Which One Takes More Energy?

[blakfyahking]

but thats not what the thread starter ask, so you have to keep the situations that you are comparing on an equal format. He ain't talking about marriage. He is comparing a) a relationship to b) juggling multiple females

Of course you are going to say being in a relationship is harding than juggling females, if you assume the females being juggled are ho's. That skews the question in favor of a relationship. So you have to keep the criteria equal. Hence why the real question asked is: "what is harder, balancing one female or multiple females problems?"

And thats a no brainer.

why ain't he talking about marriage?

that is dealing with one female, is it not?

by your logic, you basically saying is it easier to maintain one car, or own several cars?

at that point you just killed any opportunity to debate in the thread

 

[tru_m.a.c]

bruh..............it's sounds like ya'll never been in a serious relationship for a long time LOL

sometimes that shit gets old, that's the hardest part of marriage

nothing is worse as an adult than having to explain yourself to another adult all the fucking time

maybe it's my personality, but I can't stand that shit......................I got my divorce and felt like a nigga fresh outta jail

hands down a relationship is harder

as I said in my other post...marriage is an entirely different aspect in itself

we are talking about: a relationship with 1 girl vs talking to multiple females

a couple of things to consider:

1 - most relationships fail, so why are we pretending that this hypothetical relationshp is the Holy Grail of relationship?

2 - At this age, if you're talking to a female, I'd assume you would be dealing with her in a somewhat serious manner. So this isn't the talking to on college/high school grounds. At this age what is the point of talking to a female if you ain't really really considering being with her long term (so that knocks out the possibility of it being a ho/jumpoff)

 

[tru_m.a.c]

why ain't he talking about marriage?

that is dealing with one female, is it not?

by your logic, you basically saying is it easier to maintain one car, or own several cars?

at that point you just killed any opportunity to debate in the thread

lol that was kind of my point...its an undebateable thing

And to your point about why it can't be about marriage. Would you want your wife referring to your marriage as a marriage or a relationship. There is a complete distinct definiton for the two. A female would go on a rage if her husband simply referred to their marriage as "a relationship."

And I don't think anything is harder than a marriage lol

 

[Lorenzo de Medici]

Definitely relationship. You're emotionally invested which sucks your energy. You can pretty much be a robot to a bitch and she won't know the difference if y'all just met and you tryna get in dem thangs.

 

[blakfyahking]

as I said in my other post...marriage is an entirely different aspect in itself

we are talking about: a relationship with 1 girl vs talking to multiple females

a couple of things to consider:
1 - most relationships fail, so why are we pretending that this hypothetical relationshp is the Holy Grail of relationship?
2 - At this age, if you're talking to a female, I'd assume you would be dealing with her in a somewhat serious manner. So this isn't the talking to on college/high school grounds. At this age what is the point of talking to a female if you ain't really really considering being with her long term (so that knocks out the possibility of it being a ho/jumpoff)

explain the bolded

cause what is a serious relationship that doesn't have the potential to lead to marriage?

why is it not possible to equivocate being married vs. running thru multiple women in this thread?

hell you could even twist it and say what is harder: being a faithful husband, or cheating on ya wife without getting caught and dealing with the guilt

it's pretty much the same dilemma of which is easier to manage

 

[blakfyahking]

lol that was kind of my point...its an undebateable thing

And to your point about why it can't be about marriage. Would you want your wife referring to your marriage as a marriage or a relationship. There is a complete distinct definiton for the two. A female would go on a rage if her husband simply referred to their marriage as "a relationship."

And I don't think anything is harder than a marriage lol

there's really no difference besides a title :shrugs

a marriage = relationship

especially considering trends these days LOL

 

[bmoreeast]

I would have to say dealing wit multiple women.

Ive had moments in my life where i would call myself juggling 3-5 different women at once and the shit gets hard. For one all of them always wanna see you or spend some time or wanna go out.

Its way more costlier dealing wit multiple broads then if you had one girl. You never get any rest, them bitches be hitting you all damn day. And somebody always needs something or is going thru something.

Nigga barely feel like hearing about how their girls day went you be fake listening to that shit, imagine tryna fake like you care to 5 different broads?

 

[goldenja]

would you rather get jumped by 3-5 people?
or fight 1 on 1?

you decide...

