2 am and i get a string of bullsh*t texts..

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Why is it that when a woman want time to herself, the has to accept it. Yet if it's the guy, the woman wants a full on explanation and wanna argue about it. Bump all that.

She'll be aiight. No one got time to cater to her insecurities.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Because we want it all!

 

[Cinco]

Just say "baby I'm thinkin bout cha,"

And go bout ur biz.

Take her out the weekend

 

[Rozetta5tone]

I went ahead and surprised her today with a lunch date..took her by my building so she can see that im actually out here trying to establish something i can pass down to my seeds..

I have cheated on her before but that was in the beginning before we really got serious, so i see where her insecurities come from..we talked and honestly, i dont plan on changing my routine right now and she knows this..alot of what i do involves deadlines and construction work is cutthroat in chicago..a bad reputation can put a man outta business..

But the whole point of the thread is the fact i'm being just as patient with her as she is with me and i wanted to know how much are ya'll willing to accept from your s/o before you say fuck it and throw in the towel..

 

[Rozetta5tone]

@kat..if a guy brings u to his job, he loves you and he doesnt plan on going nowhere lol

U in it for the long haul..thats sum serious trust right there bcuz if i wasnt serious about my girl, no way in hell would i take to a place i make money at..

 

[God_Yunn]

She being patient by chewing You out via text?...

If she jumps at ya throat again.. then she might not be down for the compromise my G...at that moment you should reassess if its worth getting more serious

 

[God_Yunn]

@Kat what he do?

 

[Rozetta5tone]

@yunn..shit was partially my fault so she gets sum slack bcuz before i got off the phone i snapped at her on sum irritated shit..like i sed..she was doing all that texting outta spite..she has anger issues just as bad as i do and ignoring her is gas on the fire..i was trying to keep a simple problem, simple..

 

[God_Yunn]

@Kat yeah it can be a "on-call" job at times I heard....but if he putting on cologne and deodorant to go fix some ish, then be suspicious lol

 

[deadeye]

It's best not to even entertain shit like that.

She'll eventually get the message.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

He's a network engineer for a mid-size company, and really the only one in the entire region doing that job so he works alot.

I can tell he's probably had some issues with gfs in the past being skeptical about him having to do network changes and go to the office so late cause he's always trying to explain some shit I didn't even ask...I do get suspicious at times though.

ok so then what makes you any different from his exes?

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

You already cheated on her, and her dumbass chose to stay with you. She shoulda just dumped you cuz now everything is gonna cause her to have suspicions. Only a certain type of bitch stays wit a nigga who cheated on her, and that's not the type of female you should take seriously.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

I don't harp on him about it. I keep my suspicions in my head.

He told me a story about his baby mama getting jealous when the receptionist answered the phone..lol.

Like who's that bitch answering your phone?? lmao

smh. see that's that bs right there.

 

[bull6599]

Better than me. When I'm sleep, I'm sleep godammit! I tell chicks all the time: don't send me angry text b/c it won't get u faster response. In fact it may lead to u not getting a response @ all...which will only lead to more angry text. I have an extreme case of don't give a fuckness though.

 

[Rozetta5tone]

Lol fam life aint that cut and dry..the fact she stayed says alot about her character and why im with her now..its easy for a person to jump ship, it takes fortitude and integrity to actually work at fixing the problem..

Cheating can be worked thru bruh..doesnt make her weak or anybody for that matter..

 

[Rozetta5tone]

Lol fam life aint that cut and dry..the fact she stayed says alot about her character and why im with her now..its easy for a person to jump ship, it takes fortitude and integrity to actually work at fixing the problem..

Cheating can be worked thru bruh..doesnt make her weak..

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Ok but let's not pretend that you'd stay wit her if she cheated on u...

 

[Rozetta5tone]

I've been cheated on before and stayed..

Shit hurts but eventually u move past it..would be very hypocritical of me to leave a bitch bcuz she cheated..

 

[leftcoastkev]

You said you got caught or admitted to cheating before so you're pretty much f***d there. That card can always be played. If you ain't been caught red-handed, you may as well just deny to the end and spin it on trust (that's how a broad would play you anyway "oh you don't trust me, well why should i trust you if this is how you think?"), it's better to keep the dream alive. She'll want to believe when things are good so why solidify confirmation of the bad.

If you have to live your life catering to the next person's fears, your life will suck and you might as well go ahead and keep *doing wrong*, because in their eyes you're potentially guilty anyway. You will look guilty because you will be preparing to defend yourself against being accused of what you *didn't* even do.

It's easy to sit here and say, erase and start over, but if you keep bending to her insecurities spawned from your past, eventually you'll be resenting the present.

 

[1of1]

You made a strong move IMO.

Acknowledged her suspicion, but didn't let it take you off track. Then gave her a glimpse of your work world and treated her to lunch.

You did enough, and you didn't erupt on her and exacerbate the conflict. She will appreciate it or she ain't shit.