Blog: Black men are the problem

[sweetheart93]

| Maybe she should just avoid black men, then maybe her problems will go away.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

ill be right back to get in someones ass

 

[sweetheart93]

Look, I understand that racism is a motherfucker. The way society treats you is shit--got it. But it's no excuse for the negative and poor treatment many Black women receive at the hands of Black men. And this is why I have just lost interest in the entire convo--because niggas want hand holding instead of doing self reflection, self criticism and how they can better our community. Not angry. Not bitter. Just disinterested and over it.

Good post *slow claps*

 

[Dr. Stitch]

Look, I understand that racism is a motherfucker. The way society treats you is shit--got it. But it's no excuse for the negative and poor treatment many Black women receive at the hands of Black men. And this is why I have just lost interest in the entire convo--because niggas want hand holding instead of doing self reflection, self criticism and how they can better our community. Not angry. Not bitter. Just disinterested and over it.

I dont think we do our women any worse than ppl of other races do theirs...

 

[mryounggun]

The wool really has been pulled over some people's eyes. The relationship between black men and black women doesn't exist in a vacuum. You can never ever seriously address a behavior without first addressing WHY that behavior exists.

 

[kzzl]

The hustle for the perfect gif is serious. I wanted to give you niggas something ya'll ain't already seen. Or at least not overly used. Some thing fresh. Something funny. Something silly. Something that had that... that.. that spark. My search was long and arduous.

But I've gotten hungry as hell in the process, so I'm just giving y'all whatever while I grabs some chicken and beer.

Till next time...

 

[SixSickSins]

I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some fucked up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.

me too @ the bolded, but not for the same reason as you, for me, pink penis looks terrifying, like it's see through or some shit, very off putting just from what i've seen in porn, i can only imagine how much scarier they look irl lol

You just broke will munny's heart. The anguish...the anguish! DO IT AGAIN.

I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some fucked up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.

You need numbers to back that up.

You're kinda revealing yourself as a white here, buddy. Anything you wanna tell us?

 

[Meta_Conscious]

here is my official take...

 

[blackgod813]

Ok fuck dat I declare logic...women want dope boys by an large women decide what they want in a man an men cater to that...if u want us in silk shirts silk is bak...u get preg he go to jail old story blame ya self..in africa the woman pays the bills an we stay home yall bitches need better Jobs word to the lion

 

[SixSickSins]

I cant do white men. The majority that are into black women date us because of some fucked up stereotype or fetish...not because of genuine love for our beauty or culture.

me too @ the bolded, but not for the same reason as you, for me, pink penis looks terrifying, like it's see through or some shit, very off putting just from what i've seen in porn, i can only imagine how much scarier they look irl lol

*deep sigh*

It's worse in person

*walks away*

lmao, no! i knew it

i know i'm wrong for this, but pink penis reminds me of naked mole rats lol

:-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-& :-&

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Hate to say it, but I didn't read that shit either. That said, if TJ Sotomayor can create video after video demonizing and denigrating black women, it should be acceptable for a black woman to do the same with respect to black men. Why either is necessary, I don't know, but how about we all just agree that we're all fucked up and leave it at that.

 

[Gold_Certificate]

SMH @ Kai ruining naked molerats for everyone.

 

[sweetheart93]

@stopitfive

 

[Meta_Conscious]

@stopitfive

 

[StillFaggyAF]

| Maybe she should just avoid black men, then maybe her problems will go away.

Fuck yo cac husband

 

[sweetheart93]

Fuck yo cac husband

Do you feel better now?

 

[Dr. Stitch]

Look, I understand that racism is a motherfucker. The way society treats you is shit--got it. But it's no excuse for the negative and poor treatment many Black women receive at the hands of Black men. And this is why I have just lost interest in the entire convo--because niggas want hand holding instead of doing self reflection, self criticism and how they can better our community. Not angry. Not bitter. Just disinterested and over it.

I dont think we do our women any worse than ppl of other races do theirs...

I didn't say that. Since I am black, that's where my focus is.

I kno that aint exactly wut you said, my point is if someone told me "they dont like the way dogs treat cats"...that would "in my mind" imply that you feel like other animals treat cats better...i kno for a fact there are other races that go much harder on their women than blacc men do, & cant even complain about it...most young blacc women dont want the nigga unless he fits the blacc hood/athletic stereotypes...

 

[jono]

Black women have it incredibly rough in this world, I will agree that a lot of Black men don't recognize that or do anything to help them. Black men got it hard but Black women have it twice as hard being double minorities.

Niggas don't really wanna discuss that though so let's stick to the:

The hustle for the perfect gif is serious. I wanted to give you niggas something ya'll ain't already seen. Or at least not overly used. Some thing fresh. Something funny. Something silly. Something that had that... that.. that spark. My search was long and arduous.

But I've gotten hungry as hell in the process, so I'm just giving y'all whatever while I grabs some chicken and beer.

Till next time...

Kudos my nigga, by far the funniest gif I've ever seen on here.

 

[T. Sanford]

Its funny how when you find happiness and love, articles like this make you laugh.

Even if I got divorced and ended up back on the market (God forbid!), my husband, men I've encountered in my social circles and profession, and a handful of you fine men on the IC have opened my eyes to how many good, quality black men there are out there. It ain't that damn dire out here.

You are what you attract. When I was out here doing hoodrat shit with my friends, I attracted bummy hoodrat niggas.

It's always single ugly bitches writing this shit when they could be bent over the bed getting fucked and loved on by their nonexistent man.

Nothing to see here folks.

Let her hate Skyler, she just mad because Ice Cube don't want to reunite the Westside Connection

 

[Ajackson17]

Overall, black woman-centric discussion in this and similar spaces I found is not concerned with black men despite them being a topic. There is no wailing and moaning about why black men won’t change. There is no impatient demand that black men get themselves together. Or a lot of wincing for them to “come home” from non-black women. African American men simply have caused a lot of irreparable damage to themselves and the women in their group. And no amount of excuses, finger-pointing or demands that black women shut up about their experiences is going to change that.

This is probably the most telling and most important part of the article.

Unfortunately, I think the fragile egos of men will prevent them from taking anything constructive from this. The whole discussion of problems that we face have always been framed as being Black women's fault, from Steve Harvey and Tyler Perry. However, a lot of the dialogue never really centers on brothers learning to have better relationships with Black women and how racism contributes to them being unable to fully open up about how they can negatively effect sisters.

I can take all the bad rep, since I'm use to it, but you are right and most black men do not want to change from whore mongers, dead beats, sex addicts, drug addicts, chasing all the different races of women throughout the world, selling drugs, not going to school, living with their mother, etc due to not having higher standards. Black women and black men and the individual have failed them. Society takes advantage and pushes for that kind of backwater mentality as well and for black women. They need to wake up and smell the roses that they need to be an example and strengthen their community since no one is gonna do it for you. You just have to take care of your responsibilities and make it YOU and than you can preach to everyone about it and show them the true growth and progress.

Get rid of the Celtic mindset and foolishness and regain true principles and ideology to help your communities.