What would you do?

[SimplyKrys]

@SimplyKrys how do u park your car in the driveway?

I don't have a car, everyone just parks in the backyard because we live on a steep incline.

 

[SolemnSauce]

@kat

 

[tompetrez3]

If you was my sister I would tell you to pack up and come down to houston. You can easily find and pay a year lease for a 1br apt in southwest or northside for $4000-4500 and have $5000 cash left to do whatever. You can do ALOT with that in Houston. It would not take you long to find a gig to put you some money in your pocket until you find something in your career field in this city. You will be in a town full of hustle minded young black people that you can make connections with that can get you to where you want to go in life.

 

[SimplyKrys]

real question....since you live with haitians is it true that they give dogs fleas? and tell me how low is your self esteem? you have real daddy or psychological issues cause eleem years in the game and no promise of marriage? convenient pussy? nine racks in the bank and you aint bounced? see youre the reason why i dont have a woman. cause niggaZ like him take all the "bad" ones. *runs off like red in friday*

No they don't give dogs fleas, where did you hear that bullshit? And I don't have low self esteem. All relationships have their issues. But at the same time I realize what I have to do, which is get out of the house.

 

[Beta]

lol that nigga a scumbag

Cant be sympathetic though. You allowing that shit

 

[SimplyKrys]

If you was my sister I would tell you to pack up and come down to houston. You can easily find and pay a year lease for a 1br apt in southwest or northside for $4000-4500 and have $5000 cash left to do whatever. You can do ALOT with that in Houston. It would not take you long to find a gig to put you some money in your pocket until you find something in your career field in this city. You will be in a town full of hustle minded young black people that you can make connections with that can get you to where you want to go in life.

I have never considered Texas. But maybe I need to look into it. Thank you for posting this...

 

[ineedpussy]

real question....since you live with haitians is it true that they give dogs fleas? and tell me how low is your self esteem? you have real daddy or psychological issues cause eleem years in the game and no promise of marriage? convenient pussy? nine racks in the bank and you aint bounced? see youre the reason why i dont have a woman. cause niggaZ like him take all the "bad" ones. *runs off like red in friday*

No they don't give dogs fleas, where did you hear that bullshit? And I don't have low self esteem. All relationships have their issues. But at the same time I realize what I have to do, which is get out of the house.

so how you with this nigga? i understand your whole h.s. sweetheart thang but my h.s. sweetheart cheated on me with another nigga and i drove BOTH of them to her crib where she probably got fucked proper. ijs. look at the s/n. i know a thang or a lot about getting fucked. i got you girl. i will help you in your time of trial. just rap with a brotha. tell me all your side.

s/n: you sure you aint trollin? put that on your unborn kid if true? unless you dont want kids then that shit wont mean shit.

 

[SolemnSauce]

Its hard to leave ur first love, specially with they are who u lost ur virginity to. But what u need to do is get out of that relationship.

 

[konceptjones]

Legit question, why not move down south? You have enough money too. Start to look for a job in NC or SC or Atlanta etc... you have almost 0 chance in making enough money to live alone in CT.

I was just about to say this. The south is the GOAT to live in.

& your boyfriend is a bum. He should've been gotten a place for him & you to stay at. Leave dude tho, he want to stay complacent

You must know my brother because he said the same thing.

he's right though. I don't know how the fuck he looks at himself in the mirror every day. A real man that's with a woman for real ain't trying to be up under the folk's roof like that. His whole goal should be to cop a crib of his own so y'all can move in together.

He's playin you. Duke has strung you along this long and you take it, he figures you ain't leaving him for shit and ain't gotta do shit to keep you.

 

[huey]

RUN, dont walk from your boyfriend.

leave that whole situation and do your own thing, yall been together for a decade and he treats you like shit.

get food stamps, grab a studio apt or something and keep grinding for your career in journalism. shit will get better if you rid yourself of all that extra bullshit, trust me.

 

[SimplyKrys]

real question....since you live with haitians is it true that they give dogs fleas? and tell me how low is your self esteem? you have real daddy or psychological issues cause eleem years in the game and no promise of marriage? convenient pussy? nine racks in the bank and you aint bounced? see youre the reason why i dont have a woman. cause niggaZ like him take all the "bad" ones. *runs off like red in friday*

No they don't give dogs fleas, where did you hear that bullshit? And I don't have low self esteem. All relationships have their issues. But at the same time I realize what I have to do, which is get out of the house.

so how you with this nigga? i understand your whole h.s. sweetheart thang but my h.s. sweetheart cheated on me with another nigga and i drove BOTH of them to her crib where she probably got fucked proper. ijs. look at the s/n. i know a thang or a lot about getting fucked. i got you girl. i will help you in your time of trial. just rap with a brotha. tell me all your side.

s/n: you sure you aint trollin? put that on your unborn kid if true? unless you dont want kids then that shit wont mean shit.

