You have 6 months to propose?

[d-weezy]

She doesn't love him, she's just in love with having a relationship and she gave into the pressure of her family and friends to get married at her advanced age.

He might as well just continue to fuck her until his time is up.

 

[longmeat]

you already know what happened...

she was sittin around during the holidays with her miserable man-less friends...listening to bad advice...and now she gonna ruin a relationship she obviously happy with listening to dumb broads...

women and their friends....they never learn

that's always where it starts. To this day I NEVER understood why women in relationships will listen to the advice of miserable, bitter, lonely bitches who's been perpetual jumpoffs their entire life.

 

[King Erauno]

man...women nowadays got it beat in their heads that they need to graduate and be married with kids by 25. its been subliminally taught to young women all over..tv...radio...friends and family. shit doesnt always go how u plan...no need to give a man an ultimatum. Thats the recipe for failure.

Most women love the idea of the actual wedding...not what it takes to get and stay married for life.

 

[MsSouthern]

Hey babe. *hugs back*

why does it have to be wasting time why can't it be that their building a solid foundation. I think a lot of women try to live by this blueprint of how they want things to go and that just adds on to the needless bullshit instead of getting there together.

hopefully he is telling her that... if not then she has a reason to want to know what direction their relationship is going

 

[MsSouthern]

that's always where it starts. To this day I NEVER understood why women in relationships will listen to the advice of miserable, bitter, lonely bitches who's been perpetual jumpoffs their entire life.

My single friends give me the worst advice about how I should handle whatever in my current relationship. And alot of the time it's not even advice I ask for.... they just feel the need to tell me how to handle things.

 

[longmeat]

My single friends give me the worst advice about how I should handle whatever in my current relationship. And alot of the time it's not even advice I ask for.... they just feel the need to tell me how to handle things.

My ex kept going to her aunt and cousin about problems I didn't even know we had in our relationship. Then she'd come to me on some bullshit talking bout why am I this and why I am that....I kept asking her why the fuck are you listening to bitches who haven't had a man since the market crash of 1987? Then when I would tell her why she never asked for advice from her grandmother who's been married to the same man for 40+ years.

Man I kicked that bitch to the curb and never locked back

 

[longmeat]

man...women nowadays got it beat in their heads that they need to graduate and be married with kids by 25. its been subliminally taught to young women all over..tv...radio...friends and family. shit doesnt always go how u plan...no need to give a man an ultimatum. Thats the recipe for failure.

Most women love the idea of the actual wedding...not what it takes to get and stay married for life.

Co-sign 100%. Most bitches are focused on getting married and having a wedding, not being an actual wife.

 

[caddo man]

Word so my homeboy tells me that his girl tells him earlier today that he has 6 months to propose to her, or else she is down with the relationship. He has only been with his girl for 18 months. They are in their late 20s. He tells me he loves her, but wasnt looking to take it to that level for atleast another 2 years. What should he do

either do it or walk. Tell her how he really feels. He needs to practice his speech before he gives it so he knows he is really getting his point across.

 

[GrizTitan]

It should happen when he feels the time is right. Shouldnt be rushed in to a permanent relationship unless he feels as though it time. But if she is willing to give up like that well it might not be the person for her.

 

[mindright]

How long have they been together and are there any kids in the picture?

Those are the real questions that should affect his decisioin making..

 

[DarcSkies]

She is manipulative. Thats a red flag.

RUN.

He wont of course. But u should at least tell him.

 

[#Kew]

*hugs Gutta*

okay I see what you are saying but I still can understand what this woman wants. She's in her late 20's .... dating someone for almost 2 years ..... she wants to make sure she's not wasting time.

If they are not headed in the same direction.... no need to sit and hope he changes his mind

True, he should explain to her that he shares the same vision but he's not trying to rush anything. She might as well wait the 2 years cuz she'll be waiting that long for the next dude too.

 

[blackrain]

Word so my homeboy tells me that his girl tells him earlier today that he has 6 months to propose to her, or else she is down with the relationship. He has only been with his girl for 18 months. They are in their late 20s. He tells me he loves her, but wasnt looking to take it to that level for atleast another 2 years. What should he do

she tells me i have six months to propose i tell her "I'm now single"...

 

[death187sin]

he needs to leave that bitch alone.. You cant give someone an ultimatum or a timeline when it comes to something as overrated as marriage.