Where does the line between admiring another womans body & repressed lesbianism end

[atribecalledgabi]

I'm not going to fully kiss someone on the mouth I'm not sexually attracted to. Sorry. I take it you kissed a few women....

that's not the measuring stick for everyon though. what about people that play that spin the bottle shit? everyone who kisses is sexually attracted to everyone? if you kiss someone it could simply just mean you wana kiss. sex isn't even apart of it, nor does it have to be. i'm not talkin about myself here, i'm sayin in general.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

So what made you willingly kiss another female? were their any men around?

how come you didn't answer any of my simple questions?

i didn't answer them because i thought the answers were obvious when i said i was drunk. plus the questions are irrelevant because kissing has nothing to do with sex. but i'll answer anyway: were there guys in the vicinity? yes. were they watching? idk. i didn't care who was watching. i just did it just to do it. the answer to this question about if there were guys around would generally imply that females are being egged on to do it. in which case, two females kissing really has nothing to do with sex. it's just to be an attention-whore in this particular case.

 

[PILL_COSBY]

that's not the measuring stick for everyon though. what about people that play that spin the bottle shit? everyone who kisses is sexually attracted to everyone? if you kiss someone it could simply just mean you wana kiss. sex isn't even apart of it, nor does it have to be. i'm not talkin about myself here, i'm sayin in general.

i didn't answer them because i thought the answers were obvious when i said i was drunk. plus the questions are irrelevant because kissing has nothing to do with sex. but i'll answer anyway: were there guys in the vicinity? yes. were they watching? idk. i didn't care who was watching. i just did it just to do it. the answer to this question about if there were guys around would generally imply that females are being egged on to do it. in which case, two females kissing really has nothing to do with sex. it's just to be an attention-whore in this particular case.

You know, reading your post gives me deja vu. Go look at pages 6 and 7. Do you see the same pattern that I do? does any of that raise an eyebrow or seem a little suspect to you?

If you had a boyfriend and every now and then saw him kissing men on the lips "on some drunk shit" what would you be thinking? And if he told you he knew what he was doing too, what would be running through your mind?

 

[Oneblackrose2hi]

...interesting topic...when i'm in a relationship, me and my guy both can comment on a good looking woman...you dont have to be a lesbian to notice that another woman is dressed or shaped nicely....but i can honeslty say that i've never seen a woman that made me moist or had a thought like 'damn i'd hit that"...i do study men's bodies, though...how they carry themselves, what they wear as well as their proportions...but i'm a voyeur at heart so i'm not gonna pretend like I don't notice a chick in fear of being labeled gay... men are the only ones that carry that internal fear...

 

[PILL_COSBY]

...interesting topic...when i'm in a relationship, me and my guy both can comment on a good looking woman...you dont have to be a lesbian to notice that another woman is dressed or shaped nicely....but i can honeslty say that i've never seen a woman that made me moist or had a thought like 'damn i'd hit that"...i do study men's bodies, though...how they carry themselves, what they wear as well as their proportions...but i'm a voyeur at heart so i'm not gonna pretend like I don't notice a chick in fear of being labeled gay... men are the only ones that carry that internal fear...

I feel you on that and that makes sense. But you didn't answer the full question though. look at the conversations on pages 6 and 7, then look at 11 and this page. what are your thoughts on what these girls are saying?

 

[atribecalledgabi]

You know, reading your post gives me deja vu. Go look at pages 6 and 7. Do you see the same pattern that I do? does any of that raise an eyebrow or seem a little suspect to you?

If you had a boyfriend and every now and then saw him kissing men on the lips "on some drunk shit" what would you be thinking? And if he told you he knew what he was doing too, what would be running through your mind?

i didn't say i was a repeat offender of kissing other females, just that i've done it before. in high school actually & haven't done it since. i'm a junior in college now. if my bf consistently kisses other males then i would think that's suspect. but if it's just random thing he's done before then why would i care? y'all puttin too much weight on kissing. if i was doin some of the shit moreno did then i could see your concern. but i say i drunk kissed a female & y'all actin like i just said i got my box licked.

 

[Oneblackrose2hi]

I feel you on that and that makes sense. But you didn't answer the full question though. look at the conversations on pages 6 and 7, then look at 11 and this page. what are your thoughts on what these girls are saying?

...to each his/her own i suppose...i think the truth comes out when youre intoxicated, though... me and my girls have gotten 'white boy wasted' and not never have we started dancing on each other or making out...that seems like repressed lesbianism,imo...i think the line between admiration and sexual desire is the length of time that a woman spends talking about another woman...after a whille it becomes obsession. which would turn off a real man if youre in a committed relationship...

