You have 6 months to propose?

[Louis Cipher]

Word so my homeboy tells me that his girl tells him earlier today that he has 6 months to propose to her, or else she is down with the relationship. He has only been with his girl for 18 months. They are in their late 20s. He tells me he loves her, but wasnt looking to take it to that level for atleast another 2 years. What should he do

run....run fast...and run now

 

[Lorenzo de Medici]

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[Knives Amilli]

Let that bitch go. Or try to talk some sense into her (won't work but might as well try).

I could understand if they had kids together and the nigga was content on some " ill shack up and have kids with you, but I ain't marrying yo ass" bs...but imo, its not really much of a relationship till after a year neway, so why rush? Why put a timeline/pressure on shit?

 

[kzzl]

Word so my homeboy tells me that his girl tells him earlier today that he has 6 months to propose to her, or else she is down with the relationship. He has only been with his girl for 18 months. They are in their late 20s. He tells me he loves her, but wasnt looking to take it to that level for atleast another 2 years. What should he do

If he doesn't feel he's ready for marriage and being married to her, let her go. There's a reason he feels that way. An ultimatum of 6 months, that's some prime time sitcom shit. I could see George Costanza going through some shit like this. Laughing my ass off at him the entire season.

 

[7figz]

I agree with consensus here. Can't be forced into marriage. Hopefully he beat it already.

 

[Chillin&Postin]

see,

forcing marriage on your partner,,thats not love

i still dont see why folks even entertain the idea

 

[marcyville]

Bitches givin ultimatums now?

That's how you build a healthy relationship, smh...

 

[dalyricalbandit]

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well put........

 

[Louis Cipher]

Bitches givin ultimatums now?

That's how you build a healthy relationship, smh...

you already know what happened...

she was sittin around during the holidays with her miserable man-less friends...listening to bad advice...and now she gonna ruin a relationship she obviously happy with listening to dumb broads...

women and their friends....they never learn

 

[Triple B's]

yeah check that shit asap fam. No ultimatums NEVER

 

[MsSouthern]

By 2 years... he should know if he wants to marry her or not

why should she waste her time ......

 

[mryounggun]

By 2 years... he should know if he wants to marry her or not

why should she waste her time ......

No offense, but I think this is why the divorce rate in the US is over 50%. You can't really KNOW a person after 2 years. You know how little time 2 years is?

 

[Knives Amilli]

By 2 years... he should know if he wants to marry her or not

why should she waste her time ......

Knowing and doing are two different things. For all she knows, dude might've wanted to marry her since day 1, but feels he isn't in a financially secure enough position to start a family.

But forreal, Is that the reason why women flip out about this shit? Cuz y'all take it personal?

 

[thehonorable]

Well that bitch got 6 minutes to get her shit.

Dont put no time limits on me.

 

[General_Patton]

that's not a sign of a good woman

 

[MsSouthern]

he said 6 months to propose to her not have the wedding

that should be at least a year or so after she says yes

 

[J-GUTTA]

Ms S I've always considered you one of the sane ones. But what the fuck is this sh!t. As a man that was given this very same ultimatum this some bullshit and fellas take this type of shit as the ultimate red flag. What the fuck yo women need to stop trying to be such Pepsi new generation broads and let men be a man in certain things, like asking his women for her hand in marriage. And so you women know if your bringing up marriage and he hasn't you got your fuck'n answer.

P.S I love me some Ms S.

 

[MsSouthern]

*hugs Gutta*

Hey u !

okay I see what you are saying but I still can understand what this woman wants. She's in her late 20's .... dating someone for almost 2 years ..... she wants to make sure she's not wasting time.

If they are not headed in the same direction.... no need to sit and hope he changes his mind

 

[J-GUTTA]

*hugs Gutta*

Hey u !

okay I see what you are saying but I still can understand what this woman wants. She's in her late 20's .... dating someone for almost 2 years ..... she wants to make sure she's not wasting time.

If they are not headed in the same direction.... no need to sit and hope he changes his mind

Hey babe. *hugs back*

why does it have to be wasting time why can't it be that their building a solid foundation. I think a lot of women try to live by this blueprint of how they want things to go and that just adds on to the needless bullshit instead of getting there together.

 

[willhustle]

Word so my homeboy tells me that his girl tells him earlier today that he has 6 months to propose to her, or else she is down with the relationship. He has only been with his girl for 18 months. They are in their late 20s. He tells me he loves her, but wasnt looking to take it to that level for atleast another 2 years. What should he do

Fuck that ^^^^^ is a somewhat of sign of dealing with a selfish ass female no man in his right mind would be bothered I would just take my "bags" and move on to someone else in life. They only been together for a year and a half and she already forcing him into something sounds like one of those chicks to make any man miserable in life.