Will relationships ever get outdated?

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blakfyahking;4360666 said:
shorty I'm not exclusively talking marriage, but all long term exclusive relationships

as far as std risk, you still at the same risk whether you boldface polygamous, or you riding on the faith that your s/o is faithful.............risk is risk............and when it comes to your life, 5% chance of death ain't better than 50% chance of death...........you still risking death in both cases LOL

bottom line is you should be safe and accountable in either case and not put ya life in someone's hands

as far as a two parent home, no I'm not disputing the benefit of two parents for a child

what I'm saying is that shit is idealistic, and it encourages mofos to stay in situations that aren't a benefit for the child or the parent

there is no emotional impact if your s/o is "unfaithful" in an open relationship.......that's the whole point

and I have no issue with someone who believes in monogamy so stop catching feelings mayne haha

all I'm saying is the stated benefits of monogamy don't outweigh the sacrifices when you are honest and stop trying to live the disney fairytale............and that's the real reason why many relationships don't seem to last and why monogamy appears to be so hard

many people just ain't falling for that brainwashing shit no more

IMO if you want to be monogamous, then do it for the right reasons..........but not cause some external influence leads you to believe monogamy is the pinnacle of all relationships

nobody is catching feelings ... just friendly debate... lol

and more sex with multiple people is not a cure all for most relationship woes ....more sex with multiple people is not going to make you any happier..... or is it going to fill that void obviously your s/o can't...really considering all the emotions involved and the fragility of the human psyche could make things far worst

so at the end of the day if you are unhappy whether you got a kid or not an open relationship or unfaithful one is not going to change anything at home and does nothing to effect the underlining issues that do end marriages like money issues ...all its bound to do, and you know this, is further complicate things....better off to just leave...

imho better to stay single if open relationships appeal to you...*shrugs*

 
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Da Roc;4358923 said:
If you look around at all the divorce rates, breakups, domestic violence, infidelity, etc, it already is outdated, depending on who you ask. Relationships aren't valued or held sacred like they used to back in our folks' days.

Personally, no I don't think people will ever outgrow them. When you find someone that stands out from what you're used to and motivates you to be better, you don't just let someone like that slide by. I do think the rules and standards for a relationship will keep changing for alot of people over time. They already have compared to yesteryear.

^^^nothing else needs to be said.

i know some will come and shit on relationships/marriage...but when you find someone worthwhile you dont wanna lose that.
 
Lol...relationships been outdated.

Relationships are nothing more than a slower process of whoring round the block.

Think about it...how many people you know jumping in and out relationships like they changing kicks?

How many relationships are really built upon primitive, selfish desires?

 
no there are too many positives 2 being married / in a relationship... its jus 2 many niggas/ females are too immature in the age range of this site (g&s average age is about 24/25) i bet in 10 year or less they will be in a relationship or lonely as fuck...
 

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