Why the 3 Month rule is Good

[S2J]

take out the word "hoe"

and use " criminal" now

would the bold apply to a young cat that may have been reckless and did dirt , pull a lil bind , yet he older now and seem to be on the "right path"

basically should his past be held against years later if he's not showing sigins of being how he was when he was young?

Sooooo your asking me to giv a hoe a chance, huh?

Im a grown damn man...im not runnin no damn Habit for Hoes over here. Matters fact, its a disservice to the chicks out there (very few) who NEVER get caught up and dont become statistcs. Thats who ill try to wife up. Not some p$$y reclamation project

Moreover, as a man, i refuse to belittle myself to take serious a woman who AT ANY POINT was anothr man's dumpster. THAT IS A REFLECTION ON ME. Nah, we don't do that where im from...

 

[S2J]

ur right

let's get our eddie winslow on

EXACTLY!!!!!!

Who does that?

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

EXACTLY!!!!!!

Who does that?

Am I the only one who finds this female NOT at all appealing?
Perhaps I am blind but I could never see the hype.

 

[S2J]

lol

thats bot even close to what I said

I see the idea of having self control goes waaay over some ya'lll heads

and you'd be the same niggas wifin up smuts on the low because youre so caught in time lines that youre not watching how the little ho acts

lmao funny shit

The last part dont apply to me, but it is true...

As far as self control, here's the thing: Its a noble thought, but b/c we are all flawed i KNOW it dont mean shyt

Once you break down that wall with enough women who thought they had that same 'self control',hearing a young lady such as yourself say 'i have self control' goes in 1 , out 1.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

The last part dont apply to me, but it is true...

As far as self control, here's the thing: Its a noble thought, but b/c we are all flawed i KNOW it dont mean shyt

Once you break down that wall with enough women who thought they had that same 'self control', when you hear a young lady such as yourself say 'i have self control' we know its bullshyt.

The flesh is weak, that I will agree with.
With the right person, all these stupid rules can fly right out the window which is why none of this is realistic. People can daydream all they want and we all have our boundaries but when your mind, body and soul directs you in the opposite path of your "rules", are you going to play yourself or be true to yourself?

 

[S2J]

The flesh is weak, that I will agree with.

With the right person, all these stupid rules can fly right out the window which is why none of this is realistic. People can daydream all they want and we all have our boundaries but when your mind, body and soul directs you in the opposite path of your "rules", are you going to play yourself or be true to yourself?

And with that said, i rest my case.

What yall women fail to realize is, for those of us who have 'figured it out', we go into EVERY encounter believing we are that 'right person' Confidence w/ women>>>>>

I win. s2-1, women-0...And im out *drops mic*

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

And with that said, i rest my case.

What yall women fail to realize is, the ones that have 'figured it out' go into EVERY encounter believing we are that 'right person' Confidence w/ women>>>>>

I win. And im out

Actually, using the exact wording you did wins you diddly squat my brother.

With that said, many of these guys you have mentioned fail to realize that the only people they can sell that fantasy and BS dream to is women who so dearly want to buy it or perhaps the ones who themselves have yet to "figure it out."
Most women who are aware know when that game is being played, it's so easy to spot but that ability comes with growth.
It is all about exploitation. Like pimps who prey on the vulnerable as they are easy to sway, persuade and influence and they use it to their own advantage and for their own profit. No different than the fellas you brought up. Both equally pathetic.

 

[Black Boy King]

point blank BURR!

 

[thehonorable]

I am an adult

People generally tell you who they are. And sleeping with them in 1 month or 1 day isn't really factoring in that conversation.

I hate when women play games. Why are you dudes in here cosigning them playing time table games? What is the point?

 

[MeTaL]

The last part dont apply to me, but it is true...

As far as self control, here's the thing: Its a noble thought, but b/c we are all flawed i KNOW it dont mean shyt

Once you break down that wall with enough women who thought they had that same 'self control',hearing a young lady such as yourself say 'i have self control' goes in 1 , out 1.

Self control is not bullshit,I myself have self control and discipline, Self-control is the ability to control impulses and reactions, and is another name for self-discipline. It is not some kind of negative and limiting behavior, as some people might think like you. When self-control is used wisely and with common sense, it becomes one of the most important tools for self improvement and for achieving success. Every human beings as flaws, but just because someone practice self control/self restraint thus is not something negative. Obviously you was not listening to nothing haute said, you was hearing but you wasn't listening, what she spoke was of reality, One of the most importance of self control is It keeps in check of self-destructive, addictive, obsessive and compulsive behavior.

I sense bitterness and anger within you.. for that this clouds your judgment..

 

[S2J]

Self control is not bullshit,I myself have self control and discipline, Self-control is the ability to control impulses and reactions, and is another name for self-discipline. It is not some kind of negative and limiting behavior, as some people might think like you. When self-control is used wisely and with common sense, it becomes one of the most important tools for self improvement and for achieving success. Every human beings as flaws, but just because someone practice self control/self restraint thus is not something negative. Obviously you was not listening to nothing haute said, you was hearing but you wasn't listening, what she spoke was of reality, One of the most importance of self control is It keeps in check of self-destructive, addictive, obsessive and compulsive behavior.

I sense bitterness and anger within you.. for that this clouds your judgment..

