Lemme answer honestly LOL...
Like a few folks said, alot of people confuse being nice with being a bitch. In "our" community, if a man doesn't act brashly, he's considered soft. What if I just like being nice to muthafuckas? What if I just was raised differently? What if I just dont like smacking niggas or speaking disrespectfully to any & everyone without being provoked? I treat niggas & women with respect. I take care of my family & my crew when I'm eating real well. I like being there for people. Not a bitch, I just ended up with my mom's bleeding heart. Just because a dude is nice, doesnt mean he's a pushover...
ITS USUALLY THE QUIET ONES THAT GO THE FUCK OFF
If chicks prefer the "perceived" Alpha Male....that's cool. I like the bad bitch LOL. We all got preferences. All I'm saying is....dont go around in your 20s singing "I need a Soldier" then in your 30s have a chip on your shoulder towards every normal, regular Black male because he got hip to the game.