I'm not trollin...None of this is made up.

 

[Copper]

real question....since you live with haitians is it true that they give dogs fleas? and tell me how low is your self esteem? you have real daddy or psychological issues cause eleem years in the game and no promise of marriage? convenient pussy? nine racks in the bank and you aint bounced? see youre the reason why i dont have a woman. cause niggaZ like him take all the "bad" ones. *runs off like red in friday*

All relationships have their issues. But at the same time I realize what I have to do, which is get out of the house.

"All relationships have thier issues" should never be followed by " I realize what I have to do, which is get out of the house".

That second part is what people say when they realize thier house has been broken into at 3AM by a serial killer

 

[konceptjones]

You two been together for a few months short of 11 years and y'all ain't married?

At this point you're just live-in pussy; nothing more, nothing less. He's pretty much said that much. It's time to stop fuckin around with your life and move on before this cat introduces you to his 3 year old son and 6 month old daughter by some broad named "Alize".

your first question was gone be my next one. how in the sam hell are you not married yet after all that time? you should've left like 6 years ago tbh. seriously, what are you getting out of this? he don't do for you, he's rude and disrespectful, i see all cons and not a single pro

and i'm surprised cuz you said he's Haitian, they're usually like africans when it comes to that shacking up shit, it doesn't fly. is it maybe cuz you're not haitian?

this is all bad tho, you gotta love yourself more than this. by being complacent and not demanding he do better, you put yourself in this position

A lot of people ask us this. When we first got together at the age of 16 I honestly thought that by now we would either be married, engaged or at least have a place together. I really thought that we would have rode off into the sunset. But at that age what do you really know? Last month he said he does not want to get a place with me because, "what if we get jobs in different states?"

welp... there's you go. Shit can't be clearer than this. Time to take your $9k and bounce to another state.

 

[SimplyKrys]

Legit question, why not move down south? You have enough money too. Start to look for a job in NC or SC or Atlanta etc... you have almost 0 chance in making enough money to live alone in CT.

I was just about to say this. The south is the GOAT to live in.

& your boyfriend is a bum. He should've been gotten a place for him & you to stay at. Leave dude tho, he want to stay complacent

You must know my brother because he said the same thing.

he's right though. I don't know how the fuck he looks at himself in the mirror every day. A real man that's with a woman for real ain't trying to be up under the folk's roof like that. His whole goal should be to cop a crib of his own so y'all can move in together.

He's playin you. Duke has strung you along this long and you take it, he figures you ain't leaving him for shit and ain't gotta do shit to keep you.

He claims that he is saving up for a house but does not mention me living in it with him.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Oh and he def fucking somebody else

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

The more you type the more I'm convinced that yup, you're only there because you have a pussy.

 

[SimplyKrys]

Oh and he def fucking somebody else

It's funny that you would say this because a few months ago my mom's bf called me and told me that he is cheating on me and I was like, nigga gtfoh how do you know that? And he was like we have people, we just don't want you to get hurt. I honestly thought that he was just making that shit up because he does not like my bf.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

seems to me....

the very thing you hated about your mom.....you just became.

if she ain't got heat or electric an she got a nigga....he aint taking care if home.

sound familiar.

we already talked about this.

you need to leave dude, start off small...maybe in cheap apartments and relocate to that place.

look online for a job elsewhere....if you get it...you already have the money to move. negotiate a deal with a local extended stay hotel or something. move your things into storage, and bounce.

you don't owe an explanation to anyone once you roll.

afterwards. you need to surround yourself with more positive people and people who will bring positive influence into your life to help with your self esteem.

it seems your esteem was already low and you got into something that kill it a bit more.

don't sacrifice who you are because of your financial situation. you sacrifice your financial situation because of who you are. that's more important.

 

[Kat]

Your man sounds like an asshole. You deserve better.

 

[AZTG]

Like i said, your post had tons of issues. But, regardless of what happens with everything else, you gotta leave that guy. That relationship makes 0 sense. Your at the age where if you fuck around and make a mistake with this dude, its gonna be too hard to hit the reset button. If you stay a bit longee out of necessity, cool, but you gotta plan to be out.