Woman Tells A Class Full Of Girls She Don't Pay Bills Because She Knows How To Take Care Of A Man

[i ro ny]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

 

[Kat]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

 

[D. Morgan]

I get exactly what she's saying and I don't have a problem with it.

She also told them in so many words yall shouldn't be fucking no man who can't provide for you and the child that could possibly come from yall fucking.

Her message was way deeper than just basic I can cook and clean and that is why I don't pay rent type shit.

 

[7figz]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

Wow Kat, I actually agree with you - who are you ?

No but I do think that shit is foul. That's not the way everybody thinks - that shit shouldn't be taught to a room full of young girls trying to get the same education that a group of guys would get.

If those young ladies can grow up to have jobs and pay bills, why should they be told "I ain't never pay a bill in my life..." like that's the way to be ?

And basically some ho shit that they have "value" based on a man. Now if she was just saying they are valuable because they are independent worthy human beings, etc... cool but that shit sounded foul.

 

[Kwan Dai]

Fair.

She is teaching self-value. If, you have high values you will not allow yourself to be taken advantage of.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

ok...this is the problem i have.

she should not have to say she doesnt pay rent or mortgage or bills.

i think that sends the wrong message to this microwave generation.

they aint gonna hear shit about how to take care of a man...they wondering how many niggas i can get money from like that.

but i could be wrong

the take care of each other part..i agree with. but what if something happens and he cant provide for a few years?

is he to the curb? does another nigga come in to pay the bills and the man gotta listen to fucking while he crippled in a chair?

i got some questions for this lady

 

[Kwan Dai]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

Wow Kat, I actually agree with you - who are you ?

No but I do think that shit is foul. That's not the way everybody thinks - that shit shouldn't be taught to a room full of young girls trying to get the same education that a group of guys would get.

If those young ladies can grow up to have jobs and pay bills, why should they be told "I ain't never pay a bill in my life..." like that's the way to be ?

And basically some ho shit that they have "value" based on a man. Now if she was just saying they are valuable because they are independent worthy human beings, etc... cool but that shit sounded foul.

Seems to me you're reading a whole lot of stuff that aint there or was even said.

My daughters have been taught to seek and earn an education but if and when they marry I wouldn't mind it one bit if their spouses could handle their entire financial load.

 

[7figz]

Fair.

She is teaching self-value. If, you have high values you will not allow yourself to be taken advantage of.

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

Wow Kat, I actually agree with you - who are you ?

No but I do think that shit is foul. That's not the way everybody thinks - that shit shouldn't be taught to a room full of young girls trying to get the same education that a group of guys would get.

If those young ladies can grow up to have jobs and pay bills, why should they be told "I ain't never pay a bill in my life..." like that's the way to be ?

And basically some ho shit that they have "value" based on a man. Now if she was just saying they are valuable because they are independent worthy human beings, etc... cool but that shit sounded foul.

Seems to me you're reading a whole lot of stuff that aint there or was even said.

My daughters have been taught to seek and earn an education but if and when they marry I wouldn't mind it one bit if their spouses could handle their entire financial load.

You see how @2stepz_ahead interpreted it differently as well ?

This shit ain't for everybody, it leaves a lot of room for interpretation. Different girls in that room will hear different things:

"Damn right, a dude gotta pay for this pussy."

"I'm not supposed to work, that's what my husband is for."

The roles of being each other's complement is not what's coming across in that message.

And also, everybody doesn't share the same ideas of gender-roles in this day and age, and that's not even talking about the gay shit.

For instance, you said you'd be ok with somebody taking care of your daughter financially - I wouldn't with mine.

 

[D. Morgan]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

Wow Kat, I actually agree with you - who are you ?

No but I do think that shit is foul. That's not the way everybody thinks - that shit shouldn't be taught to a room full of young girls trying to get the same education that a group of guys would get.

If those young ladies can grow up to have jobs and pay bills, why should they be told "I ain't never pay a bill in my life..." like that's the way to be ?

And basically some ho shit that they have "value" based on a man. Now if she was just saying they are valuable because they are independent worthy human beings, etc... cool but that shit sounded foul.

She did actually say that though. She said that she was strong enough and in a place to not have a man on her arm

 

[7figz]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

Wow Kat, I actually agree with you - who are you ?

No but I do think that shit is foul. That's not the way everybody thinks - that shit shouldn't be taught to a room full of young girls trying to get the same education that a group of guys would get.

If those young ladies can grow up to have jobs and pay bills, why should they be told "I ain't never pay a bill in my life..." like that's the way to be ?

And basically some ho shit that they have "value" based on a man. Now if she was just saying they are valuable because they are independent worthy human beings, etc... cool but that shit sounded foul.

She did actually say that though. She said that she was strong enough and in a place to not have a man on her arm

... I heard that too, but immediately followed by the whole "I ain't never pay a bill" shit. That's fuckin terrible bruh. How you grown championing some dependent shit like that ?

 

[Kat]

The problem I have is that this is how I was raised. I was not coached on how to qualify or attend college, it was almost assumed that I would graduate HS and get some BS job until I met a husband and had kids. That's the way my mother was raised as well.