 

[nex gin]

multiple women. because all of them want all of your time, usually

.................................................. /thread

 

[Miller1221]

Real shit, they both are fuckin hard but a relationship is more difficult if you care about maintaining it and making sure both of y'all are happy. Marriage/serious relationship is a serious investment. When dealing with multiple women its difficult in itself because it will eventually feel like a job, but you can always shorten your roster...you can end that shit with a phone call. Try doing that shit with someone you invested mad time and energy with, you will be physically & mentally drained.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

there's really no difference besides a title :shrugs

a marriage = relationship

especially considering trends these days LOL

lol you right about that...they end up being long, short term relationships

 

[tru_m.a.c]

explain the bolded

cause what is a serious relationship that doesn't have the potential to lead to marriage?

why is it not possible to equivocate being married vs. running thru multiple women in this thread?

hell you could even twist it and say what is harder: being a faithful husband, or cheating on ya wife without getting caught and dealing with the guilt

it's pretty much the same dilemma of which is easier to manage

Cause t/s asked a very elementary question about energy expensed in a relationship and energy expensed talking to multiple women. The energy part is what I'm keying off of. And because his rationale is "because they'll wanna see you everyday," I knew he couldn't possibly be talking about marriage.

The hypothetical situation you bring up is more complicated than simple energy usage and difficulty.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

that is such an odd conversation. what kind of psychos do y'all be dating. so because you wanted to go to the gym, she's gonna say fuck you? that's an imbalanced chick

lol in my situations, I've never gottan a direct "fuck you," but that dialogue has always been accompanied by a deep sigh or "see this is what I'm talking about" or a weird awkward silence

 

[bmoreeast]

that is such an odd conversation. what kind of psychos do y'all be dating. so because you wanted to go to the gym, she's gonna say fuck you? that's an imbalanced chick

i don't know personally, but i think talking to a lot of people would be harder, because it's just more personalities to deal with. i wouldn't be in a relationship if it didn't make things easier for me

That was a odd ass convo. So was the girl supposed to have been his girl or a side chick?

Sounds like more of a one night stand convo then a relationship convo.

 

[blakfyahking]

that's an imbalanced chick

but I bet her puss was GOAT tho..................mentally unstable chicks stay having the most top flight smash game

going raw in one of them chicks is like getting the same high off crack cocaine LOL

Cause t/s asked a very elementary question about energy expensed in a relationship and energy expensed talking to multiple women. The energy part is what I'm keying off of. And because his rationale is "because they'll wanna see you everyday," I knew he couldn't possibly be talking about marriage.

The hypothetical situation you bring up is more complicated than simple energy usage and difficulty.

alright technical ass nigga, I'll take that answer LOL

you one of them "too smart for your own good" type negros

 

[iphucq]

That was a odd ass convo. So was the girl supposed to have been his girl or a side chick?

Sounds like more of a one night stand convo then a relationship convo.

twas my girl and the convo was an example.....easy ass read 2 follow. cant post a novel.........lol

 

[tru_m.a.c]

but I bet her puss was GOAT tho..................mentally unstable chicks stay having the most top flight smash game

going raw in one of them chicks is like getting the same high off crack cocaine LOL

alright technical ass nigga, I'll take that answer LOL

you one of them "too smart for your own good" type negros

lmao my nickname is definitely "smart ass"

 

[iphucq]

why would she care tho is my question.

and if she just wants to spend more time with him, being a moppy/petulant bitch won't help none.

i just have a low tolerance for stupid behaviour like that.

i've been married for 4 years, been with him for 7 years. being sulky, and nagging, and just clingy never works. insecurities will end up destroying everything

true but it seems like i meet alot of insecure pretty bitches.....its like wtf u gotta be mad abt. u pretty so play ya part

 

[bmoreeast]

twas my girl and the convo was an example.....easy ass read 2 follow. cant post a novel.........lol

Naw but the convo was kinda awkward. That wasnt a relationship convo or any kind ive ever had.

How a nigga telling his girl that if he dont go to the gym then she wouldnt want him, then she says naw it aint like that?

 

[thecomebacklegend]

pullin multiple hoes take more energy and skill

a nigga can cuff a ho and hit that same ho hundreds of times cause hoes be trying 2 protect they rep