Why Lie About Your Body Count?

[32DaysOfInfiniti]

Only can lie if you ask

Better question, y u asking ?

Cause I'm curious, like many others said tho I can usually tell by her actions anyway, but I'm the type of person who likes to know who im dealing with, even if it means arbitrarily catching them in a lie

Maybe she fucked up in the past or whatever, had gangbangs, let everyone hit raw etc and thats cool and all (not really) but if we are going to be together, then I need to know not just that it happened but more so why

Did she feel shame? did she enjoy it? does she still talk to the niggas who partook? how she even end up in that situation... Going blind like that into a relationship is like buying a huge share into a company you only know the name of.

Some of yall act like your past just disappears cause your "in love" or something but in real life, the things you have done in your past whether you hide them or shout them out loud certainly affect your mental well being

It seems like alot of yall dont care what makes your girl tick as long as she makes you a sandwich and is in the bed at night, but I was raised to uphold a relatively higher moral standard, so im not down for the tortured soul who finally escaped her hoe life cause she found me...

But maybe I should just stop being judgmental and get my number in the triple digits so that shit dont bother me no matter how high it is... or maybe not

 

[Knock_Twice]

one thing I know...regardless of the number a chick says to 'any' dude...the results are that she still getting fucked...so again why lie....like one poster said...be upfront about your past..if you slept for a passing grade or that promotion....put it out there if a dude dances around that topic and leave it up to the dude if he wants in or out...smh..

 

[taeboo]

Women aren't the only ones out here lying about they body count...

 

[Kat]

Women aren't the only ones out here lying about they body count...

Body count or other personal history in general.

Men do the shit too.

 

[MARIO_DRO]

I did.

YOU SO DAM SCARED OF KAA, THAT SHYT DONT MAKE NO SENSE!

SMH

 

[THOT PILGRIM]

Men usually don't lie about their body count.but they'll damn sure lie about why a relationship ended

 

[Kat]

Scared of what?

It's a discussion, should I have attacked her?

Stop acting like a juvenile DRO.

 

[32DaysOfInfiniti]

@Kat @taeboo

But its usually pretty obvious why men lie, either they're ashamed of a low number or like homie in here said they are trying to get laid

for woman tho its not that black n white and this is evident from the scattered responses.

Its one thing to lie about something that didnt even happen (ala men exaggerating numbers), but when you sweepin dirt under the rug acting like shits clean, its a whole nuther ball game

 

[mryounggun]

women lie because there is a double standard and the male ego is a fragile thing.

I don't feel guilty for living my life but sometimes society forces you to play games.

I agree with everything but the bolded.

 

[Kat]

So men don't lie about things that they may be judged about?

Criminal record, income, dependents, etc..

Yeah they do.

People in general will lie or omit truths to avoid judgement.

 

[THOT PILGRIM]

Men will hide kids & bad credit like a mf

 

[StillFaggyAF]

this threads about body count tho

men will only lie if its "low" because men with experience are more desirable

 

[Sour-Cream]

Don't matter, just proves it's right to lie to bitches too.

If Yall niggas think that women are 100% honest then you selling yourself short. Take what you can get and lie with them. I tell bitches, I'm a virgin if it gets me the pussy.

 

[Will Munny]

"Dont judge me" = "I was a hoe and most likely still am, but please forget about it"

 

[The Lonious Monk]

this threads about body count tho

men will only lie if its "low" because men with experience are more desirable

Incorrect. Men will lie in whatever way will result in them getting future pussy. If he's dealing with some chick that just wants a man that knows how to put it down, he'll inflate the number to make himself seem more experienced. If he's dealing with a chick that doesn't a male whore, he'll deflate the number to make himself seem more selective.

 

[taeboo]

@Kat @taeboo

But its usually pretty obvious why men lie, either they're ashamed of a low number or like homie in here said they are trying to get laid

for woman tho its not that black n white and this is evident from the scattered responses.

Its one thing to lie about something that didnt even happen (ala men exaggerating numbers), but when you sweepin dirt under the rug acting like shits clean, its a whole nuther ball game

A man inflates his number for the same reason a woman decreases hers, fear of judgement. A man will get clowned or seen as a lame when he has a low number of sexual partners. Seems like the different sides of the same coin to me...

 

[Sour-Cream]

I don't how niggas telling bitches they had a lot of pussy gets them more pussy. That shit only attracts hoes.

 

[StillFaggyAF]

this threads about body count tho

men will only lie if its "low" because men with experience are more desirable

Incorrect. Men will lie in whatever way will result in them getting future pussy. If he's dealing with some chick that just wants a man that knows how to put it down, he'll inflate the number to make himself seem more experienced. If he's dealing with a chick that doesn't a male whore, he'll deflate the number to make himself seem more selective.

nearly every woman wants a so called "man whore" (lol) so my point still stands but yes the bolded is correct

 

[Lou Cypher]

"Dont judge me" = "I was a hoe and most likely still am, but please forget about it"

(Denzel Voice)

"My Brotha"

 

[32DaysOfInfiniti]

@taeboo

Still tho its different being ashamed of something you havent done, than being ashamed for something you did do