The world has changed. Two incomes are usually needed, marriages don't last as they used to, a higher education is almost a necessity.

SOME women will find men to take care of them, but most will have to depend on self sufficiency or at minimum, contributing to the household.

I want my daughter prepared for best and worst case scenarios and not fed fairy tales.

 

[D. Morgan]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

Wow Kat, I actually agree with you - who are you ?

No but I do think that shit is foul. That's not the way everybody thinks - that shit shouldn't be taught to a room full of young girls trying to get the same education that a group of guys would get.

If those young ladies can grow up to have jobs and pay bills, why should they be told "I ain't never pay a bill in my life..." like that's the way to be ?

And basically some ho shit that they have "value" based on a man. Now if she was just saying they are valuable because they are independent worthy human beings, etc... cool but that shit sounded foul.

She did actually say that though. She said that she was strong enough and in a place to not have a man on her arm

... I heard that too, but immediately followed by the whole "I ain't never pay a bill" shit. That's fuckin terrible bruh. How you grown championing some dependent shit like that ?

If you strong enough that you don't need said person then you aren't actually dependent

 

[Copper]

Stop slut shaming

 

[5 Grand]

Its just an old fashioned mentality. I've known several women in my life that wanted to be housewives. We were in our young 20s and I'd ask people, "what do you want to do?" and they'd say, "I want to be a housewife".

Thats just how some girls think. They want a good provider so they can take care of the kids. It makes perfect sense.

And truthfully if I had a job making 100k+ per year I'd have no problem supporting a wife and kids.

 

[7figz]

It’s fair. That old school mentality exists still.

So does old school racist mentality..is that fair too?

Foul.

Wow Kat, I actually agree with you - who are you ?

No but I do think that shit is foul. That's not the way everybody thinks - that shit shouldn't be taught to a room full of young girls trying to get the same education that a group of guys would get.

If those young ladies can grow up to have jobs and pay bills, why should they be told "I ain't never pay a bill in my life..." like that's the way to be ?

And basically some ho shit that they have "value" based on a man. Now if she was just saying they are valuable because they are independent worthy human beings, etc... cool but that shit sounded foul.

She did actually say that though. She said that she was strong enough and in a place to not have a man on her arm

... I heard that too, but immediately followed by the whole "I ain't never pay a bill" shit. That's fuckin terrible bruh. How you grown championing some dependent shit like that ?

If you strong enough that you don't need said person then you aren't actually dependent

But how you proving you "strong enough" by saying you never pay bills ?

If she would've said, "I'm educated and can work, but my husband pays the bills and I take care of the kids because that's what we agreed on. He's good at his job and I'm good at taking care of the children" etc... etc... etc... I might've been on board (even though that ain't for me personally).

Bottom line is, some people believe in some gender roles that other people don't - that's a problem with divorce too. Can't be teaching this to a room full of other peoples' kids.

On another note, why would I not want to raise my daughter to be independent and self-sufficient ?

Having a relationship / marriage is some secondary shit. I want her to be able to take care of herself without needing anybody else. If she works it out with a man, after she's grown and married - fine, but I'm not training her to be some type of "pay me for my company" chick WTF ?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

so a chick i know...

went to college got a degree met a dude and didnt work since getting out of college. got another degree and they had kids.

now the guy say he doesnt want her to work.

shes like cool....

but the money is real tight and they have like 5 kid.

she cant shop for nice shit or even get starbucks...or really go out like that.

now some chicks applaud her because she aint gotta work. but then talks shit because the man shes married too dont make enough for her to shop and buy nice things.

some women say men should take care of women like that..but most never understand she has a huge responsibility in keeping him happy, which they are not going to do.

so while things may seem nice....you may have to do alot of work even tho you think you aint got a job.

are these girls this chick talking willing to put out like they receive?

or will they just worry about the pussy and how valuable it is?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

then what if these chicks cant get it wet and allergic to lube?

what if dude dikk down to his knee an they cant take a pounding every night?

what if the nigga wants his butthole licked?

what then?

time to get a job?

 

[semi-auto-mato]

A real man will make sure his woman wants for nothing. A real woman understands that taking care of her man is more than just opening her legs. Everything she said was FAIR.

 

[So ILL]

Man, you're supposed to take care of the home you live in and of the children that you willingly bring into the world, male or female. That's a job, you're supposed to do that shit. If she was single, she'd be paying bills and still doing that shit. That "the man is the breadwinner and the woman takes care of home" shit is dead, especially since women can get out now and get paper just like a man and even make more than a man.

Motherfuckers need to accept that the times are changing and ain't nobody trying to trying to deal with too much financial stress. If a nigga is wealthy then whatever, but a lot of us ain't long like that. Let's put this bread together so everybody can live better.

 

[So ILL]

Hell, a woman like that is a borderline dependent to a real man after a while in that situation since kids can look after themselves after a while and he can cook and clean shit himself. Now you're just in the house and not bringing any money into it. The only niggas that get excited over that are niggas that like to be insecure and rule over their women and bitches that like to be trophy wives and treated like children.