brought it up.

2. u wouldn't have penetrated anyways.

3. i'm not bustin anything open

for any reason. that's how i got in this mess in the first place.

What if...I could get you outta that mess...?

i don't get the joke..

Well then, fuck the joke...Just get this dick after you pass that child...I'll wait...

first you want me to bust it open for some bar-b-cutie and potato salad. now u want my pud after i drop?? i'm aight.

 

[A1000MILES]

Aye... @moneypowerrespect ...Where you from...?

good ol' nashville tn...

Okay, I'm from SC...Let's go get some barbecue and get busy...

the fat ass in me immediately got hungry..bt naw..i'm cool.

It's just a matter of time, b...

u payin.??

You poppin...?

my bby bump prevents me from doing such. oh...and my dignity. -____-

that's like askin me to bust it

open for a fish sandwich

#NoDice

1. You preggo?...Yoy was tryna trap me, guh....

2. Depends on the type of fish in the sandwich...Tilapia >>>>> Crappy...

1. i'm showing. you would've brought it up.

2. u wouldn't have penetrated anyways.

3. i'm not bustin anything open

for any reason. that's how i got in this mess in the first place.

What if...I could get you outta that mess...?

i don't get the joke..

Well then, fuck the joke...Just get this dick after you pass that

child...I'll wait...

first you want me to bust it open

for some bar-b-cutie and potato salad. now u want my pud after

i drop?? i'm aight.

Now...I ain't een never said nothin bout no tater salad...Lol...

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Aye... @moneypowerrespect ...Where you from...?

good ol' nashville tn...

Okay, I'm from SC...Let's go get some barbecue and get busy...

the fat ass in me immediately got hungry..bt naw..i'm cool.

It's just a matter of time, b...

u payin.??

You poppin...?

my bby bump prevents me from doing such. oh...and my dignity. -____-

that's like askin me to bust it

open for a fish sandwich

#NoDice

1. You preggo?...Yoy was tryna trap me, guh....

2. Depends on the type of fish in the sandwich...Tilapia >>>>> Crappy...

1. i'm showing. you would've brought it up.

2. u wouldn't have penetrated anyways.

3. i'm not bustin anything open

for any reason. that's how i got in this mess in the first place.

What if...I could get you outta that mess...?

i don't get the joke..

Well then, fuck the joke...Just get this dick after you pass that

child...I'll wait...

first you want me to bust it open

for some bar-b-cutie and potato salad. now u want my pud after

i drop?? i'm aight.

Now...I ain't een never said nothin bout no tater salad...Lol...

whoa whoa whoa...no potato salad?? tf u think this is?? y'all just trickin these hoes into givin y'all some pussy huh?

 

[A1000MILES]

Aye... @moneypowerrespect ...Where you from...?

good ol' nashville tn...

Okay, I'm from SC...Let's go get some barbecue and get busy...

the fat ass in me immediately got hungry..bt naw..i'm cool.

It's just a matter of time, b...

u payin.??

You poppin...?

my bby bump prevents me from doing such. oh...and my dignity. -____-

that's like askin me to bust it

open for a fish sandwich

#NoDice

1. You preggo?...Yoy was tryna trap me, guh....

2. Depends on the type of fish in the sandwich...Tilapia >>>>> Crappy...

1. i'm showing. you would've brought it up.

2. u wouldn't have penetrated anyways.

3. i'm not bustin anything open

for any reason. that's how i got in this mess in the first place.

What if...I could get you outta that mess...?

i don't get the joke..

Well then, fuck the joke...Just get this dick after you pass that

child...I'll wait...

first you want me to bust it open

for some bar-b-cutie and potato salad. now u want my pud after

i drop?? i'm aight.

Now...I ain't een never said

nothin bout no tater salad...Lol...

whoa whoa whoa...no potato

salad?? tf u think this is?? y'all just trickin these hoes into givin

y'all some pussy huh?

Haha, where I'm from...Basic barbecue come wit slaw...

 

[Splackavelli]

the problem isn't black men the problem is a couple of them gals look like wilderbeast and should ... well I don't know about the should part be seen and not heard. I wanted to tell a couple of them on that site they look like wilderbeast but I don't have a twitter account.

 

[VulcanRaven]

Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.

This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.

Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.

Bitch please.

 

[DarcSkies]

I didnt read but in fairness. Most of you niggas REALLY aint shit. So Im sure its at least 35% truth in that wall of Niggress hate.

That said most human beings in general arent worth a fuck so its not necessarily race centric. The only real problem is people dont realize the person they attract says a lot about them. Easier to blame others than look internally.

If your Girlfriends are all attractive but stupid it says you're shallow.

