Hell nah, not 2am when I got work at 8, don't be textin me shyt but "good night bby, have a good day at work tomorrow". Someone trying to hold a text convo while I'm in bed dozing off is hella annoying.
But on the real, she got reason to be feelin some typa way. If it was the other way around you would've stepped out on her ass. Not saying you're in the wrong here because you got business to handle, but you gotta look at it from her perspective sometimes. I ain't read past the first few posts but you make it seem like you aint shown face in like 2 weeks. If it's something you're taking serious, it'd be wise to have her in the schedule somewhere... Though if it's just your number 1, ehhh she get in where she fit in.