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explicitx;739077 said:Ok...I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now and decided yesterday that Im gonna ask how many sexual partners she's had in her past. Now lemme give some background - she's real smart, beautiful, we get along great, and she's been nothing but good to me since the day I met her. But, I did not like the number. Honestly, it was extremely disappointing - I could compare the feeling to finding out that wrestling is fake when your like 12, or finding out that Santa Clause doesn't exist. I couldn't accept the fact that my "lil angel and good girl" had some hoe-like behavior in her past. She spat the usual, "It was a bad time in my life, I was naive and believed what guys would tell me, I regret it so much, I wish I could take it all back baby I swear, blah blah blah.". She proceeded to cry her eyes out for the next 2 hours until I took her home. Also, my girl hangs out with her brother and his group of friends regularly, to top it off I found out she used to be in a relationship with one of her brother's friends who still comes over regularly and they drink/smoke/chill whatever. Their relationship ended about 8 months ago, but still - I haven't met any of her brother's friends yet and she kept pushing the issue until when she told me that yesterday, then I told her I don't want to meet any of her fucking friends and what kind of sucka do I look like chillin with you and your ex. I've never had to deal with that situation before, the whole chillin with the ex cause they are friends now thing is kinda awkward and uncomfortable for me. And now I can't get her past outta my head, its really bothering me. So, I guess alls Im asking is if someone's ever had a similar situation and what should I do with this girl.
explicitx;739077 said:Ok...I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now and decided yesterday that Im gonna ask how many sexual partners she's had in her past. Now lemme give some background - she's real smart, beautiful, we get along great, and she's been nothing but good to me since the day I met her. But, I did not like the number. Honestly, it was extremely disappointing - I could compare the feeling to finding out that wrestling is fake when your like 12, or finding out that Santa Clause doesn't exist. I couldn't accept the fact that my "lil angel and good girl" had some hoe-like behavior in her past. She spat the usual, "It was a bad time in my life, I was naive and believed what guys would tell me, I regret it so much, I wish I could take it all back baby I swear, blah blah blah.". She proceeded to cry her eyes out for the next 2 hours until I took her home. Also, my girl hangs out with her brother and his group of friends regularly, to top it off I found out she used to be in a relationship with one of her brother's friends who still comes over regularly and they drink/smoke/chill whatever. Their relationship ended about 8 months ago, but still - I haven't met any of her brother's friends yet and she kept pushing the issue until when she told me that yesterday, then I told her I don't want to meet any of her fucking friends and what kind of sucka do I look like chillin with you and your ex. I've never had to deal with that situation before, the whole chillin with the ex cause they are friends now thing is kinda awkward and uncomfortable for me. And now I can't get her past outta my head, its really bothering me. So, I guess alls Im asking is if someone's ever had a similar situation and what should I do with this girl.
American Loo VII 3D;739092 said:Thats a tough one man. But a very real situation.
None of us know her better than you. If you feel she has truly changed, then give her a chance.
But I would have an issue with homie smoking with her if he used to smash. cuz if he's a nigga like me, he gonna try to fuck again.
what was the number though? more than 15?
explicitx;739132 said:I didn't even press the issue about her and her ex cause she was all emotionally wrecked from revealing her past. I'll just save that for another day when she's not stressed the fuck out. I feel she has changed, but the ol' moniker lingers - "Can't turn a hoe into a housewife". And the number is 7 - I know some people will be like that's low or whatever, but to me that means Im guy #8, which is 2 dicks away from #10. I prefer girls with a low body count honestly, thats why 7 is a big deal to me cause she got what I did, doubled, plus one. And that makes me feel like I can't do nothing new with this girl because she's done it all, the song "Brand New" comes to mind.
aneed123;739103 said:2 months isnt that long. if she still hangs out with him thats a caution sign add in tehy smoke and drink together. he may still be hitting. Do u really like her? honesty is teh key along with can u look past all that. if not it wont work
explicitx;739148 said:I trust her because she hasn't given me a reason not to trust her yet, but this situation is gonna lead me not to trust her. Especially when she's drinking/smoking when I'm not around, like you said. I highly doubt he's trying to hit cause she told me he's not like that, I just gotta meet this kid for myself and be the judge. But then its like, I'd kinda feel like a fool goin' over there and chillin with them knowing that her ex is right here, nah mean?
American Loo VII 3D;739146 said:fam this entire thread was inspired by a girl who told me she once fucked 5 dudes in ONE DAY.
If i were you, I'd let it go. But the drinking and smoking with her ex gotta stop. If she's as good as you say she is, she'll understand.
explicitx;739163 said:Appreciate the advice fam.
American Loo VII 3D;739159 said:Pardon me I had to laugh at that.
If im getting drunk and high with a female i'm tryna smash.
Plus shouldnt no other dude be getting drunk with your woman any how.
aneed123;739174 said:also how old are u and her?
explicitx;739186 said:Thats what Im sayin, but I don't wanna be in a position where I'm telling this girl what she can and can't do, tryna run her life and shit. Plus, its not with just him and her brother - theres like a group of 10-15 people that they chill with regularly. But, the whole tellin a bitch what she can and can't do happened in my last relationship and it was fucked. Cause if you tell a girl not to do it, she'll most likely end up doing it behind your back anyway. I'd rather have her be honest with me ya kno? I wanted to find out more about this fuckin clown, but like I said - I gotta go and meet him, pull him aside and find out whats good. Ima be straight up and ask him if he's still tryna fuck my girl
explicitx;739194 said:I'm 21 and she's 19, first younger girl I ever wifed up.
American Loo VII 3D;739201 said:I can respect that. Seems like you want her to WANT to do the right thing and not be told. Thats wsup
But homie is not gonna say, "yeah. i'm still tryna tap that. why?"
Iono. If any one of my exes called me right now to have sex i'd be down. just saying. but hey, if she really cares about you and you explain how it makes you uncomfortable i think she'll fall back.
explicitx;739237 said:Real talk, I was gonna make a thread about this but I just decided to post it up in here since it had to do with the whole concept of a s/o's sexual past.
Maalik;738873 said:Female in this Thread:
I've had 263 sex partners. Been fuckin since 14 (17 now smh). I got gangbanged in the club by 5 random niggas. My womb is polluted from all the abortions I've had. I've had 6 STDs, 4 in which Doctors couldnt name. I get paid to masterbate online.
Same Female in another Thread:
Stop Bashing Women. Not all women are like that. You need to change your circle. You cant handle us, lame!!!
Thread = pure Irony
