Why cant most Woman handle honesty from a Man

[kataklysm]

PEOPLE like to be lied to, they like to see a man for what they want him to be instead of what he is and at the first sign of honesty and loyalty they run for the hills.

Fixed that for you.

Men like to be lied to as well.

What you don't know can't hurt you.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

My love thats with everybody though..it hurts when that sense of control you thought you had is revealed to be false.

Ive learned to not try to control/manipulate a person im with at all...never been more happy

i know that but women tend to voice their disappointment more than men

props on the underlined tho cause thats the best way to go

 

[j dash]

lol I let her know I dont want to have unprotected sex with her at all but, the only way it woulda been good was naked head because her pussy aint wet enough to enjoy with a condom on. Then she flooded my inbox

AAAAHHHH! . . . Thats some funny shit! you lucky all you got was a inbox full of angry rants! You better be careful if that chick knows what you drive. if she does you better be aware that she might fuck up your ride dog

 

[blackrain]

man i fell for the honesty trap just yesterday

this chick i smashed last week for the first time decided to ask me if i enjoyed the sex with her since I never "said anything about how good it was"

I told her the truth (tactfully). Then in a 5 page txt she gave me 101 reasons why it had nothing to with her since nobody has ever said her pussy wasnt good before smh

funny...I was asked once "Was my head the best"...I said "No"...and she responded "Well you won't say that next time"...she still didn't make it to #1 but she gave a #1 type effort...for some women that shit will motivate them...for a bitch with low self esteem it will make them react like what you experienced

 

[blackrain]

man sometimes women think they can change your mind and influence your decisions n shit and when they finally put out their intentions they figure youre on the same page so they arnt expecting your honesty to be the opposite of what they thought you were gonna say

just hurt feelings man

as my uncle told me "A woman's truth is often different from the actual truth"

 

[blackrain]

Fixed that for you.

Men like to be lied to as well.

What you don't know can't hurt you.

That phrase is a damn lie...

 

[soul rattler]

What you don't know can't hurt you.

Especially dormant STD's.

 

[Copper]

Fixed that for you.

Men like to be lied to as well.

What you don't know can't hurt you.

what if your s/o is a serial killer?

 

[-Vincenzo-]

i think a lot of people in this thread are missing the point:

we all know that in order to cater to hoes and make them happy, you got to keep their fantasy alive. you are not droppin jewels in here with these chestnuts.

the thing is to keep it real and not give a fuck about this. if a girl asks me 'do you think i'm fat?', she is gonna get an honest opinion, cause thats what real niggas do. you are out there jumping through hoops just to keep some little hoe good-humored so she might maybe maybe give you the puss on that day.

kudos to t/s tho, good to see not everyone is a simp outchea. and seems like kat gathered her wits since she got served this enormous humble pie. everything you've been saying since you came back is on point...i would have never thought you had so much sense in you

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Self delusion isn't restricted to sex, most people don't wanna hear the truth. You either gotta be a 'real nigga' and hurt people's feelings, or use tact and occassionally lie to prevent people's feelings. You're only an asshole if you go out of the way to give your opinion, but if asked, there is no one to blame but the one who posed the question.

 

[kzzl]

so this married white chick I use to fuck with came over she been divorced

for like 7 months, we fucked and I was watching the game on my couch

and she ask me that when she was ready to start dating serious

again would I consider her,I said no,because I would have a real hard time

trusting a woman who cheated on her husband. She got madd at me starting turning

off the TV saying that she was bored and needed more excitement in her life

when she cheated on her husband,and then she blamed me for initiating the affair.

then my female freind who i had sex with a couple times asked

me would I consider dating her, she has 3 one night stands and has cheated on her last 2 boyfriends.

I said no her resume was a little to wild for me and she got madd and stop facebook chatting with me.

I thought woman wanted a dude to keep it real

Honesty would be you telling them that that your resume is too wild and that they shouldn't trust a guy that sleeps with cheating married women. You are the cat calling the kettle black here. If they can look pass your past and still consider you a canidate for something serious why knock it? Sounds like y'all deserve each other.

