You really think it doesn't matter if a woman has had sex with alot of men and done things that should be private with many. I'm sorry to break this to you but it's embarrassing to be with a woman who has made poor decisions with her sexuality. Nobody wants to have a serious relationship or a family with the towns hoe. Imagine your kids having to hear their mom was with every Joe Blow doing shit he seen on porno. Theres a reason that people should control their conduct. I could understand not making fun of someone or not pointing fingers but lets be honest, certain things stick with you and come with consequences.
Also it's not true that you would never know unless the person tells you. If someone is promiscuous, the people they were promiscuous with could tell you. It's not like they were having sex alone. Imagine a woman who's with a man who doesn't like attention. This woman is attractive. Now the guy goes to work and his co worker sees his wife and says who's that he says thats my wife, then the man says, oh wow, I used to have a fling with her.....Dude brushes it off. He goes to the market and passes by a group of men, they dont' say anything but start laughing. Guy wonders whats going on, wife says keep walking honey....When he goes back outside he hears "Yo remember when we use to tag team (his wife's name) every week, that bitch could suck dick". Husband can't believe it, he asks his wife wassup she tells him. He tries to get over it. Wife takes son to foot ball game Football Coach sees the mom, smacks her on the ass she gets mad he says you never acted like that before she says she's married with a kid now. Son sees it tells his Father, he says what happened she says she use to see the coach when she was younger......It's like everywhere he goes somebody has been with his wife....this Husband will become what is known as a joker, the son will be made fun of....why? Because Certain things carry consequences.
The niggas that scream bitch and hoe on here, might come off ignorant but they do it for a reason, their imaginations are vivid and they see the trouble and problems in certain actions. Nobodies perfect but don't front like just because alot of people do something makes it acceptable.
No the woman is not contaminated at all. The thing is there will be a stigma that follows her which she will need to realize. There are consequences to your actions. Unfriendly responses to the truth which you lived may follow. Doesn't mean your doomed, just means it's what you have to deal with. Could you find a man who's willing to deal with it? Hell yeah, will he have trouble dealing with the stigma which follows you....MAYBE?