WHICH IS MORE OF A LOST ART AMONGST MEN? ....KNOWING/WILLING TO FIGHT or TALKING TO A WOMAN?

[GameChanga]

Notice how both things, knowing how to defend yourself and game, are passed down by fathers or father figures. These young dudes grow up without a father(figure) to pass down game, discipline and common sense. Alot of these guys take on the characteristics of the hoodrats that raised them...

I don't think the mothers are all hoodrats though. I know men who've been raised by outstanding women tell me the pain/rage of being rejected by their father is tremendous. I think this is why so many dudes are followers. They're looking for SOMEONE/SOMETHING to follow. I think that's how hip hop developed. The problem is that the message is controlled by people who want to see Black men/women DEAD. The labels control who gets signed and who gets radio play. The message is POISONOUS. The artists have sold their souls and push poison. Young men emulate it. Since when did b!tch=woman, in HIP HOP. If so and so popular rapper started promoting respect for women,

then these young men would do it! It's all simple mind control. No one HAS to live a chaotic life, they choose it. I know plenty of young men who grew up in hellified hoods, who are married, professional family men. At the end of the day the WEAK minds follow. The strong minds make their own choices. Look at all these homothugs... It's an epidemic... Dudes in/out of jail on that brolic sh!t ... Dudes calling women bitches... Those dudes are gay...

It's so many dudes living a double life... Dudes think that by projecting how hard and hood they are will cover their gayness... Or dudes who screw a bunch of women or have a bunch of kids... Those dudes are SUSPECT as hell! But it don't cover anything... it's just showing their gayness even more...

Real men are NOT emotional and dramatic... They don't have anything to prove...

It's the easiest thing in the world to talk to people. Just log off the computer and go outside. Go play ball, go to the bookstore...

Go to the gym... LOL... No respectful woman is going to spaz out if you approach her respectfully...

Listen to Tupac's Keep Your Head Up (I know he made lots of songs calling women bitches... But he was conflicted). That song is really clear in showing how much he understood women...

Don't send your homie, unless you're in the 5th grade.

Don't holla in front of a bunch of people...

Keep it calm and cute.

And remember, if you're advertising (flashy clothes/car/jewelry/telling your business) you're more likely to attract a simple bird type. Save that shit for special occasions.

If you got a lot of money... DON'T TELL... Take her out in a beater car, leave the 650 convertible in the garage...

Smart/successful women like low key men. Why roll with someone that's gonna get me attention? I've lived/travelled in lots of places. If I'm in Memphis or Houston, I'm not driving anything that's gonna get me got.

A lot of men ADVERTISE and then get mad when they getting got for child support.

That chick dressed conservatively may have a body like a BOOTY model, but she's not advertising.

That chick dressing like a BOOTY model... She's looking for a COME UP/TRICK...

Just be yourself... Search yourself... If you have unresolved issues DEAL WITH THEM...

 

[hoodsavior]

Hard to talk to a bitch.. these hoes always on they phones

 

[loch121]

u niggas have a romantic idea about history...

there was never a time where most men knew how to fight nor a time when most men were Don Juans...

IDK I can only speak on my experience , but my uncles who were early 20's in the late 70's-80-'s were really some suit wearing pimp afro velvet suit players who would get at a nigga.

I think niggas still know how to talk to women.ppl keep fucking and getting pregnant.Ain't no lack in slores and baby mamas on here.Somebody talking rt