If your boyfriends keep beating you it says you need to learn to STFU or keep your hands to yourself.

They things you go through in your relationships say a lot about YOU more than they say about the other person. And until everybody white, black or otherwise can admit that they will continue on that same bitter road. Not to say that everything is YOUR fault. But your reaction to everything becomes your responsibility.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

another one of these threads???

 

[MoneyPowerRespect]

Aye... @moneypowerrespect ...Where you from...?

good ol' nashville tn...

Okay, I'm from SC...Let's go get some barbecue and get busy...

the fat ass in me immediately got hungry..bt naw..i'm cool.

It's just a matter of time, b...

u payin.??

You poppin...?

my bby bump prevents me from doing such. oh...and my dignity. -____-

that's like askin me to bust it

open for a fish sandwich

#NoDice

1. You preggo?...Yoy was tryna trap me, guh....

2. Depends on the type of fish in the sandwich...Tilapia >>>>> Crappy...

1. i'm showing. you would've brought it up.

2. u wouldn't have penetrated anyways.

3. i'm not bustin anything open

for any reason. that's how i got in this mess in the first place.

What if...I could get you outta that mess...?

i don't get the joke..

Well then, fuck the joke...Just get this dick after you pass that

child...I'll wait...

first you want me to bust it open

for some bar-b-cutie and potato salad. now u want my pud after

i drop?? i'm aight.

Now...I ain't een never said

nothin bout no tater salad...Lol...

whoa whoa whoa...no potato

salad?? tf u think this is?? y'all just trickin these hoes into givin

y'all some pussy huh?

Haha, where I'm from...Basic barbecue come wit slaw...

true..it's a spot here that i go to just for their peach cobbler.

I didnt read but in fairness. Most of you niggas REALLY aint shit. So Im sure its at least 35% truth in that wall of Niggress hate.

That said most human beings in general arent worth a fuck so its not necessarily race centric. The only real problem is people dont realize the person they attract says a lot about them. Easier to blame others than look internally.

If your Girlfriends are all attractive but stupid it says you're shallow.

If your boyfriends keep beating you it says you need to learn to STFU or keep your hands to yourself.

They things you go through in your relationships say a lot about YOU more than they say about the other person. And until everybody white, black or otherwise can admit that they will continue on that same bitter road. Not to say that everything is YOUR fault. But your reaction to everything because your responsibility.

i can agree with that. it kinda goes back to the 'you are what you attract' thing. and people don't want to admit they have horrible decision making when it comes to the opposite sex.

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

 

[Disciplined InSight]

Aye... @moneypowerrespect ...Where you from...?

good ol' nashville tn...

Okay, I'm from SC...Let's go get some barbecue and get busy...

the fat ass in me immediately got hungry..bt naw..i'm cool.

It's just a matter of time, b...

u payin.??

You poppin...?

my bby bump prevents me from doing such. oh...and my dignity. -____-

that's like askin me to bust it

open for a fish sandwich

#NoDice

1. You preggo?...Yoy was tryna trap me, guh....

2. Depends on the type of fish in the sandwich...Tilapia >>>>> Crappy...

1. i'm showing. you would've brought it up.

2. u wouldn't have penetrated anyways.

3. i'm not bustin anything open

for any reason. that's how i got in this mess in the first place.

What if...I could get you outta that mess...?

My thoughts when I saw this pic and so-called read that article (really though "didn't read"..)

THROW THAT BITCH IN THE BUSHES, PLEY-BOI!

 

[haute]

i stopped taking advice about men from non men having bitches in undergrad

She tried it though

 

[Dr.Chemix]

i stopped taking advice about men from non men having bitches in undergrad

She tried it though

Shit is hilarious...some females be listening to some broads who can't even keep a man let alone get one. So the advice she gives is nothing more than a scorned heart looking for revenge.

 

[desertrain10]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

yes, yes

when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege

take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women

and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together

 

[1of1]

Didn't read but I'm sure people are donning their coonskin caps with no fucks given...

 

[Undefeatable]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

yes, yes

when it comes sexism black men ( not all but more than a few) are either silent, in denial and/or quick to invoke their patriarchal privilege

take for example, in regards to issues that effect blk women in particular like single motherhood, domestic violence, and poverty they rather question a woman's moral character, emotional/mental state, intelligence, etc instead of addressing the challenges sexism as well as racism pose for these women

and no its not just black men, its all men. the opportunity to degrade/objectify women never fails to bring them together

Sexism is not as bad for black women as racism is bad for black men. Not even close. It is more acceptable to Non-Black America to be black if you're a woman than if a man. Far more.