sweetheart93;6153535 said:FourEfil;6153504 said:What is the next move if your wife/husband does call you a racial slur?
I would leave obviously. Typically when a white person uses racial slurs it's not in the heat of the moment type thing, it's typically a deep rooted hatred/disliking for whatever group they're insulting. I'm not interested in being married to someone that hates me.
Dr.Chemix;6153509 said:Stop trying to divert. If he called you a nigger bitch, you would excuse him. If a black man called you a bitch, you would go on your feminist rant and respond with hostility. And no ma, you being married to a white man doesn't bother me. In fact, I say good riddance. I'm all for interracial marriages but at the same time, no one understands me like my own kind or those who face the same trials and tribulations as my people.
The white man will never understand that and because of that, he will then force you think differently. But you don't see it. You're protected by the white man's seal of approval. But if you wrong him? You're a fucking nigger bitch that wasn't shit to begin with.
All assumptions based off of the nothing you know about me or my husband. That's why I said you're hoping that happens. Why? I don't know. and if my relationship doesn't bother you, why are you bringing it up? Why do you act like I'm such a terrible person that treats black men like shit but worships white men....just because I'm married to a white man? Have you ever seen any post of mine suggesting that? You're basically trying to judge the type of person I am solely based on the fact that my husband's skin is white.
and to answer your question No I wouldn't excuse him, I would actually be more inclined to excuse the black man because I'm not married to him so he doesn't have to be respectful towards me but my husband does.
Ma, you won't ever get it. You won't ever understand it. No matter how bad it gets with my sistahs as far as understanding and communication, I won't say some dumb shit like "I never found a black woman that I like". That's just stupid. It doesn't take a PhD to know that you could have found someone that you liked in a black male. Us good men are out there, but like white men and other stupid ass black folks, you lumped all in a category. How ironic? But you found a white man that you liked real quick huh?
And yes, there is various ways a person exposes their character. It takes some keen sense and some people studying to recognize it. And you are very easy to read ma.