...Why Are Black Girls So Damn Difficult?

[MorganFreemanKing]

Bottom Bitches Are Safety Nets

There will come a time when the girl you really likes breaks up with you. You’ll need someone who can restore your confidence, vent to, and have sex with while you’re in a slump. Look no further than that girl who’s always loved you. All men attempt to go back to ex-girlfriends, but BB’s are more than an ex, they’re a support system. Their love, however isn’t unconditional, it’s based on one thing– one day we will be together because you told me so. The two things boys learn as kids are how to do Ryu’s Hadouken and how to fool girls into thinking we go with them without actually saying, “I go with you“. It’s the oldest trick in the book. Niggas make up all kinds of excuses as to why you’re together but not really together because that leaves us free to move on to the girl we really want without being labeled a cheater. At the same time she won’t date anyone else because she’s in love with you. Treat a girl who’s not your girlfriend like she’s the love of your life and she will wait for the title forever, sounds silly but you’d be shocked at how well it works.

For example: Randy has been fucking with Anita since they were in 10th grade off and on, they’re like best friends, and in Anita’s mind now that Randy’s out of the military and has a good job he’s going to be with her like they always talked about. Randy needed Anita back when he was a little dusty boy whose moms was on crack. Anita brought him lunch, paid his school dues, hell she even taught the nigga dick control. Randy feed Anita the “I want to be with you baby, but my money’s not right” lie. It’s one of the easiest lies to pull off and generally dictates that the reason we’re not together isn’t because I don’t love you, it’s because I wouldn’t be able to treat you to the things you deserve as my girl. Womp Womp. Did his money not being right stop him from running up in her raw every chance he got? Hell no, despite that excuse he still got boyfriend privileges, without the girlfriend hassle. Now that Randy’s grown and making some bread Anita thinks they’ll finally be together. HA! Randy doesn’t need that safety net as much so he stops coming around to see Anita. Next thing you know Randy gets some girl at work pregnant and Anita’s hurt like hell. Why would he do that to her? She was his bottom bitch; it was them against the world. Sit yo ass down. Randy sold his bottom bitch a dream, and because they had so much history and love between them, she brought it hook, line, and sinker. If you are my girlfriend that means I love you, if you’re my bottom bitch that means I love you for what you can do for me.

 

[MorganFreemanKing]

Bottom Bitches Are Loyal To A Fault

This girl wrote me an email once because her “man” was caught having sex with some girl. She wanted to know how to best get revenge. I told her to leave him. She replied that she was too in love, and technically they weren’t together. She didn’t want revenge on the guy she wanted revenge on the girl who didn’t even know about her. Confusing right? This girl was in an invisible relationship and expected all women to respect something that they didn’t know existed. That’s how blind a Bottom Bitch is. Everyone in your community knows that homie has been dicking you down for a minute, but when other girls ask him, “What’s up with you and your girl” he responds, “We’re just cool“. Next thing you know you’re trying to fight a girl over a dick that doesn’t even belong to you. Are you crazy? Beating that girl up or Facebook bashing her isn’t going to change the fact that he doesn’t think you’re worth claiming in front of other women. I don’t care how many times he’s told you “I love you” or if he brought you some cheap ass bracelet for your birthday “Bottom Bitch” isn’t a relationship status. You have no say in who he sleeps with. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out how to make everything copacetic with your BB again. After the drama is over, go over to her crib, tell her how that girl didn’t mean anything, guilt her by saying, “all this time you’ve been my girl and now you going to let that bitch come between us?” She knows you’re full of shit, but she doesn’t want to lose you, so the game continues.

 

[Black Boy King]

I don't see everyone's beef with the article. The media does this not just to black women but black people minorities in general. There are many valid points here.

blackgirlsareeasy stay droppin' quality, I keep forgetting to check back there every once in a while for a good read.

