What would you do?

[deadeye]

seems to me....

the very thing you hated about your mom.....you just became.

if she ain't got heat or electric an she got a nigga....he aint taking care if home.

sound familiar.

we already talked about this.

you need to leave dude, start off small...maybe in cheap apartments and relocate to that place.

look online for a job elsewhere....if you get it...you already have the money to move. negotiate a deal with a local extended stay hotel or something. move your things into storage, and bounce.

you don't owe an explanation to anyone once you roll.

afterwards. you need to surround yourself with more positive people and people who will bring positive influence into your life to help with your self esteem.

it seems your esteem was already low and you got into something that kill it a bit more.

don't sacrifice who you are because of your financial situation. you sacrifice your financial situation because of who you are. that's more important.

These are some powerful words. To be honest with you, going on my own scares me but I need to face my fear.

It is more liberating than it is scary.

It's scary for me because I have never fully been on my own, the closest I have ever came is when I rented a room out from 2009-2011 when I first left my moms house. At first even that was scary but I got used to it.

You will do great! You will love your own space and you have the IC, we'll be here to help or laugh.

 

[konceptjones]

Yeah shit going so well, they should be married right ?

Chick practically screaming she got tons of other shit to deal with and marriage is supposed to be the answer ?

being with someone that long and you haven't even made a move towards marriage says dude ain't trying to see her as his wife. She's just pussy on tap; nothing more.

Truthfully, I don't understand people that have been with an S/O for over two years and ain't even engaged. At a certain point you're just wasting each other's time.

Bottom line, it shouldn't have even made it to this point. I understand the first two years 'cause they were in HS. I can even excuse the next 4 because of college (which is really a weak excuse, but whatever...), but past that? Nah B.

 

[5 Grand]

I'm going to tell you exactly what to do. I promise it will work.

Go to the local psychiatric hospital and explain your situation. Tell them all of your problems and that you don't have a place to stay. It's illegal for a psychiatric hospital to release a homeless person back into the streets so they will have to take you in until THEY FIND YOU A PLACE TO STAY. At first they'll ask if you want to move into a group home or an assisted living facility. Say, "No, I want my own apartment". They will go over your finances and savings and help you get on your feet.

They will set you up in section 8 housing and help you get on food stamps and welfare if you need it.

The whole thing might take a month or maybe longer, so you'll be in a psych ward the whole time, but they'll separate you from the real crazy people because you're not really crazy, you're just homeless in a bad situation.

I know it works because I went through the whole thing a few years ago. I'm still in the projects but I went back to school and got my degree.

I couldn't have done it without the government.

 

[LUClEN]

Nigga telling you to get a better job and he broke af too.

Actually he isn't. His degree is in Engineering and he works at a company called Cyient. He has two cars (one of which is a BMW) and makes 20-something an hour, (he won't tell me exactly how much he makes).

That's bullshit. I make 25 an hr in a field that doesn't require a degree. Engineers make way fucking more than that

bruh...

I debated on bussin on dude but fuck it.

I worked as a senior engineer for a DoD contractor some years ago. I had cats walking in the door, fresh outta college with their EE or ME degrees working under me making $60K. When I went into the commercial sector entry level engineers were caking $60K-$70k easily.

Dude is out there in CT, lotta DoD contractors out that way. Boeing, Lockheed, PCX Aero, Honeywell, etc all out there so I wouldn't be surprised if he's working for one of them. Booz Allen is not far away in NY and RI; he can conceivably be working there too.

I chose the wrong fucking field :/

 

[Max.]

First off id try move in with a roomate as cheap room as u can get and leave ur BF for tryna guilt trip you n sayn fucked up shit...

He thinks he better than u..2 cars n job...but he lives with 38 Haitian imigrants...thats more than mexicans in 1 house...

 

[CashmoneyDux]

"What would you do?"

if your son was at home

Crying all alone

On the bedroom floor,

Cause he's hungry and the only way to feed him is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money?

And his daddy's gone somewhere smokin' rock now,

In and out of lock down,

I ain't got a job now,

 

[Max.]

Also i recommend u get a security job...its 40 hours(one week) and they give u the answers to pass the test...they ALWAYS hire it will take 2 months for u took get ur registration...it beats workn at a restraunt...and they love giving ot

 

[Max.]

What's his side of the story - is he supporting you ? Are you paying half the bills ?