Thank you Thesarus Jones, but you are wildly off topic. We are specifically, key word: specifically, talking about women's ability for self control. You are speaking in general terms on the grandiose idea of self control, which i am fully aware of and believe in. If we were talking about alcoholism, eating disorders, or drug addiction i would applaud you.

BUT we're not. We are SPECIFICALLY talking about woman's capabilities of self control.

You can believe in that notion if you want, and fall for that trick as well, but I know what i see. I know what i deal with. It doesnt even make a woman a 'hoe', it just means that, as a WOMAN just admitted in her post, if the right person comes along, that woman is choosing. She willingly will let go of that self control.

Now, you can choose to be the guy that listens to a woman's rhetoric...and believes it (smh), and i'll be the guy who believes what i see and have seen. The numbers are on my side.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Thank you Thesarus Jones, but you are wildly off topic. We are specifically, key word: specifically, talking about women's ability for self control. You are speaking in general terms on the grandiose idea of self control, which i am fully aware of and believe in. If we were talking about alcoholism, eating disorders, or drug addiction i would applaud you.

BUT we're not. We are SPECIFICALLY talking about woman's capabilities of self control.

You can believe in that notion if you want, and fall for that trick as well, but I know what i see. I know what i deal with. It doesnt even make a woman a 'hoe', it just means that, as a WOMAN just admitted in her post, if the right person comes along, that woman is choosing. She willingly will let go of that self control.

Now, you can choose to be the guy that listen's to a woman's rhetoric...and believes it (smh), and i'll be the guy who believes what i see and have seen. The numbers are on my side.

Right, but you heard this from a woman who doesn't need to make "rules" in order to keep her will power in tact, feel me?
I was merely pointing out what often happens in life as I have witnessed being that I personally go by what I feel, what I know and what I come to find out. I know what reality is and that life has shown that if you build something valuable with someone worthy, rules would be a hindrance and denial would be an inevitable state of being for anyone who chooses to play themselves by sticking to something that should not have been created as often times all it does is work against nature.

One should not base their decisions, choices and actions on anything but what feels best for the individual at the time with of course any repercussions in mind.
No one person can determine what the future holds so how can you sit there denying the POSSIBILITY?

Now, I know that any man I involve myself with will take time to reach a physical level. I don't base this on a specific time frame as if I can determine the exact date when things could go down, I just know myself. When the time is right, be it 29 1/2 days or 3 months and 22 hours, I will indulge because every part of me wants to, not because the time frame barrier has been lifted.

 

[haute]

The last part dont apply to me, but it is true...

As far as self control, here's the thing: Its a noble thought, but b/c we are all flawed i KNOW it dont mean shyt

Once you break down that wall with enough women who thought they had that same 'self control',hearing a young lady such as yourself say 'i have self control' goes in 1 , out 1.

Speak for yourself I've never had a problem saying no or keeping my vagina from spreading all over the place

If that's something you struggle with remember that's YOUR struggle

Not everyone has that issue

 

[S2J]

Right, but you heard this from a woman who doesn't need to make "rules" in order to keep her will power in tact, feel me?

I go by what I feel, what I know and what I come to find out. I know what reality is and that life has shown that if you build something valuable with someone worthy, rules would be a hindered and denial would be an inevitable state of being for anyone who chooses to play themselves by sticking to something that should not have been created.

One should not base their decisions, choices and actions on anything but what feels best for the individual at the time with of course any repercussions in mind.

No one person can determine what the future holds so how can you sit there denying the POSSIBILITY?

How old are you?

 

[S2J]

Speak for yourself I've never had a problem saying no or keeping my vagina from spreading all over the place

If that's something you struggle with remember that's YOUR struggle

Not everyone has that issue

Wait. Wasn't you JUST in the 'Talk to your Jump offs' thread soundin like Robin Givens in boomerang???

Cmon ma...which one is it?

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

How old are you?

May I ask why you're asking?

 

[S2J]

May I ask why you're asking?

Well quite honestly i suspect you are like 21 at the most....If so, forget everything i've said lol I dont want to be the one to tell you Santa Clause aint real...

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Well quite honestly i suspect you are like 21 at the most....If so, forget everything i've said lol I dont want to be the one to tell you Santa Clause aint real...

Lol.
If I am 21, you my brother are a zygote which would also explain why you don't understand that age isn't always a relevant factor.

Listen, it's okay. I understand that it takes a certain kind of person to grow and obtain wisdom from that growth.
You clearly haven't come into your own as of yet and lack any perspective realistically speaking.
So please, take your closed minded self and stick to your expertise of typing a whole lot but saying nothing at all.

 

[S2J]

Lol.

If I am 21, you my brother are a zygote which would also explain why you don't understand that age isn't always a relevant factor.

Listen, it's okay. I understand that it takes a certain kind of person to grow and obtain wisdom from that growth.

You clearly haven't come into your own as of yet and lack any perspective realistically speaking.

So please, take your closed minded self and stick to your expertise of typing a whole lot but saying nothing at all.

Oh Word *shrug*

I can tell by your fluffy writing style that you're young lol or just very naiive. But cool, do you.

 

[newOldSchool]

this chick I was messing with told me she had some rule but come to find out she had a dude she was smashing too. Some females are just not bright.