 

[MorganFreemanKing]

Bottom Bitches Always Answer The Phone

Remember Anita and Randy, if not your reading comprehension is all fucked up. So Randy had a baby and hasn’t talked to Anita in a year. He’s grown sick of his baby mom’s loose walls and wants something new. He could go out and hunt, but niggas are lazy so he goes back to the past. He calls Anita, she doesn’t answer. Instead, she paces in her crib wondering why he’s calling after all this time, secretly hoping that the mother and child both died in a tragic accident and he’s free to start a new life with her. Sad delusional Bottom Bitches… She calls him back thirty minutes later and he begins to tell her how much he misses her. They talk about old times, and how he made a mistake, and how he has to fuck see her again. Anita has a boyfriend, a good nigga who doesn’t cause her any stress in other words– she’s bored. Next thing you know Randy’s hitting that again and telling her how he’s going to leave his baby moms, all she has to do is be patient. Months past and Anita’s pussy is still being used as a timeshare. To top it off her boyfriend knows she’s cheating but his simp ass can’t let go. Now she’s living foul because she can’t let go of this nigga she invested in way back when despite having a good man in her life. That type of scenario happens all the time, and few men can break the bottom bitch spell when feelings are that deep. As long as he keeps making up excuses and promising that they’ll be together, he’ll continue to exploit her. Poor Bassica Bottom, what’s the point of deleting his number when you’re still going to answer the phone?

A Bottom Bitch will always be a Bottom Bitch because she never realizes she was a Bottom Bitch to begin with. In her mind, she’s wifey, always one day away from getting that ring on her finger and a return on that initial investment. Sorry to say but that day will never come. Bottom Bitches aren’t Bonnie’s they’re sponsors. Beyonce was never Jay-Z’s bottom bitch, she wasn’t around to put cars in her name and warm up his cup-o-noodles on those cold winter nights when he came back from hustling. While some other chick was boosting Shawn’s ego and telling him that Fu-Schnickens flow was hot, Beyonce was focused on laying her own strong foundation and achieving her goals. In the end, Jay went for an independent woman with the same ambitions that he had and that sweet naïve girl from 1988 who put her man first became just a distant memory. Bottom Bitches are a necessary evil for men. We all need a pat on the back, good head, and a few dollars when coming of age. For your sacrifice and devotion, he will always have love for you, but that doesn’t mean he was ever in love with you. Real men don’t want enablers they want partners, and that bottom bitch mentality means that you’ll never be equals. No matter how long you’ve been holding him down, what has he brought to the table besides false promises? Regardless of how many times he tells you he loves you, why are you still his girl and not his girlfriend? If you keep settling for the bottom how the fuck are you going to make it to the top?

 

[God-I_Am_Ether]

The media does this to everyone. Have you seen all the house wives shows? No of those shows paint a pretty light for any of those women.

Have you noticed the rise of all the REDNECK shows?

The media doesn't have a preference on who it dumbs down, mocks or hypes stereotypes of.

You ever notice that the media is the enemy to everyone? Black People blame the media. White people blame the media. Gay people blame the media. Religious people blame the media. Non-religious people blame the media.

So who's side is the media supporting if everyone believes that the media is against them?

 

[Black Boy King]

The media does this to everyone. Have you seen all the house wives shows? No of those shows paint a pretty light for any of those women.

Have you noticed the rise of all the REDNECK shows?

The media doesn't have a preference on who it dumbs down, mocks or hypes stereotypes of.

You ever notice that the media is the enemy to everyone? Black People blame the media. White people blame the media. Gay people blame the media. Religious people blame the media. Non-religious people blame the media.

So who's side is the media supporting if everyone believes that the media is against them?

Didn't read

 

[God-I_Am_Ether]

Perfect

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Didn't read

Didn't read.

 

[longmeat]

My black girlfriend came over yesterday, helped cleaned my apartment, then made me dinner. Y'all keep saying how trifling black women are, but maybe a lot of y'all niggas ain't shit.

 

[God-I_Am_Ether]

Do you know how many videos of black chics twerkin in Walmart on YouTube there are?

 

[God-I_Am_Ether]

YouTube and Worldstar and other sites like these are the publics media. Individuals upload videos of themselves and others showing the world what they want them to see. The views shows just what the world is interested in looking at and if it goes viral then it shows just what people are actually saying this is a must see.

So whose worst? What the media wants to show you or what the public what's to show you?

 

[desertrain10]

It's not the media's fault for these misconceptions or stereotypes. We give "THE MEDIA" tooo much credit. The fault lies on Not only Black Women but Black men as well.

This sound familiar!

"Oh If that was a sista she would have cussed yo ass out"

"I'm a Black Woman! I'll give you a peice of my mind"

"black women tell it like it is"

And so on.

Add the eye, neck and hand movement then you do have a lot of typical Black woman.