What type of shit you be talking when he calling you "convenience pussy" ?

It's always 2 sides.

Her head must be great or sumthn

 

[7figz]

What's his side of the story - is he supporting you ? Are you paying half the bills ?

What type of shit you be talking when he calling you "convenience pussy" ?

It's always 2 sides.

Her head must be great or sumthn

Is that the case @SimplyKrys, has he called you "convenience-head"as well ?

(@Max wants to know)

 

[riddlerap]

look on Craigslist for Proofreading jobs. i almost got some with a degree in Criminology. if you have Journalism you could probably land a full time proofreading job. it might not even be for stories or newspaper articles, could be for a business that runs lots of reports and wants to make sure theyre all correct. even Googling proofreading jobs returns a lot of results and websites that try to match people up with others.

 

[Qiv_Owan]

U had 9k and chose to shack up

Im in Cali so thats only 7-9 months rent for a 1br...but u aint so thats a colossal L

U should stop waiting and live your life

A man, especially your man, is supposed to work with you not watch you struggle from the sideline

Sounds like u just in-house pussy and he dont feel like putting in the effort to find someone else so he waiting for u to get the fuckin message

 

[konceptjones]

look on Craigslist for Proofreading jobs. i almost got some with a degree in Criminology. if you have Journalism you could probably land a full time proofreading job. it might not even be for stories or newspaper articles, could be for a business that runs lots of reports and wants to make sure theyre all correct. even Googling proofreading jobs returns a lot of results and websites that try to match people up with others.

https://phoenix.craigslist.org/sear...bathrooms=1&availabilityMode=0&housing_type=1

$9K is a years work of rent on a 1 bedroom apartment in metro Phoenix. If you give yourself 6 months to get on your feet you got 6 months rent+ utilities.
https://www.indeed.com/jobs?q=copywriter&l=phoenix,+az

Look at jobs like a copywriter, proofreader, or journalist.

Same for Las Vegas, Albuquerque, Tucson, pretty much all over TX... you get the idea.

 

[gns]

Your man sounds like an asshole. You deserve better.

You two been together for a few months short of 11 years and y'all ain't married?

At this point you're just live-in pussy; nothing more, nothing less. He's pretty much said that much. It's time to stop fuckin around with your life and move on before this cat introduces you to his 3 year old son and 6 month old daughter by some broad named "Alize".

So what?

It's unusual. Couple that with the other details provided and it's a dead giveaway.

She deserves more.

Maybe she doesnt and they both aint shit

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Your man sounds like an asshole. You deserve better.

You two been together for a few months short of 11 years and y'all ain't married?

At this point you're just live-in pussy; nothing more, nothing less. He's pretty much said that much. It's time to stop fuckin around with your life and move on before this cat introduces you to his 3 year old son and 6 month old daughter by some broad named "Alize".

So what?

It's unusual. Couple that with the other details provided and it's a dead giveaway.

She deserves more.

Maybe she doesnt and they both aint shit

don't mind @kat

she just happy to be saying it to someone rather than hearing it

 

[playmaker88]

He aint anyone worth giving the time too.. Set out on your own.. fuck everyone else do your own thing. You gotta put your self your well being and sanity first. Get your shit get out.. dont make any grand displays make clean break. Youll be better for it. Dont look back

 

[Lurkristocrat]

A nigga calling you "convenient pussy" should be a hell of a lot more than a red flag

Low self-esteem is a muthafucka. Lmao at this story tho. Lol at being called convient pussy and u still tryin to work shit out.

 

[Lurkristocrat]

Lmao at stoner friends trying to get some na-na while you sleep

Lol at you having to be quiet while ya fuck cuz moms dont play that shit.

Lol at 3 generations of fuck niggas living under one roof

Aye, 9 stacks is more than enough to get on ya feet for a one bedroom apartment. You sound like you just dont have the ambition.

 

[Lurkristocrat]

Nigga telling you to get a better job and he broke af too.

Actually he isn't. His degree is in Engineering and he works at a company called Cyient. He has two cars (one of which is a BMW) and makes 20-something an hour, (he won't tell me exactly how much he makes).

Lmao yo this hilarious

 

[Lurkristocrat]

how do u even have sex?

TBH we just have sex right in his bed..or on the chair.

Lmaooooo na son u high as fuck and trollin

 

[Lurkristocrat]

Nigga 30 years old wit a damn race car bed and you got the nerve to have sex on it