which men are we suppose to pick

[Dupac]

The man who is nice, non-criminal and who you have chemistry with.

He may be broke, but that is OK. If he's broke, that doesn't mean he's a thug.

He may be rich, but that is OK. Just because he's rich doesn't mean his money was a factor in your getting with him.

I don't see what the difficulty is.

not realistic.....some chicks only have chemistry with criminals and thugs

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

pick the normal quiet guys who stay to themselves. not too loud and flashy but not bummy either. thats just about where I'm at. I'm not ballin but because I'm a hardworker I can hold my own.

 

[allreasoned_out]

not realistic.....some chicks only have chemistry with criminals and thugs

That's probably true.

 

[Dupac]

That's probably true.

naw it;s actually 100% true.. the only problem with them is that a lot of them are cute and have nice bodes so niggaz who they don't have chemistry with stay going at them and fucking everybody lives up in the process...

 

[usmarin3]

Ambition, imagine that. You hoes act like there is no in between, like niggas can't be in school or on training getting their shit together. That's the problem with you broads, you always want the finish product or the broke project that you can mold, what about the nigga who you can build with.

 

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[kzzl]

the man that makes you happy.... or rather benefits your situation.

you looking to be a club hopping freak then go for the joe that best supports that phase your in. you wanna settle down, go for the brother that's best fit and capable of supporting your choice to raise a family.

the shit ain't confusing. most women just want too much at the same time when you're not even ready yet. they make it harder on themselves more than any man ever could.

 

[Maalik]

Im pretty sure some posters already said this........but, most chicks only deal in polarity.

Yall either want the dude who's completely successful, paid, accomplished. The typical leading male.

Or

Yall want the dude who's broke as fuck. Obvious to everyone but, you that he's scum but.....he fucks good. REAL GOOD.

I think dudes get mad because there are plenty of good, old fashion, regular men with their shit together & looking for good women to have meaningful relationships with. They're not players but, aren't stiffs. They're not extremely successful but, can hold down the house. Etc. Women aren't checking for them because they aren't exciting enough (bad boy, good fuck) or on her level (richer than her lol). But, as much as I want to badmouth the women on this thread, I cant. To keep it all the way 100%, women want what they want, the same way us men do. How many times have men looked at the REGULAR women? We do it too.

 

[refcortez]

i swear bitches are dumb. . . (but not the ts of course) if you're confused then don't bother, go dike it up. . . because broke or rich a nigga is gonna cheat on your confused ass. and then you'll blame him, when really it's you. maybe if y'all spent that same energy finding y'all selves that y'all spend finding dick, then the right man would chase you. (i'm just bored, pay me no mind)

 

[5th Letter]

women are supposed to settle for the first guy that shows them attention. if she doesn't then its obvious she's too picky.

no one is implying that women have to settle for anything.

 

[presto]

REAL TALK ................. GO TO THE LIBRARY ..........THE GUYS THAT ARE NOT IN ONE SPOT LOOKING FOR A PIECE OF ASS ... OTHER THAN THAT .... PLAY THE GAME ... CAUSE MEN ARE ALWAYS IN PLAY MODE ..... FROM 19BEFORE YOU WERE BORN ...

BUT IF SO ......... CAN YOU DEAL WITH IT LADIES ???

ASK YOUR MOMS AND AUNTIES AND GRANNIES .... GUYS DO THEIR THANG ... ALWAYS HAVE ...........ALWAYS WILL ..............

NOT A DISS TO WOMEN BUT ...... WE HAVE OUR OWN AGENDA .......MENTALLY .......

OR GO GET MARRIED INTO ROYALTY ......

aka ........................................................... GET A GEEK OR GET IN THE GAME ... SIMPLE AS THAT ...

 

[DatNiggaB1]

Check for a man that checks for you, someone that you can grow with and have common goals.

Choosing a man on his finacial status is shallow. You could be wit a rich nigga and have nothing in common, you could be wid a poor nigga and be emotionally, mentally fullfilled for the rest of your life. And visa-versa.

I need to be wid a woman who connects and understands or at least trys to understand my many different personnas that make up me as a man. Someone who connects mentally and of course physically.

 

[Zone6reppa]

who cares.......suck his dick, make him happy..

 

[DarcSkies]

not realistic.....some chicks only have chemistry with criminals and thugs

Shots fired at Bird

 

[ceothachosen1]

lol..depends on what kinda woman you are..

choose a man that suits ur needs....

materialistic chicks to spiritual chicks, and everything that falls in between......go after who ever speaks to you in a language that most makes sense

this right here

 

[Fundz O' Plenty]

lol flip a coin.

These are actually the best odds right here...

Anything else is overthinking it.

 

[Rocket Kidd]

who cares.......suck his dick, make him happy..

lol...........

 

[shadb33]

Men really choose you sweetheart. You chicks don't approach men so you just stand there and hope for the best.

 

[simplyspeaking]

AVOID the normal quiet guys who stay to themselves. not too loud and flashy but not bummy either. thats just about where I'm at. I'm not ballin but because I'm a hardworker I can hold my own but I can't get a woman.

LOL . . . . . . . . . fixed that for ya guy ! ! ! ! !

 

[UPTOWN]

well rounded responsible independent men

it shouldnt be to any extreme ... you should only choose based on an overall view of that particular individual. there is no type of men or certain catagory that is best. most good men have a nice balance of any good quality you can think of ... but there will still be negatives too.

ill give an example .... most good men wont have alot of money nor will they be broke free loaders, so he may not be able to buy you that expensive engagement ring you want, but he is stable enuff to hold you down if you ever fell on hard times.

everything needs balance.... but its your priorities that will give you a clear view of what to look for. thats what keeps you down to earth and keeps your focus on things that are actually realistic

da fuck?? only one person quoted this???

iiight ... who has me on ignore??