The thing Is this once represented strength and poise. You had to real push a black woman to make her take it to that level of cussing you out, rolling her eyes etc but somewhere along the lines women thought this meant they was being smart and no nonsense and started acting this way over stupid petty shit, like at the server at McDonalds or some shit.

"Don't make me get loud in here (which "here" eventually turned into "this bitch")

I don't know what it is about getting loud when a situation is not going your way but it is true a lot of black women have this fucking problem. And the louder they get the more into character they become. We know there is truth to this. And once they are into this character there is no reasoning because it becomes more about how much attention she can get by yelling random bs at whom ever shes upset with. You just have to walk off.

"yeah stupid bitch/nigga walk the fuck off"

Are all black women like this? Of course not but

"don't make me act like a nigga in here"

WE KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS.

ok, but like you said black women aren't loud, have bad attitudes, are rude, curse...

so you don't think its suspicious how white women on tv, commercials, in movies, novels, etc are portrayed as being everything from smart, ditzy, beautiful, meek, nerdy, etc but rarely are they vulgar, loud, over weight, violent, promiscuous, etc

the exact opposite can be said about how the mass media portrays the few black women characters we do see or read about

for the most part the country is racially segregated. people live and play among their own. w/ that said you don't think the mass media play a significant role in shaping the attitudes of whites towards blacks? lol

 

[God-I_Am_Ether]

^ you never watched soap operas or seen Bad Girls Club. Just maybe you've seen any of the MTV "Real World" episodes and it's spin offs. MTV had another show with nothing but white teens being very sexual and in adult situations. There are more shows on TV making white people look like fucking fools than any other race. Have you seen Jackass and all it's imitation shows?

Look racism is a very dangerous tool and it will cloud up your vision. Stop looking at the world as a black person or white person or whatever "race" you think you are and look at it for what it is.

Every race has the same common enemies all over this world. Peep game. We are all getting fucked by the same people. And they are laughing at us.

 

[God-I_Am_Ether]

Here comes honey boo boo child
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Oh media, what are you up to?

 

[God-I_Am_Ether]

 

[northside7]

Another article from the same website:

Stop Being The Bottom Bitch

Tat My Name But I Won't Tat Yours

Before Jay-Z was GQ man of the year and husband of the all mighty, he was Shawn. Like most men with ambitions to be more than some local nigga, Shawn needed two thing to succeed in life—confidence and drive. Our mothers tell us we can do anything, but it’s another female that often takes our confidence to another level. The Bottom Bitch. The Bottom Bitch is the reason you walk with a limp, she’s the reason that you don’t fear rejection from other girls, she created your swag. No matter what happens in your life, how broke you are, what other girl breaks your heart; she will be there to pick up the pieces. Bottom Bitches are chicken soup for the ego, and because of her we’re able to hold our heads high at our lowest moments. The funny thing about the Bottom Bitch is, once you get to your destination, she’s the first one to go. In “Song Cry” Jay-Z tells of a girl who was always there for him, “A nigga had very bad credit you helped me lease that whip…” but as soon as the money came he went for the girls that called him ugly, and forgot about the one that loved him despite the Camel features. That’s the life and death of a Bottom Bitch.

lol @ the bold..

 

[ImTheKangRoundHere]

 

[I.B. Blackman]

....Bump.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

As long as black women are producing and taking part in shit like Basketball Wives and Tyler Perry's stereotypical bullshit, I refuse to give a fuck about how they are portrayed. You can't have it both ways. You can't represent yourself a certain way in every avenue available to you and then complain when people actually believe you are that way.

And blaming the media is bullshit because there are more than enough black women reinforcing those stereotypes in every day life.

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

all girls are difficult...don't be racist

Black females arent difficult, niggas just bitch made

Caveman the hoe

Underrated posts^^^

 

[The Lonious Monk]

As long as black women men are producing and taking part in shit like Basketball Wives and Tyler Perry's stereotypical bullshit rap & prison, I refuse to give a fuck about how they are portrayed. You can't have it both ways. You can't represent yourself a certain way in every avenue available to you and then complain when people actually believe you are that way.

And blaming the media is bullshit because there are more than enough black women men reinforcing those stereotypes in every day life.

see how easy that can be flipped?

I don't recall ever saying that it wasn't true for men too. The difference is black men aren't out there protesting and throwing hissy fits at every commercial that portrays us in a stereotypical light for giggles. And comparing black men in prison to black women that choose to be in tv shows that negatively portray them is a bit of an odd thing for you to do.