 

[PILL_COSBY]

...to each his/her own i suppose...i think the truth comes out when youre intoxicated, though... me and my girls have gotten 'white boy wasted' and not never have we started dancing on each other or making out...that seems like repressed lesbianism,imo...i think the line between admiration and sexual desire is the length of time that a woman spends talking about another woman...after a whille it becomes obsession. which would turn off a real man if youre in a committed relationship...

I think this too, I was just seeing if something is wrong with me lol. A lot of girls in the past I came across who did everything and thought the way some of the girls in here do all ended up dyking later on. I mean did you see the girl post about willingly kissing a chick "just to do it"? Not for attention from men, not because she was drunk, she did it "just to do it" and there were men around who she could have kissed "just to do it".

I noticed something about the "line" now at days. it seems that the "line" isn't the same to the 23 and under crowed as it is to people older.

i didn't say i was a repeat offender of kissing other females, just that i've done it before. in high school actually & haven't done it since. i'm a junior in college now. if my bf consistently kisses other males then i would think that's suspect. but if it's just random thing he's done before then why would i care? y'all puttin too much weight on kissing. if i was doin some of the shit moreno did then i could see your concern. but i say i drunk kissed a female & y'all actin like i just said i got my box licked.

So that kiss had absolutely nothing to do with curiosity? Like black rose said, I have never willingly wanted to go up and kiss a man......sober, drunk or high. And if a nigga try to drunk kiss me ima knock his ass out. So did the girl you willingly "drunkin kissed" kiss you back? or did you just attack her and she didn't participate in the kissing with you? did you like it? did she like it? I'm not putting too much on nothing I'm just asking simple questions.

[second bold]
I said if he did it every now and then, meaning like 3 or 4 times and then never again. so what makes those 3 or 4 times different from the one gay moment?(key word here is willingly)

 

[atribecalledgabi]

So that kiss had absolutely nothing to do with curiosity?

i wouldn't say ABSOLUTELY nothing. it might've had 1/10th to do with it. but it was moreso i was drunk & didn't give one fuck. i kissed guys that same night as well. *shrugs*

Like black rose said, I have never willingly wanted to go up and kiss a man......sober, drunk or high. And if a nigga try to drunk kiss me ima knock his ass out.

i feel like that has more to do with how male sexuality is viewed & most things aren't acceptable that are just commonplace/acceptable with women.

So did the girl you willingly "drunkin kissed" kiss you back? or did you just attack her and she didn't participate in the kissing with you? did you like it? did she like it? I'm not putting too much on nothing I'm just asking simple questions.

she initiated it. she basically just grabbed face & i knew what time it was. i did kiss her back though. i didn't really like or dislike it. it just was what it was. And you are puttin weight on a kiss. You're tryna get at there was somethin deeper to it and it wasn't. It's a thread on here about niggas fuckin girls they wouldn't drink behind. By they logic what I'm sayin makes perfect sense. All i'm sayin is that you don't have to be sexually attracted to someone to kiss them. Otherwise the only time people kiss is during or as a prelude to sex, but clearly that's not the case. If its possible to fuck without love then why is kissing not possible without sexual attraction?

[second bold]
I said if he did it every now and then, meaning like 3 or 4 times and then never again. so what makes those 3 or 4 times different from the one gay moment?(key word here is willingly)

nothing.
but by consistently i meant something he continues to do til this day & will most likely do again in the future. if that's the case then that must mean he likes it if he keeps doing it, which is why i would think it's suspect. if he has a gf he can kiss whenever he wants why would he wana kiss another man? if you consistently do something then you're no longer "experimenting" or "having fun" with it.

 

[N_Dubitably]

This is a funny thread. I don't know... I ask a straight woman about this, I like when her answer is straightforward. None of this "toe in the water" shit. As adults, you can "admire" the human body for what it is, and comfortably acknowledge when another man/woman is attractive or in good shape. Women, especially young women in this digital age, are notorious for taking this to the extreme. Groping and kissing and all that... nah, that's a whole different chapter. That faux-lesbian/bi shit needs to stop.

Maybe I just don't get it, because there is ABSOLUTELY ZERO equivalent on our side to that...

 

[PILL_COSBY]

i wouldn't say ABSOLUTELY nothing. it might've had 1/10th to do with it. but it was moreso i was drunk & didn't give one fuck. i kissed guys that same night as well. *shrugs*
i feel like that has more to do with how male sexuality is viewed & most things aren't acceptable that are just commonplace/acceptable with women.
she initiated it. she basically just grabbed face & i knew what time it was. i did kiss her back though. i didn't really like or dislike it. it just was what it was. And you are puttin weight on a kiss. You're tryna get at there was somethin deeper to it and it wasn't. It's a thread on here about niggas fuckin girls they wouldn't drink behind. By they logic what I'm sayin makes perfect sense. All i'm sayin is that you don't have to be sexually attracted to someone to kiss them. Otherwise the only time people kiss is during or as a prelude to sex, but clearly that's not the case. If its possible to fuck without love then why is kissing not possible without sexual attraction?

nothing.
but by consistently i meant something he continues to do til this day & will most likely do again in the future. if that's the case then that must mean he likes it if he keeps doing it, which is why i would think it's suspect. if he has a gf he can kiss whenever he wants why would he wana kiss another man? if you consistently do something then you're no longer "experimenting" or "having fun" with it.

