A relationship question..

[KLICHE]

You already put in your bid. Don't mention it again. If she eventually takes you up on your offer then cool, if not then you know the deal.

I agree. I so to the point with people that had a girl askd me and I had no interest in her, I'd probably say yeah just to see if after hanging out with her if my thoughts chnged. I think have a coffee is pretty basic, catch up, chat outsie of "business''.. just don't see how a woman can see it as so awkward t speak on without the whole freak out and no definitive answer lol

 

[KLICHE]

Just a question folk (no trolling you folk)

How long are you willing to wait on her to get back at your request??

TBH I think I don't expect one lol

I should have mentioned as replied to one person here, it was also a way of broadening m social netowrk as to the area for 2years now and only mix with work friends. So honestly I think I won't let it phase me. I think a "no" reply is inevitable. I look back to yesterday thinking wtf happened. was so weird LOL

 

[Darth Sidious]

I can tell you are totally off by the title of your thread.

You have already defined yourself having a 'relationship' with the receptionist where you have your car serviced. I would lay odds that if asked, her current facebook status does not say 'in a relationship' and she has alerted her manager to your stalking.

 

[KLICHE]

She has a man

This is the thing, she told the bus driver at the business who is old, that she is single and they are aware that 6months she broke with a guy who they said was an asshole

 

[KLICHE]

I can tell you are totally off by the title of your thread.

You have already defined yourself having a 'relationship' with the receptionist where you have your car serviced. I would lay odds that if asked, her current facebook status does not say 'in a relationship' and she has alerted her manager to your stalking.

Darth, I can tell you the title was in error lol seriously. I cut it short with the title but was merely getting at that someone who may see yourself in a relationship with.. and relationship to make it stand out. But yeah I'm content to let it go and not bring up. That's not me. As of today I just went back to business as usual for me with my work, ife etc.

 

[shit happens]

Say g you already lost her

You should have approached her like g

She's in her thirties just entering her sexual prime

She's in dire need if a thug nigga to stand up in it and tame her

Why did i waste my time responding i know shawty domy got dat ass

 

[shit happens]

Don't^

 

[S2J]

That broad playing games move around homie.

I had a female do me the same way some years ago.

Sometimes they'll be interested, but they just want to see how hard you going to try.

Seems like she is telling you in so many words to try a little harder.

Regardless to many fish in the sea for that a lot of broads miss out on good opportunities doing this type of shit too.

Or... she actually is not into him.

 

[Down South Slangin]

You dropped that seed in her, now she know how you feel, all your cards are on the table... Like Thot said, all it take is for her to fuck around and get lonely or go through somethin with who she with, she'll give you that extra attention than.

Thats IF she feeling you any typa way.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Wow a lot of bitter hurt from the past niggas in here.....

How? We don't pursue women who have a low interest level boo boo

I know thats right gurl!!!!!!

 

[Copper]

Lol @ asking a girl out for a cup of coffee ..I wouldn't even know how to do that

But if a woman is hesitant and says anything short of yes it is in your best interest to assume it means no

 

[S2J]

Lol @ asking a girl out for a cup of coffee ..I wouldn't even know how to do that

But if a woman is hesitant and says anything short of yes it is in your best interest to assume it means no

Someone gets it. Thats why i just smh that 10 nggas co-signed that 'she playin games n she missin out' post from @crude‌. The shyt is not rocket science. T/s read a signal wrong and she curved him. Cool. On to the next...seems that nggas cant handle rejection

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

That broad playing games move around homie.

I had a female do me the same way some years ago.

Sometimes they'll be interested, but they just want to see how hard you going to try.

Seems like she is telling you in so many words to try a little harder.

Regardless to many fish in the sea for that a lot of broads miss out on good opportunities doing this type of shit too.

Brotha bout to have me pass out the collection plate for preaching the gospel.

