when should you help vs minding your own damn business?

[banginscrew901]

If it's going to directly affect you help out if not fuck them you gone get yo ass shot putting your nose where it don't belong

 

[banginscrew901]

I mean if somebody grilling in they front yard and they ask you to help move this hot ass grill to the backyard whay you gone do?

You gone help or keep going and mind your own damn business?

 

[Trollio]

I dont know shit

I aint seen shit

Dont ask me shit

 

[Plutarch]

when should you help someone out on the streets that you dont know? if you see a bitch getting her ass beat do you help or mind your business? what if that was an old woman? so when do you help vs minding your own damn business?

Honestly, that's a tough question for me. I've asked myself this and never came up with a definitive answer. The best I come up with is if it's family or friend and/or it's life-threatening, then I help, but when it's strangers or petty matters, I generally mind my own business. It's messed up, but trust has never been a strong suit of mine, ever since I was younggin watching Stone Cold talk that DTA shit.

It doesn't even have to be a woman. It can be a dude on the side of the road with a broken-down car. Reminds me of how that one serial-killer tricked his victims into helping him with his car before he would snatch them up and kill them. Nah, I'm not the one. Can't be caught slipping.

 

[TonyDubbz]

Nah I done got enough of that shit. I don't intervene in nobody shit unless it's family and I got a good reason to

 

[Lincoln]

I do not experience the bystander effect.

 

[numbaz...80's baby]

If it something minor, I mind my business. If it's major, i'll say someone should call the police then I mind my business.

 

[Built 4 cuban linx]

when should you help someone out on the streets that you dont know? if you see a bitch getting her ass beat do you help or mind your business? what if that was an old woman? so when do you help vs minding your own damn business?

Honestly, that's a tough question for me. I've asked myself this and never came up with a definitive answer. The best I come up with is if it's family or friend and/or it's life-threatening, then I help, but when it's strangers or petty matters, I generally mind my own business. It's messed up, but trust has never been a strong suit of mine, ever since I was younggin watching Stone Cold talk that DTA shit.

It doesn't even have to be a woman. It can be a dude on the side of the road with a broken-down car. Reminds me of how that one serial-killer tricked his victims into helping him with his car before he would snatch them up and kill them. Nah, I'm not the one. Can't be caught slipping.

Killed Bill Cosby Son that same way

 

[R0mp]

Any time you approach a situation like that you better be prepared take out the aggressor and deal with the legal ramifications that come along with it.

 

[deadeye]

The best I come up with is if it's family or friend and/or it's life-threatening, then I help, but when it's strangers or petty matters, I generally mind my own business.

 

[deadeye]

Any time you approach a situation like that you better be prepared take out the aggressor and deal with the legal ramifications that come along with it.

True.

A lot of people don't realize it's not just about what the other person can do to you, but what you might do to the other person.

Meaning, you could end up protecting someone and end up facing charges in the process: assault, assault-and-battery, malicious wounding, manslaughter, involuntary manslaughter, homicide, etc.

Doesn't even have to be any gunplay either.

Just a one-on-one and dude gets hit hard enough in the right spot.........or his head hits the pavement too hard, and you've taken a life in the process of protecting someone.

Might be all good if you've got white privilege, but if you're black you're probably gonna get caught up in the legal system and end up taking some kind of loss..........whether it be having to plead guilty to avoid longer jail time, getting a criminal record, dealing with the courts, losing your job, etc.

Nah.

Too much to risk for somebody I don't even know.

 

[jono]

Sounds like niggas real pro-police in here now.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

I can't help myself from not helping people. Sometimes I will be there like "fuck just look away and forget about it they can do it on their own", but then my mind starts fuckin with me like "you ignorant bastard, how can you see something and not do something about it? That's more fucked up than not even being aware of it! How much harder to justify that?" And then there I go "Do you want some help?" "No? mind my own fucking business and fuck off? ok my bad sorry to bother you" fml.. just kidding they don't say that ALL the time....

 

[i ro ny]

it all depends on the situation but in most cases, especially domestic-violence related, im not intervening unless loss of life is occurring and even then, eh.

 

[SneakDZA]

My policy is basically to stay the fuck out of it unless I specifically hear the word "help".

 

[7figz]

I don't ever think someone should be obliged to help. It's all at your discretion.

Depending on the day, I might decide to get up in some shit and walk right by it another time.

I usually mind my business but some shit I don't know, I might just have to fuck somebody up... like somebody snatching an old lady purse or some other fuck shit.

It's always that risk tho, like some of y'all said but sometimes you just say fuck it.

 

[Colin$mackabi$h]

Dont save em they dont wanna be saved

 

[ineedpussy]

we need heros out here

 

[Maximus Rex]

when should you help someone out on the streets that you dont know? if you see a bitch getting her ass beat do you help or mind your business?

HELL-TO-THE-FUCKING-NO! You would you get involved if a dude was getting his ass whooped? No, so why does it being a bitch make a difference? Plus you don't know why that dumb hoe is getting her ass whooped. She might be in physically abusive relationship and that's just how her and ole boy (or ole girl because female pussy eaters account for the most cases of DV,http://www.advocate.com/crime/2014/09/04/2-studies-prove-domestic-violence-lgbt-issue) get along. You fuck around trying to play Sav-A-Hoe and having to that bitch and her mate.

The bitch might be getting her ass whooped because she put hands on a muthafucka, she did some scandalous shit involving a muthafucka's kids, disrespected a muthafucka or his mama, stole some money from him, or it might be a situation of pimpin' and hoin'. The fact of the matter is unless it's a family member or an intimate acquaintance, for your own well being said out of other people's shit. Your only duty is to call law enforcement and let them handle that fuckery.

what if that was an old woman? so when do you help vs minding your own damn business?

Why is your example only include women? What if it was an old man? But anyway it depends on the situation. For example, I'm not going to let some shit happen to a kid or let a bitch get raped.

 

[Crude_]

If it ain't a life and death situation or one of my immediate family members involved I would mind my own business and keep it moving.

I'm mindful about coming to the defense of anyone, sometimes people bring certain situations on themselves unless it's a little old lady getting mugged or something then that's different.