desertrain10
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blakfyahking;4360666 said:shorty I'm not exclusively talking marriage, but all long term exclusive relationships
as far as std risk, you still at the same risk whether you boldface polygamous, or you riding on the faith that your s/o is faithful.............risk is risk............and when it comes to your life, 5% chance of death ain't better than 50% chance of death...........you still risking death in both cases LOL
bottom line is you should be safe and accountable in either case and not put ya life in someone's hands
as far as a two parent home, no I'm not disputing the benefit of two parents for a child
what I'm saying is that shit is idealistic, and it encourages mofos to stay in situations that aren't a benefit for the child or the parent
there is no emotional impact if your s/o is "unfaithful" in an open relationship.......that's the whole point
and I have no issue with someone who believes in monogamy so stop catching feelings mayne haha
all I'm saying is the stated benefits of monogamy don't outweigh the sacrifices when you are honest and stop trying to live the disney fairytale............and that's the real reason why many relationships don't seem to last and why monogamy appears to be so hard
many people just ain't falling for that brainwashing shit no more
IMO if you want to be monogamous, then do it for the right reasons..........but not cause some external influence leads you to believe monogamy is the pinnacle of all relationships
nobody is catching feelings ... just friendly debate... lol
and more sex with multiple people is not a cure all for most relationship woes ....more sex with multiple people is not going to make you any happier..... or is it going to fill that void obviously your s/o can't...really considering all the emotions involved and the fragility of the human psyche could make things far worst
so at the end of the day if you are unhappy whether you got a kid or not an open relationship or unfaithful one is not going to change anything at home and does nothing to effect the underlining issues that do end marriages like money issues ...all its bound to do, and you know this, is further complicate things....better off to just leave...
imho better to stay single if open relationships appeal to you...*shrugs*
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