Ayo Du maybe I got this all wrong but

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i think people have the conception of being 18 messed up

just cuz you're 18 doesn't make you 'grown' per say...in my opinion, you aint really grown until you move out and do for self

just my thoughts
 
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The Jamel;2118442 said:
i stand corrected. I can admit when i'm wrong.

No problem. Like I said earlier, or in the other thread, I think it's just 2 sides that see things differently.

People who were "forced" to leave at 18 and people who were welcomed to stay until they finished school.

So, it's not about picking his side--I'm going with how I was brought up...which is until I finish--but, once I leave...I can't come back.

So, I gotta make sure I have all my business taken care of and everything in order when I do leave.
 
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junegemini;2118460 said:
i think people have the conception of being 18 messed up

just cuz you're 18 doesn't make you 'grown' per say...in my opinion, you aint really grown until you move out and do for self

just my thoughts

This is the black community you speaking to tho.
 
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dusouljah;2118445 said:
i already experinced my first pregnacy scare, spent up to like $50k+ in debt and filed bankruptcy by 23...

that aint nothing to be proud about Du...i have a pregnancy scare every month
 
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jackthemack;2118455 said:
LMAO nah to the first part and ya I am an admitted home body. I like to play video games and watch movies. That's what I enjoy to do. Why is that a problem?

I ain't say it was a problem, I said I didn't know people didn't love clubs till I got online. I ran w/a bunch of partiers (still do)...I never actually knew what other people did
 
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junegemini;2118460 said:
i think people have the conception of being 18 messed up

just cuz you're 18 doesn't make you 'grown' per say...in my opinion, you aint really grown until you move out and do for self

just my thoughts

I was a sophomore at U of I at 18 though.............
 
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DEE-LICIOUS;2118447 said:
U was tryna cheat on your man wit Nas? :(

Yea, partying ain't for everyone...I never knew that until I got on the internet. I thought everyone loved clubs lmao

i can count on 1 hand the number of times i've been out to a club in my life...oh and hey dee
 
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DEE-LICIOUS;2118478 said:
I ain't say it was a problem, I said I didn't know people didn't love clubs till I got online. I ran w/a bunch of partiers (still do)...I never actually knew what other people did

Oh ok well ya. I use to like to go to clubs. But it's the same niggas every week. I just got tired of it.
 
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kai_valya;2118480 said:
oops, let me grab my burka before i get stoned to death out here.

dink maybe it's the pose you got goin and them glasses.

No need to soften the blow Kai. It's ok.
 
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junegemini;2118460 said:
i think people have the conception of being 18 messed up

just cuz you're 18 doesn't make you 'grown' per say...in my opinion, you aint really grown until you move out and do for self

just my thoughts

sound thoughts

the foundation of being a (mature) adult, would be

respectful, productive , responsibility and accountability
 
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dusouljah;2118445 said:
i already experinced my first pregnacy scare, spent up to like $50k+ in debt and filed bankruptcy by 23...

yeah you was fucking up Baltimore style for real...but given that it makes sense it's taken a little while for you to get your shit back on track...for real your situation really isn't that hard to understand and it's not really one that calls for alot of criticism either...it ain't like you laying up, not working, putting your name on the orange juice and shit...you just starting later than some because of past mistakes but you've lived, you've learned, and you're moving on which is what you're supposed to do...just move faster
 
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DEE-LICIOUS;2118454 said:
Damn nigga u was mad irresponsible

Elzo69Reloaded;2118457 said:
tell me in student loans yo plz

i mean that's what i been trying to tell yall, i was an idiot with money..

i moved out cuz i worked 20+ hours of overtime on a holiday check... i saw the extra money and it was enough to a first months rent and application fee..i bought 2 cars off of a whim high ass payments and insurance, i let my apt become the hang out spot, let like 2 of my homeboys bassically live there and all them niggaz did was sell weed and keep food and drinks in the house.. they ain't pay no damn bills....i stayed taking loans out of my tsp...just to buy dumb shit like a keg cooler fridge....when i finally quit my job, i cashed out the rest of my tsp to get a town house...let all the smae people move in, and worked doing sales... the company went under.. i quit that job, and basically fell flat on my face.....all this was over the span of 5 years.. from 20-25.....and i still didn't want any help,...but at that point my mother was like it's cool to have pride but u gotta know when to be humble as well...so i allowed her to help....

but yea... i did a lotta dumb as shit in my life...
 
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blackrain;2118484 said:
i can count on 1 hand the number of times i've been out to a club in my life...oh and hey dee
damn lol I dont think I could ever count. I used to go 4x's a week from 17-19 and then 2 days a week from 19-24 and at least once a week till i moved down here :-/ Hey BR! :D
jackthemack;2118486 said:
Oh ok well ya. I use to like to go to clubs. But it's the same niggas every week. I just got tired of it.

yea u ain't lyin lol same chicks, niggas every week. Especially if u live in a small city. Thank God ny was huge.
 
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