Why females Pick loser Dudes

[Lege|\|dary]

I kinda agree but I only think the dumb women are intimidated by successful men. Most women want a guy who has established himself.

If you definition of loser dude is a guy who doesn't have a job but talks like he is a big thing, I think dumb women get caught in the trap of being attracted to his bravado

I agree that women are pragmatic, but I also think they can be tricked by smoke and mirrors.

 

[dreadlock rasta]

Alot of women only wanna be with the dude once he's stable. They want the finished product. The right now. They wont be with him through the rough times, unless she truely is a down chick

 

[Lambent]

Unless it's required for me to do otherwise, I don't really tell people about my goals.

Niggas be like "Yeah, I'm trying to become a millionaire", then they ask what about you?

I be thinking..... "Nigga, who isn't trying to become rich?"

Funny how everyone and their momma has a goal to become rich, but most of them wont even come close, yet they look down on anyone who doesn't express the same sentiment, lol.

I'm like I ain't gotta express it, to me working on becoming rich is simply automatic.

 

[7figz]

9 out of 10 times, those bitches are losers too. No need to over analyze.

 

[lighthearted25]

If a female doesn't want a "loser" then she is called a golddigger with standards that are to high.

Me personally I can date a guy on or above my level. If I'm broke with no job then when a broke guy with no job comes at me I won't look down on him at all cuz we in the same boat, unless he is older than me. Then I look at his character; is he a felon, is selling drugs something he is cool with, does he have any type of work ethic? These aren't smoke and mirrors because you can tell these things by being around him and his conversation.

 

[Real Lady]

when u say nothing to show for it. Let me break the news, a person don't have to be on t.v to have something to show for it. You fail to realize, some people you do not know

 

[Real Lady]

& that do not mean, I have something against people on t.v.. Iam just sick of average people out here acting as if everyone is a loser and doing bad because they are not in the limelight. It's a false impression of success that is out today, that gets under my skin. I am very proud of alot of entertainers, but at the same time I get tired of people acting like people are falling off or doing so badly because they are not the limelight type. & personally everyone have their shit with them, but I don't feel like I pick losers

 

[NYCeeCee]

Did the article mention ages? Most older (28 +) women can see through the "I'm about to be XYZ" B.S. Just do it and sthu!!

 

[salamerican1]

when u say nothing to show for it. Let me break the news, a person don't have to be on t.v to have something to show for it. You fail to realize, some people you do not know

Kill yo self,

lolz low self esteem chicks FTW

 

[Louis Cipher]

This is a different spin. In Men's Health, they mentioned that while dating, a woman is more interested in a guy's "goals". Then once together, she'll be worried about income.

Notice I put goals in parentheses? That's why they get the losers because these dudes claim they have goals and dreams but have nothing to show for it. That's why guy's tell females what they like to hear instead of actually doing or showing it. We know later that's when females get fucked because she believed him with no facts, nothing to show. Now she realized he was lying, what he said sounded good and was always broke.

As I said before, WOMEN ARE INTIMIDATED BY SUCCESSFUL MEN if they stuff isn't right.

bruh...take these women off the pedestals...i hate this one sided stuff...a lot of the women not worth a damn themselves...i hate these articles that make women out to be some kind of prize...most of'em are no prize or worth your time

 

[a.mann]

If a female doesn't want a "loser" then she is called a golddigger with standards that are to high.

Me personally I can date a guy on or above my level. If I'm broke with no job then when a broke guy with no job comes at me I won't look down on him at all cuz we in the same boat, unless he is older than me. Then I look at his character; is he a felon, is selling drugs something he is cool with, does he have any type of work ethic? These aren't smoke and mirrors because you can tell these things by being around him and his conversation.

hahaha

IC niggaz more confused than the bitches they trying to discredit

 

[JadaRoss]

that's what they want in a man

real men are the niggaz who cant do right by them

 

[goat334]

9 out of 10 times, those bitches are losers too. No need to over analyze.

Came to post some common sense, but common sense has already been posted.

 

[Real Lady]

some of these people ya'll think are winners aint really winners. if you a nigga who think every woman you meet is a hoe. I don't care what u got u are a loser.

 

[5th Letter]

hahaha

IC niggaz more confused than the bitches they trying to discredit

We acting like there is no middle ground?