banginscrew901
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What caused the disconnect with y'all 2?
manofmorehouse
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Shit is rough man. If say try to see if it can be salvaged. If not, start trting to be as cordial ad possible because y'all have a child together.
banginscrew901
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Yall should have gone to counseling is not to late to go cause if she hold grudges like that you bout to be mad/ angry with her. If y'all don't get counseling then she may need it herself cause her anger is going to bleed over into your daughter and that won't be good.
What happened over the past 6 months for you all to start fighting like that?
Just wondering because you seemed to be saying that everything was all good up until the past 6 months........yet.......now you're filing for divorce.
I mean, I could understand if things had been going bad for the past couple of years.......but it seems kind of extreme to get a divorce over 6 bad months.
Especially considering the fact that there's a child involved.
Was there a specific incident that happened 6 months ago that caused y'all to fall out........or did you all just become tired of being around each other?
Just wondering because you seemed to be saying that everything was all good up until the past 6 months........yet.......now you're filing for divorce.
I mean, I could understand if things had been going bad for the past couple of years.......but it seems kind of extreme to get a divorce over 6 bad months.
Especially considering the fact that there's a child involved.
Was there a specific incident that happened 6 months ago that caused y'all to fall out........or did you all just become tired of being around each other?
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SolemnSauce
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Letting that shit go for 6 months is a HUGE mistake. A month shouldn't even go by without some kind of intimacy or niceties towards one another.
Y'all probably just got a little bored then the lack of sex and intimacy caused frustration which causes all the fighting and fussing y'all doing.
When the intimacy stops shit gets bad. Leaving the house and thus leaving your family (even temporarily) doesn't help either. You were looking to cheat, she probably was too.
The only thing I can say bro, if its over...let it be over. Don't be wishy washy on the shit. If its ending then let it end. Be courteous and cordial because who knows what will happen within a few months. I've known people who broke up and got back together a few weeks or months later because they began to see in one another what they used to see.
Y'all probably just got a little bored then the lack of sex and intimacy caused frustration which causes all the fighting and fussing y'all doing.
When the intimacy stops shit gets bad. Leaving the house and thus leaving your family (even temporarily) doesn't help either. You were looking to cheat, she probably was too.
The only thing I can say bro, if its over...let it be over. Don't be wishy washy on the shit. If its ending then let it end. Be courteous and cordial because who knows what will happen within a few months. I've known people who broke up and got back together a few weeks or months later because they began to see in one another what they used to see.
TheNightKing
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I've considered divorce a few times, but it's because my wife is a low key alcoholic. Our three kids the only reason we still together.
Sounds like in your situation you the one fucking shit up though. Always leaving to hang with the homies and hoes. Take accountability and stop fucking up. Or if you plain don't like her then end it and don't fight her on custody or anything cause again, you the one fucking up.
Sounds like in your situation you the one fucking shit up though. Always leaving to hang with the homies and hoes. Take accountability and stop fucking up. Or if you plain don't like her then end it and don't fight her on custody or anything cause again, you the one fucking up.
TheNightKing
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aneed123;c-9741256 said:
If she irate about the divorce papers she still love him. If she stopped having sex with him it was probably because he was fucking up. People got to take accountability. Be fucking up then blame their spouse for their reaction to them fucking up. You expect that person to get shitted on then act like it never happened?
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have you communicated all this time her ?
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We only got one side of the story.
But sound like somewhere along the lines a few rules got broken (lack of attention, time, intimacy, sex) and instead of talk it out and correct the problem y'all both add more salt in them game and break more rules repaying bad for bad.
Honestly filing for divorce is wack homey it's not like she bust it open for the lunch nigga or something.
I'm not saying it's all you but as head of household you assume a lot of responsibility for how the marriage turn out by default. If you really love the mother of your child patience would have saw you through this little rough patch.
I think divorcing her is foul move and just running away from your problems instead of facing them to say the least.
But sound like somewhere along the lines a few rules got broken (lack of attention, time, intimacy, sex) and instead of talk it out and correct the problem y'all both add more salt in them game and break more rules repaying bad for bad.
Honestly filing for divorce is wack homey it's not like she bust it open for the lunch nigga or something.
I'm not saying it's all you but as head of household you assume a lot of responsibility for how the marriage turn out by default. If you really love the mother of your child patience would have saw you through this little rough patch.
I think divorcing her is foul move and just running away from your problems instead of facing them to say the least.
