Wrong or unfair?

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so u didn't learn how to summarize ??...

do not ask questions when u already know the answer ...
 
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akomax;2924712 said:
so u didn't learn how to summarize ??...

do not ask questions when u already know the answer ...

No, in the exchange country i learned to write 5000 word essays in a foreign language.
 
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PimpMVP;2924724 said:
It's only a bad idea if you're ugly

Are you saying you're ugly?

I's a bad idea cause i study something politics related and i'm quite involved in several organizations. Think about for every 5 users in one thread you have like 50 lurkers, do i really want people to recognize me from the IC? Not a good look.

But if it makes you happy i can pretend i'm ugly
 
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You felt that yall were going in different directions....

you=going to college, traveling (broadening your horizons)

him=slacker

You started to grow as a person and from my reading your O/P on the outside looking in he stayed lax so you wanted to be with someone on the same wavelength as you.

You fucked up divulging info about your sexual activity so you basically opened the door for him to get in his feelings and be salty that he wasn't "your first" when he wanted to be.

TBH, I can't really equate or call your feelings for him since you were never intimate with him to begin with (intimacy DOES play a role in a relationship somehow/someway)
 
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oldhead77;2924728 said:
You felt that yall were going in different directions....

you=going to college, traveling (broadening your horizons)

him=slacker

You started to grow as a person and from my reading your O/P on the outside looking in he stayed lax so you wanted to be with someone on the same wavelength as you.

You fucked up divulging info about your sexual activity so you basically opened the door for him to get in his feelings and be salty that he wasn't "your first" when he wanted to be.

TBH, I can't really equate or call your feelings for him since you were never intimate with him to begin with (intimacy DOES play a role in a relationship somehow/someway)

What is TBH?

I was inlove with him, I wasn't ready for sex, I wasn't ready to pretend I was happy with him being lazy and not doing everything I know he's capable of.

After I left my home country, i started living by myself in the exchange country, i began paying my own bills (yes, with my parents money but still) making responsible choices without having any type of coercion to do so, I grew up and I want to take the next step. It was really not about him it was about me (yeah that sounds selfish but it's the truth)
 
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PimpMVP;2924729 said:
Why come to the IC and post anything then? That makes no sense.

So you're either a troll or ugly...

I posted cause I'm tired of just lurking and i actually wanted some diferent perspectives about this situation.

But you have full permission to believe i'm a troll or ugly, I know better....
 
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Seriously;2924721 said:
No, in the exchange country i learned to write 5000 word essays in a foreign language.

if it aint mandarin we do not care ...
 
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Seriously;2924734 said:
What is TBH?

I was inlove with him, I wasn't ready for sex, I wasn't ready to pretend I was happy with him being lazy and not doing everything I know he's capable of.

After I left my home country, i started living by myself in the exchange country, i began paying my own bills (yes, with my parents money but still) making responsible choices without having any type of coercion to do so, I grew up and I want to take the next step. It was really not about him it was about me (yeah that sounds selfish but it's the truth)

To Be Honest

hence why I said that you were going in different directions
 
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oldhead77;2924739 said:
To Be Honest

hence why I said that you were going in different directions

True, but i feel like now he's better, well he has a job he has not quit yet and rarely complains of
 
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akomax;2924738 said:
if it aint mandarin we do not care ...

oh that class was full, go and mind yo business than

* what will i do now without your precious advice?***
 
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Seriously;2924744 said:
oh that class was full, go and mind yo business than
* what will i do now without your precious advice?***

forget about the past , move on and make sure u will always make decision u are able to assume .
 
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akomax;2924745 said:
forget about the past , move on and make sure u will always make decision u are able to assume .

now i feel bad... you do have a good advice

is hard to move on from a guy that treats me like a princess and has a heart of gold (yeah you call out the hypocrisy on my statement since we did broke up and i moved on right to the bed of the next guy, but its true)
 
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I think you want to hang out with him while this timeaking part in all of his degenerate fun. Sounds like he's your kind of person. It also sounds like you want to be with him without being in a relationship with him. Seems like the only reason you havent slept with him is because you are uneasy about being in a relationship with him.

To that I say.....send him a text that just says "Hey" everything will flow from there...let it happen(by this I mean sex)....then tell him he's irresponsible and you don't want to be in a relationship with him. In a month or two you two wil either cease from having sex or end up in a relationship....
 
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Seriously;2924747 said:
now i feel bad... you do have a good advice
is hard to move on from a guy that treats me like a princess and has a heart of gold (yeah you call out the hypocrisy on my statement since we did broke up and i moved on right to the bed of the next guy, but its true)

"The light which experience gives is a lantern on the stern, which shines only on the waves behind us"

Wrong but move on
 
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can someone teach me how to multi quote?

mellow hype - whatever fun i have i'm paying for it now (though i don't regret)

edwardnigma- sounds childish but I WAS THE LAST ONE TO TEXT I SAID "TRUE" he should say something and if he doesn't like me enough to forgive and forget than it's not worth it, yeah he is my type i but i know would be happier with a nerd/driven guy adequate to my necessities as a future oriented person

akomax- i can't move on he's stuck on my mind
 
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You aint give him the pussy but ya gave it to someone who ya care less about and that you knew wouldn't last......

You burnt his soul wid that shit.

Yall might get back together but he aint gonna forget that shit......
 
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DatNiggaB1

You're right and I hate you for it. but i didn't know that i liked the foreign guy less when i was there, the diference is now that i'm back i notice that i barely think about the foreign guy even though he's always texting and calling, while i was in Finland i always kept thinking about how my ex was doing, even though we had a period taht we didn't talk to eachother
 
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