Your grown ass is too old to be shy

[Pura~Diabla]

You make small talk. Talk about the weather, ask them if theyve seen the latest movie, what team theyre rooting for and why. i mean i'd hope that eventually SOMETHING they you'd have an opinion on.

i often hear people say, "well i dont have anything to say to that nigga so i dont wanna be fake so i aint gonna say shit."

small talk isnt "being fake". small talk is more of a social pleasantry than anything else, as opposed to just standing there like a terminator.

I agree with what you're saying but it really depends on the situation. For example: while I can be the one making small talk to fit in, they can also make an active attempt to add me into the discussion. It goes both ways. Some people don't even attempt to make the new person feel welcome or comfortable.

 

[Little JJ]

And through what endeavor will you accumulate this wealth

Either some type of business or law....

I'm going to dedicate my college years to education and focus and nothing else.

I'll be too focused to not suceed.

 

[Little JJ]

Yo watch ya mouth when you talkin to the homey Loo like that. He drops classic threads with no effort

Im going to express my opinion at all costs son, that's the fun of posting on a forum.

 

[shawnbrown]

I agree with what you're saying but it really depends on the situation. For example: while I can be the one making small talk to fit in, they can also make an active attempt to add me into the discussion. It goes both ways. Some people don't even attempt to make the new person feel welcome or comfortable.

Werd you right about that. BUT it is primarily your responsibility to get in. I mean if you are the one that wants to be social

 

[SoutCity]

Nigga Ima be a rich 40 yr old virgin while u payin child support and ur baby mama rent.

I don't fuck with scalawags so I won't have that problem..Nugga

 

[texas409]

if you dont know me you might think im shy or quiet

but the folks that do know me say the exact opposite

 

[Pura~Diabla]

Werd you right about that. BUT it is primarily your responsibility to get in. I mean if you are the one that wants to be social

I was just giving a reason as to why someone might be shy/quiet while around a group of people.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

I'm not "shy", I am however laid back and observant. I take in my surroundings and get a feel for what is going on. That might come off as me being quiet at first but I have no problem holding conversations and getting involved in group discussions provided I feel comfortable. I'm not a social butterfly in the least bit but hold my own in group dynamics although I prefer small groups/1 on 1.

 

[-Vincenzo-]

shy girl -> less drama -> winning

 

[Little JJ]

I don't fuck with scalawags so I won't have that problem..Nugga

Okay good luck

 

[Im_Linx]

Maybe she didnt feel comfrotable with the people you made her be surrounded by.

 

[beezy f baby]

Im shy for bout 10 min say around a guy but i warm up quickly

 

[American.Loo]

shy girl -> less drama -> winning

not necessarily.

in my experience, shy women tend to give you more drama on the back end

and what i mean by that is, where as a reg chick may raise hell every so often, the shy chick tends to be more passive aggressive.

those are the types that'll be cheating for months on the slick over some shit you did that she presented as a non issue.

or, when she finally explodes its totally out of proportion (whats happening is your getting years of pent up frustration in one fell swoop)

 

[SoutCity]

Did this site get hacked again. ?

 

[fiat_money]

Did this site get hacked again. ?

Not really, but kind of.

 

[CrazyStraight]

For real though I agree with both sides of this argument. I'm shy/ introverted. Some of my friends would disagree, but people who don't know me would completely agree, even go as far as to call me awkward. Everyones entitled to their own opinion. I see where dudes coming from saying how it's awkward when there's that dude in the room not saying shit too. For instance couple weeks ago I was at "my dude" house, and we been cool for awhile I just only met his roomate like 2 other times. Yadayada his roomate comes in and I try small talk with him but he ain't really saying shit, real short and sweet with me. So I stop talking and were all sitting there in silence for like 5 min, I catch these bitches texting eachother then they start talking shit. Like it's some straight girl shit, you're sitting in the same room 2 feet away and you're texting about the other dude there, be manly nigga. They were saying how my quietness was aggressive, so I got aggressive and started talking shit. It's like being shy is a disease, no one can really help it (accept when i was prescribed to adderral). When you're young people feel like they can pick on you because of it, but when you get older people are more like wAtch out for the "quiet nigga" take it how you want but in a sense it kind of makes you feel superior. Ive analyzed myself alot and think of rhymes for it all the time. One that always stays is " my essence cs

Carries a big presence". Good night, haha.

 

[MissLeading]

Im shy until I start drinking.

 

[Go figure...]

im not shy i jus dont got shit to say

 

[geechee slim]

To me, shyness is an indicator of lack of confidence or belief in ones self...

But there are some people whore just... for lack of a better term... retarded... have social disorders... porst-tramatic stress... etc.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

Im shy for bout 10 min say around a guy but i warm up quickly

Yo pussy get wet quick huh.