And on that note..........I'll check back with you "later on". I have no further questions now lol. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS "HAVING FUN" AND "EXPERIMENTING" WITH GAY SHIT!! There is something deep down in yo soul if that's how you look at it.

This is a funny thread. I don't know... I ask a straight woman about this, I like when her answer is straightforward. None of this "toe in the water" shit. As adults, you can "admire" the human body for what it is, and comfortably acknowledge when another man/woman is attractive or in good shape. Women, especially young women in this digital age, are notorious for taking this to the extreme. Groping and kissing and all that... nah, that's a whole different chapter. That faux-lesbian/bi shit needs to stop.

Maybe I just don't get it, because there is ABSOLUTELY ZERO equivalent on our side to that...

you noticed like only two females in here gave a straight(pun intended) answer? I be seeing all these females taking pics grabbing they female "friends" ass, tits, kissing, humping, tongs sticking out almost touching, and licking on each other? I swear, look through a few chicks pics and 6 times out of 10 you will see this. Now I'm asking myself, Why don't they do this with they straight men friends?(makes sense doesn't it?). The only men they do this with are gay men lol shit is confusing as fuck. you see they pics with straight dudes and it be all nice and safe looking.

Yeah that's another conclusion I have came to because I refuse to believe all these chicks is going gay or got fagot tendencies. I THINK THEY JUST GAY FRIENDLY and that is something we will never understand. Gay best friends, big supporters of homo shit, try to make us men comfortable with gay shit, etc etc.

 

[black caesar]

I've playfully slapped a few asses. I'm an ass girl, but the thought of kissing, fondling, licking...etc. another Woman holds no appeal for me. I'm also more turned on by a dude with a nice body than I am a female. But then on another spectrum I watch lesbian porn and it turns me on sometimes...so I guess I do have some "tendencies" if you want to call it that.

You my dogs but it sounds like you're bi-curious. You just need a Bria Myles, Eva Mendes, Megan Good type of chick to bring it out of you.

 

[Niggersauce]

ALL of the women i know with a high sex drive say lesbian porn>>hetero porn.

Im betting it has somethin to do with how they eat the pussy forever in lesbian porn...in hetero porn a dude might lick the pussy twice before he goes in.

 

[black caesar]

Umm, I just don't think I would be into it no matter how bad she was. The thought of some chick eating my pussy is almost repulsive:/

Ok what if she ate you? *Kanye Shrug*

 

[Westie]

I've playfully slapped a few asses. I'm an ass girl, but the thought of kissing, fondling, licking...etc. another Woman holds no appeal for me. I'm also more turned on by a dude with a nice body than I am a female. But then on another spectrum I watch lesbian porn and it turns me on sometimes...so I guess I do have some "tendencies" if you want to call it that.

I like girl's asses too, and I think girl/girl porn is better. Idk why. But I can't ever see myself putting my mouth on another woman's body.

I HAVE kissed a girl once in a drunken state but anything else - no. I'm not bi, I love nothing more than a hard dick and strong arms, but now I'm like - are these lesbian tendensies? lol This thread got me thinkin....

 

[Westie]

it's ok this thread is a safe area to alk about those tendencies

so u say u kissed another female.

did u cup a boob?

lmao - no. If I remember correctly, she grabbed my head. I don't remember what I did with my hands but they weren't touching any boobs or ass.

 

[PILL_COSBY]

I think this is the perfect theme song for this thread.
[video=youtube;tAp9BKosZXs]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tAp9BKosZXs&ob=av2e[/video]
sooo, how many of yall females had this song on your playlist or for a ring tone?

 

[atribecalledgabi]

And on that note..........I'll check back with you "later on". I have no further questions now lol. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS "HAVING FUN" AND "EXPERIMENTING" WITH GAY SHIT!! There is something deep down in yo soul if that's how you look at it.

you just bypassed my whole point, dawg......

but you still haven't proven how sexual attraction is a requirement to kiss somebody =/

 

[American.Loo]

I've playfully slapped a few asses. I'm an ass girl, but the thought of kissing, fondling, licking...etc. another Woman holds no appeal for me. I'm also more turned on by a dude with a nice body than I am a female. But then on another spectrum I watch lesbian porn and it turns me on sometimes...so I guess I do have some "tendencies" if you want to call it that.

I rest my case.

 

[a.mann]

That is a pretty damning statement there