As women get older they begin to see the value in the nice guy?

[VulcanRaven]

I had a broad tell me that she was doing god's work now.i was like bitch,you ain't even no damn virgin.how the fuck these broads gone act like they never slutted themselves out just cuz they celibate now? foh

 

[VulcanRaven]

this topic is getting so redundant....

i consider my self to be a "nice" girl...and i'm having a tough time finding a monogamous black man my age with no kids who doesn't have aspirations of becoming a rapper... that's life
*shrugs*

maybe you are looking in the wrong area for the right man for you? there are plenty of men like that outside of the hood.you wont find them in the club either,but most women like the drama that the men they claim they dont want bring.

 

[Real Lady]

I always seen the value in nice guys. But i learned a long time ago, everyone who "acts" nice isnt nice!

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

Nice guys usually end up with a nice white/foreign women that bitter black women with illegitimate kids give the stank face when they see out in public so its all good.

Yep................................

 

[Real Lady]

I perfer good men over nice guys.

 

[The_Introvert]

I perfer good men over nice guys.

You batshit crazy tho.

 

[Erica jone]

it's nature

 

[Erica jone]

I had registered an account on the Cougardatingfree.net before one year. It is totally free for mature women looking for younger men on the site. I am dating a handsome guy who is well educated and make good money. I think that the site is funny and safe. And I like it.

 

[longmeat]

i had registered an account on the cougardatingfree.net before one year. It is totally free for mature women looking for younger men on the site. I am dating a handsome guy who is well educated and make good money. I think that the site is funny and safe. And i like it.

bitch i will kill you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[JadaRoss]

i think the problems with nice guys is that they aren't really all that nice. they are wimps and doormats. and no woman wants a man she can run. i want a good, principled, strong, upstanding man. a "nice" guy tho? what does that even mean? when i hear that phrase instantly what comes to mind is a guy that lets chicks walk all over him. women for the most part want the alpha-male and the nice guy usually doesn't fit that profile

nah it's not the point of walking over anybody.if she was a real woman she wouldnt need to walk over him.Im nice enough to reason with a female but i be damn ill let her walk all me she can kiss my ass with that

 

[JadaRoss]

women are just stupid

no man should stop being himself to impress a bitch bruh

women say they want a real man but everything on her body is fake from her nails to her hair

 

[Real Lady]

I think some guys get mad, because they carry these good men fronts and I can see thru them. Just because I don't fall for the phony shit don't mean I don't like a good man. I like honesty, and a man who lies is not a good man. I don't care about his job, looks, money or impression. A liar is not a GOOD MAN!

 

[JadaRoss]

I think some guys get mad, because they carry these good men fronts and I can see thru them. Just because I don't fall for the phony shit don't mean I don't like a good man. I like honesty, and a man who lies is not a good man. I don't care about his job, looks, money or impression. A liar is not a GOOD MAN!

so that's why so many women are with badboys and assholes cause women see through the good men as fronts??

 

[Real Lady]

so that's why so many women are with badboys and assholes cause women see through the good men as fronts??

I just want u to know, if you are a MAN you can be judging another man wrong....You may be looking at how he treats other men....u don't know what another man do behind close doors...

Now the guy with the nice guy image, could be a woman beater behind close doors. The thug can just be a criminal. Both type can get mad and get in arguments. Who be in a relationship & have no arguments at all? Be realistic.

Have u ever heard of a gangster and a gentlemen? I've worked with guys who have good men images wear the suits and ties and run offices, and I am not stero typing but I talk to some when we were having casual conversation, and a lot of them are married men, who are serial cheaters.

They cheat more then thugs in the streets. It seem like a lot of them are with their wives for images, and are not really in love, but don't want to get a divorce, because they were "pressured" or have a image to fulfill.... A lot of them open doors and say all the right things, but treating their wives like shit....

I wouldn't call that a good man, just because he wears a suit/24/7 and say what u want to hear.

 

[Real Lady]

In honesty, these guys ya'll call thugs, never disrespected me, it's always been the square ones. & the reason is, because they don't understand why I am from the streets, because they are not from it in the same way I am, they only know rebels and run aways, and they don't know what it's like to be born in it.

So they think every female from the streets are hoes, and all go for the same things. They are very disrespectful and judgmental.. The thugs understand me because they are being judged the same way. People don't understand why they are thuggin, the same way people can't understand why Iam thuggin. (I was born in it) & people judge people from the street life like they aint shit...

& it's hard to relate to people who are not born in it, because they don't go thru this judgement. They don't know what it feels like to be a GOOD person born into negativity.....and then some just rebelled to the streets it wasn't forced, so they judge the ones born in it, like we are REBELS, they assume we want to be a way we were FORCED to be.. They can't grasp it, so they look down upon it...

especially the ones who just were in the streets 2 do dirt, they think thats what the ones who are born in it is doing, because thats what they did when they were in the streets...

 

[Trollio]

que????????????????????

 

[JadaRoss]

I just want u to know, if you are a MAN you can be judging another man wrong....You may be looking at how he treats other men....u don't know what another man do behind close doors...

Now the guy with the nice guy image, could be a woman beater behind close doors. The thug can just be a criminal. Both type can get mad and get in arguments. Who be in a relationship & have no arguments at all? Be realistic.

Have u ever heard of a gangster and a gentlemen? I've worked with guys who have good men images wear the suits and ties and run offices, and I am not stero typing but I talk to some when we were having casual conversation, and a lot of them are married men, who are serial cheaters.

They cheat more then thugs in the streets. It seem like a lot of them are with their wives for images, and are not really in love, but don't want to get a divorce, because they were "pressured" or have a image to fulfill.... A lot of them open doors and say all the right things, but treating their wives like shit....

I wouldn't call that a good man, just because he wears a suit/24/7 and say what u want to hear.

realLady youre defending the bad men ma.theres a such thing as good and bad in this world

 

[Dainty]

I already see the value in nice guys, that's why I'm in a relationship with one.

 

[Real Lady]

realLady youre defending the bad men ma.theres a such thing as good and bad in this world

No I am not. I don't pick bad men, I pick ones that people talk bad about... I don't pick ones that TREAT ME BAD...2 clarify it. I understand people who are talked about badly, because people talk about me badly, but that do mean thats who I am. So I relate 2 men who are JUDGED..

 

[Real Lady]

it's like people want you to focus on their nice act, but I look for the GOOD HEART.. Nice isn't good enough for me. Anybody can act "nice"...it do not make u GOOD. Thats my opinion.