When evil step-parents become parents

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I dont get the thread. perhaps im too high.

Are we talking about Posters being step parents? or people with step parents?
 
a step-parent without kids being tough on their step-kids

then they have kids of their own they are no longer tough on kids
 
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It actually pains me to whoop my kids. I really feel sorry but if I let up they'd run all over us. Now I understand the part about its going to hurt me more than it hurts you. Which is a lie in a sense. One is emotional pain and the other is physical pain.
 
I believe in whooping kids asses & I'll still

believe in it when/if I have some. My parents didn't seem mind whooping my ass or my brother's ass @ all & we turned out fine.
 
Really though kai. If I marry a woman w/ a kid & I take it in as my own, clothe it, feed it, etc. I gotta have some authorization when it comes to disciplining the kid. Maybe not whippings, but some involvement.
 
well i am more talking about the step parent always having something to say about how shit should be done like they are an expert an talking about whats good or bad for a child and how what the biological parent is ruining the child by the way they are doing things.

but when they have their own child...they do the same shit they said was bad and ruining a child.

i think that may cause resentment in the parent and the child that had to live thru it toward the step parent
 
bull6599;4364659 said:
Really though kai. If I marry a woman w/ a kid & I take it in as my own, clothe it, feed it, etc. I gotta have some authorization when it comes to disciplining the kid. Maybe not whippings, but some involvement.

thats a given i believe. i think a whipping may be in order if the kid gets outta hand and too disrespectful....but then again the biological should not let it get to that point.

 
pralims;4364420 said:
a step-parent without kids being tough on their step-kids

then they have kids of their own they are no longer tough on kids

My step dad was kinda like this. He had kids of his own before he met my mom but they werent in his custody. Whenever they were around they would be able to do whatever they wanted or he would take them to chuck e cheese and shit but i didnt get to go. It pissed my mom off a lot but it was never that serious. He was always stern with me, always pissed at me for something. Then when my mom and him had my little brothers, they got the royal treatment. and to this day, spoiled little shits. They were in their 30's when my bros were born tho, maybe that had something to do with it. More money and stuff.

 
Lou Cypher;4364725 said:
pralims;4364420 said:
a step-parent without kids being tough on their step-kids

then they have kids of their own they are no longer tough on kids

My step dad was kinda like this. He had kids of his own before he met my mom but they werent in his custody. Whenever they were around they would be able to do whatever they wanted or he would take them to chuck e cheese and shit but i didnt get to go. It pissed my mom off a lot but it was never that serious. He was always stern with me, always pissed at me for something. Then when my mom and him had my little brothers, they got the royal treatment. and to this day, spoiled little shits. They were in their 30's when my bros were born tho, maybe that had something to do with it. More money and stuff.

damn homie....f'd up situation. more money doesnt mean better treatment...you can still be stern an be paid...sounds like your step dad was a jerk
 
bull6599;4364659 said:
Really though kai. If I marry a woman w/ a kid & I take it in as my own, clothe it, feed it, etc. I gotta have some authorization when it comes to disciplining the kid. Maybe not whippings, but some involvement.

All that's cool but discipline as far as hitting should be left to the mother.
 
@pralims

Lol i prolly made it sound worse than it really is. Me and my step dad get along most of the time. and he did a lot for me, take me out on my birthdays and play vid games with me. He's a good guy, we just didnt agree on alot of things. partly my fault for being an asshole kid. And theres just a significant difference in the way my bros are being raised and the way i was.
 
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Lou Cypher;4365192 said:
@pralims

Lol i prolly made it sound worse than it really is. Me and my step dad get along most of the time. and he did a lot for me, take me out on my birthdays and play vid games with me. He's a good guy, we just didnt agree on alot of things. partly my fault for being an asshole kid. And theres just a significant difference in the way my bros are being raised and the way i was.

how was u raised different

 
I got whoopins. They dont. Step dad put them in a christian school, took them to go see his family in minnesota, now they live down there. He's just more involved with them, with me he was like a friend who i could ask anything. With them their family, if i cuss around them i get shunned, even today and their 10 years old lol. Takes them hunting, teaches them how to fish and stuff. Just more involved and stuff. But he was always there when i wanted him to be.
 

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