Kwan Dai;c-9955766 said:jono;c-9955757 said:Parents don't discipline their kids.
A whooping ain't discipline, that's punishment.
Coercion (the threat of violence or punishment) isn't the same as discipline either.
Discipline is internal. Parents don't instill in their kids that certain behaviors aren't okay.
When you teach via coercion, all you teach is that when the coercive element is gone (in this case the parents) then all bets are off.
It should come to know surprise that parents always think their kid is a perfect angel. Its because the parent is coercive and the kid responds to that.
A parent that instills discipline teaches a kid to monitor their own behavior even when the parent or any other adult isn't around.There's a proverb that says "who you are when no one is looking is who you really are." That says a lot about the failure of personal responsibility and poor parenting.
Negro please. And when a "KID" decides to disobey what you have worked night and day to instill in them. You whoop that goddman ass.
Whooping ain't a universal cure all. That shit don't work on every kid or even most kids.