Whens the best time to have children?

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I'm 25 with kids; 8, 6, 2 and 1.

I think having them young is great, as long as the two have a mature & responsible mindset.

 
mryounggun;4889057 said:
I had mine at 26. Pretty solid age. Mind right, money right, relationship right.

I had mine @ 23..i am 24 now....every thing was good...it was d perfect time...... for me

There is no specific age really....i know an homie who is 40...he n wifey tried for five yrs....and they finally got twins last yr....
 
After I have an established career, my wife has an established career, so we can provide the best possible life for our family.

Raising kids costs money. And putting them in a position to succeed costs even more.
 
VIBE;4889030 said:
I'm 25 with kids; 8, 6, 2 and 1.

I think having them young is great, as long as the two have a maturest & responsible mindset.

Damn big dog!!! I don't think we will make anymore, maybe adopt. Are you married? How have you changed as a parent from the 1st one?
 
FucktheIC;4889089 said:
After I have an established career, my wife has an established career, so we can provide the best possible life for our family.

Raising kids costs money. And putting them in a position to succeed costs even more.

I think you're right on the income thing. If you have one kid do you think you should wait for an increase in income to have another?

 
Yeah, I'm married. I've been with her for 12 years, married 4.

The first one, it was easy. Aside the nights and what not, it was peaceful and easy. Now with 4, it's hella difficult, constant fighting, a billion questions, trying to keep them all in check etc... It's stressful and hectic.

Can't wait until they grow out of this stage, everything is such a big deal to them LOL
 
ATTS;4889074 said:
mryounggun;4889057 said:
I had mine at 26. Pretty solid age. Mind right, money right, relationship right.

I had mine @ 23..i am 24 now....every thing was good...it was d perfect time...... for me

There is no specific age really....i know an homie who is 40...he n wifey tried for five yrs....and they finally got twins last yr....

Are you a working professional how is fatherhood for you? Were you financial straight from jump?

 
VIBE;4889136 said:
Yeah, I'm married. I've been with her for 12 years, married 4.

The first one, it was easy. Aside the nights and what not, it was peaceful and easy. Now with 4, it's hella difficult, constant fighting, a billion questions, trying to keep them all in check etc... It's stressful and hectic.

Can't wait until they grow out of this stage, everything is such a big deal to them LOL

Right...lol when will you begin leaving them home alone? When the oldest is what's age?

 
Real Lady1;4889252 said:
I just want to inform you that the evil genius is actually a retarded genius.. I'm just saying that because people praise being evil today. Evil is when u see the truth backwards, and it's a rebel against the light so it's darkness. The evil genius can not really see, what they see is destorted.

I think the best time to have children is when your mentally capable, and of age of understanding the reason of giving birth.

I believe god gave me a seed to raise, I think one of my callings is being a mother.

Its love backwards. Nit meant for evil. Thanks though.

What's the reason for giving birth?

How is motherhood your calling? And why is it that god chose you to bless?

You're awful self absorbed and pretentious
 
Ms.Scorp;4889513 said:
When you're married, financially secure and BOTH of you are ready to start a family.

What does it take to be ready? How do you prepare for parenthood, get a dog?

Or do you just mean prepared to handle everything the situation throws at you?

Not trying to be condescending. Honest question
 
When youre grown and established...when you have a home to raise them in, when you are able to take care of yourself comfortably and you are mature enough to understand that life isnt so much about you anymore as it is raising your seeds and building a legacy for them to build onto.
 
VIBE;4889136 said:
Yeah, I'm married. I've been with her for 12 years, married 4.

The first one, it was easy. Aside the nights and what not, it was peaceful and easy. Now with 4, it's hella difficult, constant fighting, a billion questions, trying to keep them all in check etc... It's stressful and hectic.

Can't wait until they grow out of this stage, everything is such a big deal to them LOL

damn bruh...yall were together 8 of them thangs BEFORE marriage...that shit should count toward the marriage like federal retirement plans or something...my girl and I been together two yrs and living together 1 and I might be bout ready to pop the ?.
 
eh...at first i was anti kids but now i'm like if im settled down with the right one and he wants kids i would be open to it. although personally i'd rather adopt.

don't wana have that convo before 30 tho
 

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