Why Do women wait too long to finally want a good man?

[daburgh1987]

Because they enjoy waiting too long for their "bad" man to become a good one.

 

[Zona]

Because they enjoy waiting too long for their "bad" man to become a good one.

sad, but true.....

 

[BRiCKSQUAD]

cuz bitches aint shit but hoes and trick

 

[quietaskept]

quietaskept...and thats the sad part...then they bitch about not finding a decent man to help her raise the kids.alot of times women start to realize this when it's too damn late.alot of times men feel like hell im wasting my time being a good man to these women and all im getting is rejects and let downs and all i gotta do is be an asshole to get some puxxy?We men check women out before we go in for the catch.It doesnt take much.Women like I want a man with this,he has to be this size,he has to be this good in bed,he has to have this certain amount of money,or this type of job etc...all this shyt is not important.if she wants a perfect man go build you one.not every man is going to have what you want and need.He's Imperfect just like the women are.Cause when you do find Mr so called RIGHT,he might not be everything you really wanted at all,cause he may have the job,the looks,the sex game..but he can be a terrible father, abusive,cheater,never wanting to settle down,trifling etc....some women can deal with all that in a man,who doesnt treat her right for some dumb ass reasons but hey to each its own.i be damned ill settle for less.If you love a man Ladies,you will want to give him the BEST of you,not the REST of you.

How do you feel towards girls who got that type slut past but realized at some point that she was messing with clowns? I feel bad in a way because not every girl who has that type slut past is really a slut. Think about the girls who had no father growing up...some of these girls look for love in the wrong places because they were never taught what love is or what it feels like. By the time they learn what love is they may have let a few dudes run up in them thinking that is love. Not a lot of dudes are willing to accept something like that.

 

[da champ]

How do you feel towards girls who got that type slut past but realized at some point that she was messing with clowns? I feel bad in a way because not every girl who has that type slut past is really a slut. Think about the girls who had no father growing up...some of these girls look for love in the wrong places because they were never taught what love is or what it feels like. By the time they learn what love is they may have let a few dudes run up in them thinking that is love. Not a lot of dudes are willing to accept something like that.

Men lie, women lie...

I agree. It's hard to get past a woman's numbers to dig deep into the psyche and determine what it is that caused her to rack up numbers like that. It sucks that a lot these girls are "in love" everytime they put out and not just getting piped for the sake of it. Shame.

 

[MERYLISBACK]

ii wish i could find a real one. o wells. i wl deal with the same ol bs i been and pray he "change". not really lol

 

[tam]

I love a guy who isn't into the crap that out now. the guy i'm really good friends with is into, black thought, mos def etc. we have alot in common

 

[Bwoahmizzee]

The same reason niggas wait to settle down and then sometimes find out it's too late.

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

It's kinda hard accepting a female who been ran through like a carwash,but sometimes females can change and some dont.i just dont want a female to give me what is left of her but she giving badboys the BEST of her.I think it's hypocritical.Any Good woman will wanna save herself to a man who is worthy of her body not someone who abuses it,cheats on her and mistreats her why would a woman waste her time with those kinda guys anyway.if the sex is that good for you to continue being with someone who just sexually uses you then yo ass should stay with dude.I still dont understand why a woman will patiently stay with a dude who constantly beats her and cheats on her but she have second thoughts about staying with a good man.do women think she will miss something if she stays with a good man.alot of females are pressured by friends and family.I just think if you want to be happy then you gotta start with YOU.Good people are hard to find

 

[blue falcon]

I was jus talking about this with some friends this week. Its really hard to say why so many girls wait until their later years (and after poppin out a few kids) that messing with bad boys is a dumb idea. My friend Christina told me this weekend that she doesn't like me like that cause I don't have any "urban flava". You would think that after two kids she would realize that trying to live out her BET music video fantasy is stupid but I guess some girls will never learn. I say either go for non-black girls (black girls in San Diego are a hot mess), Southern black girls (they seem to have more sense) or jus keep hoping and praying. One thing I've noticed too nowadays (maybe its just San Diego,CA) but girls are loving the dudes who look and dress gay.

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

some brawds will never learn,let them continue slutting themselves.Her loss can be your blessing

 

[blue falcon]

oh I'm not worried about it she has two kids a giant gut. I'm good. lol. I jus think its funny how silly girls can be even after being treated like crap by stupid thugs. Oh well.

 

[PILL_COSBY]

This question has been unanswered since the beginning of time. Females don't even have the answer to why they do this. Even after you tell them about a sorry ass n1gga they dating they won't listen until it's too late. But they will listen to a f@g or they manless hood rat friends before they listen to you.

We all know who the blame goes to in the end though lol "where are all the good men"

NOT LOOKING AT YOU NO MORE DUMB BEEEYATCH!! WHO THE FU.CK WANTS SLOPPY SECONDS?

 

[bless the child]

nigga what the fuck are you talking about? Your cape is on so tight you losing oxygen to your brain.

lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

This question has been unanswered since the beginning of time. Females don't even have the answer to why they do this. Even after you tell them about a sorry ass n1gga they dating they won't listen until it's too late. But they will listen to a f@g or they manless hood rat friends before they listen to you.

We all know who the blame goes to in the end though lol "where are all the good men"

NOT LOOKING AT YOU NO MORE DUMB BEEEYATCH!! WHO THE FU.CK WANTS SLOPPY SECONDS?

and they wonder why it's hard as hell finding a good man.they cant blame the men for not wanting to do right if they were using and overlookin good men cause they wanna fit in with they fake ass friends.when they friends find them a thug or half a man they gonna leave yo ass hanging,while you still searching for mr right.instead you find mr right now

 

[CILondon]

good question

 

[CILondon]

women do waste a lot of time on a man before tghe realsie its a dead end. shame that

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

im not here to bash females it's just sad that they wait too long to give a good man a chance but they give dogs multiples chances.

 

[Blazedadon87x]

i don't see the point of opening up to any of these young fast bitches since they rather want to be fuck by the round the way hood nigga with the "swag and hoodstar status" that will play them out.smfh

it s like this if they don't give a fuck about me,then I could care two fucks about them if they got heart broken or trap with that loser nigga's seeds.

 

[Blazedadon87x]

its funny seeing these young bithes in love when they say some shit like this in their status:

"Thinking bout my babe... Think I got it bad... Bout to hit him up before I take it down."

Nigga is probably cheating on your young naive fast ass