 

[kataklysm]

i think a lot of people in this thread are missing the point:

we all know that in order to cater to hoes and make them happy, you got to keep their fantasy alive. you are not droppin jewels in here with these chestnuts.

the thing is to keep it real and not give a fuck about this. if a girl asks me 'do you think i'm fat?', she is gonna get an honest opinion, cause thats what real niggas do. you are out there jumping through hoops just to keep some little hoe good-humored so she might maybe maybe give you the puss on that day.

kudos to t/s tho, good to see not everyone is a simp outchea. and seems like kat gathered her wits since she got served this enormous humble pie. everything you've been saying since you came back is on point...i would have never thought you had so much sense in you

I haven't changed at all..you're just seeing me differently.

 

[ol_buddy]

Damn playboy you lucky thats all you got after taking her soul like that...

Well yea i took the "dont be sensitive to my feelings tell me the truth" bait she threw

I don't think I have the best pussy known to man at all, I mean realistically a woman in her 30s isn't going to be able to compete when it comes to the pussy of a gently used21yo.

Thats exactly my point tho. The chick that I was talking about was thinking the same thing, "aint no way my gently used 21yo pussy aint hittin"

AAAAHHHH! . . . Thats some funny shit! you lucky all you got was a inbox full of angry rants! You better be careful if that chick knows what you drive. if she does you better be aware that she might fuck up your ride dog

She knows what I drive/ where I live and all that smh lol she ended up saying it was her period that made her act like that to ask that type of question so idk what to think anymore

funny...I was asked once "Was my head the best"...I said "No"...and she responded "Well you won't say that next time"...she still didn't make it to #1 but she gave a #1 type effort...for some women that shit will motivate them...for a bitch with low self esteem it will make them react like what you experienced

You right. Her dude recently left her so in her mind I was a rebound that shitted on her i guess. Your story sounds similar to the "I've never had a chick make me nut from head" motivation technique...sound like u were being honest tho

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

Because it's one thing to know you're doing or did something wrong, it's quite another to have it thrown in your face, especially if the other person was all for it at one point too.

 

[blackrain]

Well yea i took the "dont be sensitive to my feelings tell me the truth" bait she threw

Thats exactly my point tho. The chick that I was talking about was thinking the same thing, "aint no way my gently used 21yo pussy aint hittin"

She knows what I drive/ where I live and all that smh lol she ended up saying it was her period that made her act like that to ask that type of question so idk what to think anymore

You right. Her dude recently left her so in her mind I was a rebound that shitted on her i guess. Your story sounds similar to the "I've never had a chick make me nut from head" motivation technique...sound like u were being honest tho

I was...she wasn't my girl at the time, we were broken up, so I felt no need to really spare her feelings...and I told her flat out "Nah you're not the best head I've gotten"...I thought she might be hurt but she wasn't...I've also experienced the other reaction though with one ex who asked me if she was the best and I told her "You won't like my answer"...she kept pushing and I told her...she was upset for a couple days lol

 

[kataklysm]

That phrase is a damn lie...

It is, but at the same time it isn't...especially when it comes to relationships.

As long as you're ignorant to any negativity or fuckery life is good..it's the truth coming out that causes you to hurt.

 

[Lou Cypher]

I dont think a man would be able to handle honesty from most women.

*didnt read any posts*

 

[SloGGy]

Thats church right there, I'll just fake some shaking movements and throw a couple "oh Shit" in there.

fuck that ... that shit excessive. i'm giving that bitch the truth

 

[SloGGy]

Not deep, but abnormally deep. Like you'd have to stick a roll of paper towels up there just to touch the G Spot.

roflmao @ this vivid description

 

[kataklysm]

Thats exactly my point tho. The chick that I was talking about was thinking the same thing, "aint no way my gently used 21yo pussy aint hittin"

Damn she was 21?

She just wasn't getting wet or the pussy was loose?

If it was just a matter of wetness..at 21, Imma have to pinpoint you as the culprit. Maybe you weren't doing it for her.