which men are we suppose to pick

[Iheart~Cali]

I've asked this for years and never got a straight answer. Good luck.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

The one who doesn't need society's approval.

 

[5th Letter]

As long as you with the man for the right reasons then it's all good.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

The one you can give yourself to. Your mind, body and soul.

 

[freshb651]

whoever your heart desires

 

[5th Letter]

I see this is gonna be one of those type of threads where the women will ignore logical explanations to prove a point.

 

[Eternal Bachelor]

if we chase the one's with money then we're gold diggers, and if we chase the one's who are broke there's something else wrong with us.

SO WHO In THE HELL ARE WE AS WOMEN SUPPOSE TO LIKE ?????

cuz im damn confused, and dammit Im bout to start just chasing women ! ! !

I've asked this for years and never got a straight answer. Good luck.

yall grown assed women...

pick the dude that makes you happy...fuck you care what some internet names think about your life choices?

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

What are the right reasons?
The IC is so confuzzling. -.-

There is no universal "right" here, that's what some folks do not get.

 

[birdcall89]

lol flip a coin.

 

[Sourpatch Kid]

The one who doesn't need society's approval.

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[b@squ1@t redux]

these hos out here choosin tho

i know that much

 

[Sourpatch Kid]

if we chase the one's with money then we're gold diggers, and if we chase the one's who are broke there's something else wrong with us.

SO WHO In THE HELL ARE WE AS WOMEN SUPPOSE TO LIKE ?????

cuz im damn confused, and dammit Im bout to start just chasing women ! ! !

It's common sense, pick someone that's on your level, meaning if your income and your shit isn't straight stop only chasing niggas that can help you get out of debt and look for a brother that is on your level whether physically or financially and stop settling for the niggas that are treating you like shit. Once you x those out of your list, you have the right choice.

 

[CapitalB]

go with the money.. what can a broke nigga do 'cept crack a joke or two to laugh the pain away and distract from the fact that ur fuckin with a lame and in the event u breed u will be plague the city with yet another lame jus like his father..

only with humans do females fuck with lame males.. nowhere else in the wild..
the strongest male gets ALL the tail.. how is it females of other species smarter then humans who are suppose to be so superior!!?

 

[Meet The Sniper]

I see this is gonna be one of those type of threads where the women will ignore logical explanations to prove a point.

/thread

You're in rare form tonight, jamacia.

Lol @ the topics still being centered around money. You're doing it wrong.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Lmao@ males actually advising either of the two options.

 

[simplyspeaking]

/thread

You're in rare form tonight, jamacia.

Lol @ the topics still being centered around money. You're doing it wrong.

but my choosing isn't about money, it's about the person.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

but my choosing isn't about money, it's about the person.

Then that is all you need to know.
Life and people will show and tell you many things, go by what leaves you being true to yourself.
First and foremost be true to thy self.

 

[Sourpatch Kid]

I see this is gonna be one of those type of threads where the women will ignore logical explanations to prove a point.

Yea, there gonna ignore common sense to make an illogical point out of any thing that takes simple understanding. I think I know where this is going and my advice won't matter since I will be ignored and this question will only be answered by the females.

 

[UPTOWN]

well rounded responsible independent men

it shouldnt be to any extreme ... you should only choose based on an overall view of that particular individual. there is no type of men or certain catagory that is best. most good men have a nice balance of any good quality you can think of ... but there will still be negatives too.

ill give an example .... most good men wont have alot of money nor will they be broke free loaders, so he may not be able to buy you that expensive engagement ring you want, but he is stable enuff to hold you down if you ever fell on hard times.

everything needs balance.... but its your priorities that will give you a clear view of what to look for. thats what keeps you down to earth and keeps your focus on things that are actually realistic

 

[rose.amoureux]

You're supposed to like who you want to like. Wtf? Someone is always going to have something to say about who you choose, but its up to you to decide whos right for you.