sweetheart93
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Dr.Chemix;6153646 said:Ma, you won't ever get it. You won't ever understand it. No matter how bad it gets with my sistahs as far as understanding and communication, I won't say some dumb shit like "I never found a black woman that I like". That's just stupid. It doesn't take a PhD to know that you could have found someone that you liked in a black male. Us good men are out there, but like white men and other stupid ass black folks, you lumped all in a category. How ironic? But you found a white man that you liked real quick huh?
And yes, there is various ways a person exposes their character. It takes some keen sense and some people studying to recognize it. And you are very easy to read ma.
Dude, that's the thing, YOU don't get it. I met my husband when I was 17/18 and I STOPPED dating. I never said I couldn't find a black man liked, I said I DIDN'T, I'm sure If I fuckin left white ass Napa I would have found a black dude I liked but I met my husband before that happened. Oh well. and yes I met ONE white dude I liked very quickly in the whitest city, in a white state, in a majority white country. lmfao
According to you because I didn't find a black man I liked out of the 5 men I dated before I met my husband, I'm lumping all black men into a category. (even though I've turned down MORE white men than black). See how ridiculous that sounds?
I agree there are various ways to read someone's character, but misinterpreting what they say and trying to judge their life decisions based of off YOUR life experiences and not theirs isn't the way to do it.
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