A Long Distance Relationship done right, is the best relationship hands down

[king hassan]

Me and the Rev had one a long time ago, I was'nt there to save her from eating too much

 

[terbear]

lol...maybe if you're a cheating son of a bitch...otherwise, no-sign.

yeah exactly, i had a canadian one time, from when i played world of warcraft ( go ahead and laugh niggas i got payed to play) she would buy me all kindas of shit it was cool but not being able to smash on the regular was terrible. Ended up having to replace her with new snow bunny

 

[kay-g314]

THEY ARE THE TOUGHEST...big "no-sign" on this thread

 

[a.mann]

I wouldn't fuck with you!

I can readily admit that I couldn't be faithful for anything beyond short term separation...I need a tangible relationship. I want that touch and the affection.

that's what I'm saying

we just cheat together....having a lil fun

hell, may even let you cuddle a bit, if its as good as to claim

 

[riddlerap]

i cant agree with your reasoning. that just sounds like you didnt find the right person to be with.

now, personally, being in one right now, i can say that long distance relationships are better for one thing: if you can last a long time in one, more than likely both people involved are actually in love. and you get to know the person a lot more if you start out long distance.. cause all you can really do is talk. its working for me, really well. im trying to move to her now, just waiting to get a job and/or random money dropped on my front door.

the bad thing about them though is that you end up arguing/fighting over really stupid things that wouldnt even be brought up if you were with them in person. well, at least thats whats happening to me currently.

i know once i move my relationship is going to be even better, based on the fact that when i did visit her, it was the best time of my life. but im kinda glad we got to know each other extremely well beforehand, i think it helps build a stronger foundation that isnt based on things like sex.

 

[SweetzIsAwesome]

CLEARLY, you have never been in a long distance relationship.. or any relationship for that matter.. what keeps the "flame burning"..?? The girl(s) he's with in between visits..?! smh..

 

[Fly_King]

just got outta one hard 4 me to agree....id rather be around her than away.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

As a man who's been in a long term, long distance relationship, there is some truth to it. The phrase if "done right". Meaning BOTH parties gotta be willing to make it work. Plain & simple. Yes it can be difficult b/c of obvious reasons. But you and your s/o is willing to name it work, then the distance won't be as bad as it seems. It makes miss and appreciate the other person even more.

Again, u gotta be willing to work at it.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

i cant agree with your reasoning. that just sounds like you didnt find the right person to be with.

now, personally, being in one right now, i can say that long distance relationships are better for one thing: if you can last a long time in one, more than likely both people involved are actually in love. and you get to know the person a lot more if you start out long distance.. cause all you can really do is talk. its working for me, really well. im trying to move to her now, just waiting to get a job and/or random money dropped on my front door.

the bad thing about them though is that you end up arguing/fighting over really stupid things that wouldnt even be brought up if you were with them in person. well, at least thats whats happening to me currently.

i know once i move my relationship is going to be even better, based on the fact that when i did visit her, it was the best time of my life. but im kinda glad we got to know each other extremely well beforehand, i think it helps build a stronger foundation that isnt based on things like sex.

Cosign this post. Visits are usually fun as hell. B/c you're tryin to do eveything u can, in a short amount of time. Like outings, dinners, etc. Stuff u wouldn't normally do around your way.

 

[a.mann]

all bull aside

it'll only work if it's an understood temporarily time period.

Even then. depending on the individuals willingness to make certain sacrifices

That can be a struggle. From military deployments to contracting days, I’ve seen enough relationships crumble because of a lil time and distance.

And tell people all the time, you want to see what your relationship is made of…....leave that person to their own devices for a while.

Some are surprised that the strain of maintaining it is to much. I’m talking about married couples that been together few years, questioning each others love and loyalty after a mere 2 months apart.

 

[Black Boy King]

Best my ass. Fuck that shyt. Been there done that.

It was cool, dont get me wrong... But its definitely not preferred

 

[bkkbully]

i cant agree with your reasoning. that just sounds like you didnt find the right person to be with.

now, personally, being in one right now, i can say that long distance relationships are better for one thing: if you can last a long time in one, more than likely both people involved are actually in love. and you get to know the person a lot more if you start out long distance.. cause all you can really do is talk. its working for me, really well. im trying to move to her now, just waiting to get a job and/or random money dropped on my front door.

the bad thing about them though is that you end up arguing/fighting over really stupid things that wouldnt even be brought up if you were with them in person. well, at least thats whats happening to me currently.

i know once i move my relationship is going to be even better, based on the fact that when i did visit her, it was the best time of my life. but im kinda glad we got to know each other extremely well beforehand, i think it helps build a stronger foundation that isnt based on things like sex.

all this right here. All you two can do is talk, so you learn and find out so much more about each other. It's true, you two are really in love if your in a long distance relationship and put the effort into it. I was in one for 5 years, bunch of my friends got STDs and shit, people getting pregnant, I didn't have to worry about that. I trusted her, she trusted me and we would talk about anything, especially if one of us was feeling tempted. We saw each other every month, lived with her during the summers, so it was semi celibate but when we saw each other it was non stop

 

[taeboo]

As a man who's been in a long term, long distance relationship, there is some truth to it. The phrase if "done right". Meaning BOTH parties gotta be willing to make it work. Plain & simple. Yes it can be difficult b/c of obvious reasons. But you and your s/o is willing to name it work, then the distance won't be as bad as it seems. It makes miss and appreciate the other person even more.

Again, u gotta be willing to work at it.

Co-sign.....

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

I wouldn't fuck with you!

I can readily admit that I couldn't be faithful for anything beyond short term separation...I need a tangible relationship. I want that touch and the affection.

atleast you're honest about it...i don't think i could ever do a long distance relationship either. my ass already paranoid enough when i'm in a relationship

 

[kat2180]

atleast you're honest about it...i don't think i could ever do a long distance relationship either. my ass already paranoid enough when i'm in a relationship

Yeah that too. ...

 

[kAjUn]

Done it twice and I can say I won't do it anymore

Somebody always end up cheating

Either the dude cheating because of sexual urges

Or female cheats because of her emotions

 

[MorganFreemanKing]

i see where ts is coming from cuz im in one but being on the phone everyday can get just as exhausting if not more so. it depends on the type of person you are as well. i hate being on the phone i'd rather be with her in person but i do need some me time as well. ts seems like a person that gets drained/bored by the everyday bs that comes with relationships and LD relationships give him chances to connect without being smothered.

cosign riddle about getting to know them on a different level though

 

[mindright]

T/S

stop kidding yourself.. Long Distance Relationships are the worse..

did it once, never again.