Wrong or unfair?

[deaththreats]

You aint give him the pussy but ya gave it to someone who ya care less about and that you knew wouldn't last......

You burnt his soul wid that shit. Yall might get back together but he aint gonna forget that shit......

I suggest just rebuilding your friendship and explaining that you grew as a person in your time away......and maybe give him a lil play to help ease the pain.

This nigga on point wit the post right now

 

[Seriously]

He's not texting you because he's probably thinking "What a fucking slut ! Bitch had me jumping through loops for years and then she goes out and fucks the first European she finds..."

Dude he's not wrong for not calling you, but you sure are judging him. Atleast he had jobs (temporary or not) and atleast he dated you without sex while all of his peers were fuckin', and calls that shit a relationship - because I wouldn't. I'd call it a waste of fuckin' time.

Dude, never said i wasnt judgemental but for example he wanted to get his driver's licence so he got a job where his brother used to work, he quit after 3 days because he said that the computers made a zooming noise that was bad for him, after that he worked in a company but quit early cause working as a moover made his back hurt, said he wanted to take computer course in which the state would give him a paycheck for and never did it, said he wanted to go work in a cruise for a few months never did... those things get old after a while.

And if you base sex in the center of a relationship than you have no idea how much work a relationship really is, atleast he knew better than that...

 

[SoutCity]

He's not texting you because he's probably thinking "What a fucking slut ! Bitch had me jumping through loops for years and then she goes out and fucks the first European she finds..."

Dude he's not wrong for not calling you, but you sure are judging him. Atleast he had jobs (temporary or not) and atleast he dated you without sex while all of his peers were fuckin', and calls that shit a relationship - because I wouldn't. I'd call it a waste of fuckin' time.

this here is pretty much what I was going to say. You was with dude for a year and never gave him the pussy. Then ran off to Europe and fuck another nigga, not only that you let the nugga pop the cherry too. Fuck I would be mad as hell. I would still try to fuck, but make is a painful as possible. (some revenge fuck)

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

Sho he didnt get the pussy cause he got no money but the other nigga got the pussy cause he got money.Is that correct?

Oh yeah it's not about the money I'm just saying....

 

[taeboo]

Do you really want to be with this dude? It seems to me like you want him because you have more control in the relationship rather then you actually wanting to be with him. I think you miss that pedestal dude put you on more so then dude himself. If you really have feelings have for your ex then you need to accept him job hopping and all. The ball is fully in your ex's court now, you need to woman up, talk to him and ask how you can make amends. If you can't deal with that, then I suggest you move on....

 

[Real Lady]

What kind of feelings, because my ex knows he's a ex, but it irritate me that people want us to have DRAMA because we are not together. Do people think you gotta fight someone just because it don't work out? It depends on what type of feelings, because I'm the type of person that can move on and still have love for someone. In high school, my ex helped me out, kept me from dropping out of school, he use to ride for me hard, we did things for each other to keep each other floating, we were like a team with it. I always will have love for that. I cant just turn on the nigga cause I move on. Yes its hard for some people to deal with, because I don't hate him...I'm still trying to figure out why I suppose to hate him tho?