 

[KLICHE]

Lol @ asking a girl out for a cup of coffee ..I wouldn't even know how to do that

But if a woman is hesitant and says anything short of yes it is in your best interest to assume it means no

Someone gets it. Thats why i just smh that 10 nggas co-signed that 'she playin games n she missin out' post from @crude‌. The shyt is not rocket science. T/s read a signal wrong and she curved him. Cool. On to the next...seems that nggas cant handle rejection

Personally I'm cool with it. I agree that the response she gave is nothing more or less than a roundabout way of No. I can deal with. It may have been awkward if say it was a female from my own workplace, but I don't go there. I prefer to keep anything outside of work where I know that seeing them will be limited if in the future.

I agree also that I read a wrong signal.

 

[Crude_]

That broad playing games move around homie.

I had a female do me the same way some years ago.

Sometimes they'll be interested, but they just want to see how hard you going to try.

Seems like she is telling you in so many words to try a little harder.

Regardless to many fish in the sea for that a lot of broads miss out on good opportunities doing this type of shit too.

Or... she actually is not into him.

She might not be interested, but judging just from what he told us in o/p and my knowledge of women I've dealt with in the past she has some interest but wants him to jump though hoops.

Whether she wants him or not as I said the brother needs to move around.

Any woman who can't give you a direct answer on something such going out on a date isn't worth your time or attention.

 

[Kat]

Calm down Crude.

Maybe he genuinely caught her off guard.

She might have given it some thought after he left.

Just cause she wasn't like "YES!!!!!" as soon as he asked doesn't meant she isn't worthy of his time or attention.

 

[Crude_]

Calm down Crude.

Maybe he genuinely caught her off guard.

She might have given it some thought after he left.

Just cause she wasn't like "YES!!!!!" as soon as he asked doesn't meant she isn't worthy of his time or attention.

Lol I was just responding to another poster's comments Kat.

I'm direct and I don't do the fickle behavior.

It would have been just as easy for her to say ok and they exchange contact information or if she wasn't interested she could have said something such as I'm flattered by your interest but right now simply isn't a good time or she coulda just told him she was involved with someone else.

It isn't rocket science he put himself out there but oh she's caught off guard and needs to get back to him that's high school shit and not a good look for a woman in her 30s then broads get old and lonely and wonder why men aren't checking for them.

 

[Bodhi]

So what happened after she broke on you like that, t/s

She was looking all over the place with weird random smiles going off, like she just took a hit of something and nerves going off.. I just stood there casual and smiled and wondered why they explosion of all these emotions going off on her face and movements. I said ok and that would see her on 22nd when vehicle is due in.. I looked as I walked off and she stil had this look of shock on her face

Sound like she had too much coffee already.

 

[S2J]

That broad playing games move around homie.

I had a female do me the same way some years ago.

Sometimes they'll be interested, but they just want to see how hard you going to try.

Seems like she is telling you in so many words to try a little harder.

Regardless to many fish in the sea for that a lot of broads miss out on good opportunities doing this type of shit too.

Or... she actually is not into him.

She might not be interested, but judging just from what he told us in o/p and my knowledge of women I've dealt with in the past she has some interest but wants him to jump though hoops.

Whether she wants him or not as I said the brother needs to move around.

Any woman who can't give you a direct answer on something such going out on a date isn't worth your time or attention.

But this is situation is different because she has to see him again, for work.

I've hollered at many many women under these circumstances Lol And they're most often the nicest ones just b/c its part of their job. Thats why you don play the friendly role. You throw some type of wrench in there to see if she goes out of the norm, to she if she bites. B/c she probably has that same small talk n smiles with all the male customers. Thats why situations like these are most often where signals get crossed.

Plus If he's talked to her numerous times, and he came with the safest of safe approaches (coffee), but she still curved...that just means she aint feelin him...more specifically: she doesnt like him like that, and deoesnt want to lead him on.

 

[Antlerz]

Wow a lot of bitter hurt from the past niggas in here.....

How? We don't pursue women who have a low interest level boo boo

I know thats right gurl!!!!!!