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DWO;7709366 said:Love is selflessness....
and since it's impossible to be selfless...;love is basically being happy vicariously through the happiness of another...
if your happiness makes me happy, that's an expression of love...
AP21;7709359 said:Kwan Dai;7709354 said:MissK;7709261 said:I can't define it, the answer is not the same for the people in my life as I love them all in different ways.
What I do know is that it is not that shit Disney wants you to believe it is and the sooner you learn that the better.
If, you cannot define it, then how do you know what it isn't.
I can say with all certainty the it can be what Disney's version is, perhaps not all the time but it can be. In fact I have experienced it, and live it day to day.
i think her point was that its not like that ALL the time
Kwan Dai;7709383 said:AP21;7709359 said:Kwan Dai;7709354 said:MissK;7709261 said:I can't define it, the answer is not the same for the people in my life as I love them all in different ways.
What I do know is that it is not that shit Disney wants you to believe it is and the sooner you learn that the better.
If, you cannot define it, then how do you know what it isn't.
I can say with all certainty the it can be what Disney's version is, perhaps not all the time but it can be. In fact I have experienced it, and live it day to day.
i think her point was that its not like that ALL the time
If, Love is personal and different for each individual then it's possible for it to be like that all the time. Correct?
Kwan Dai;7709354 said:MissK;7709261 said:I can't define it, the answer is not the same for the people in my life as I love them all in different ways.
What I do know is that it is not that shit Disney wants you to believe it is and the sooner you learn that the better.
If, you cannot define it, then how do you know what it isn't.
I can say with all certainty the it can be what Disney's version is, perhaps not all the time but it can be. In fact I have experienced it, and live it day to day.
IAmRue;7709392 said:Love is more than a man made definition. IMO it's shown through action. Overtime "love" has been diluted and carelessly thrown around by people it's hard to tell or even begin to understand exactly what it means.
KingSimba;7709309 said:@AP21 posted what I was going to post....
selflessness brought about by infatuation for another
AP21;7709370 said:DWO;7709366 said:Love is selflessness....
and since it's impossible to be selfless...;love is basically being happy vicariously through the happiness of another...
if your happiness makes me happy, that's an expression of love...
i dont put too much stock (as a matter of fact i dont put any stock) into being happy. Happiness is a state of mind. You can be happy one second, and literally the next, you sad af. I prefer joy. Joy goes beyond being happy.
AP21;7709393 said:Kwan Dai;7709383 said:AP21;7709359 said:Kwan Dai;7709354 said:MissK;7709261 said:I can't define it, the answer is not the same for the people in my life as I love them all in different ways.
What I do know is that it is not that shit Disney wants you to believe it is and the sooner you learn that the better.
If, you cannot define it, then how do you know what it isn't.
I can say with all certainty the it can be what Disney's version is, perhaps not all the time but it can be. In fact I have experienced it, and live it day to day.
i think her point was that its not like that ALL the time
If, Love is personal and different for each individual then it's possible for it to be like that all the time. Correct?
b/c of human interaction, someone at some point will get pissed at the other one
I feel that if you are able to get along for the most part, then thats a great thing, but every now and then, there are moments where your relationship will be tested.
Your arguments might not be over money, but they may be over other things. Every relationship is different, but no relationship is immune to problems every now and then.
MissK;7709394 said:Kwan Dai;7709354 said:MissK;7709261 said:I can't define it, the answer is not the same for the people in my life as I love them all in different ways.
What I do know is that it is not that shit Disney wants you to believe it is and the sooner you learn that the better.
If, you cannot define it, then how do you know what it isn't.
I can say with all certainty the it can be what Disney's version is, perhaps not all the time but it can be. In fact I have experienced it, and live it day to day.
I suppose I should have said that I can't define it in so many words, as stated love is different for me depending on who we are talking about. The definition therefore changes. And yes I know what it isn't.
If you are living happily ever after day to day then that is wonderful and you are blessed.
King_sorrow;7709437 said:love is selflessness
I mean I'm young but i thought about it and realized that the first person that one loves is always their mother(or caretaker depending on the circumstances)
You grow to love them because of their selflessness toward you and willingness to put your life in front of theirs.
Kwan Dai;7709470 said:King_sorrow;7709437 said:love is selflessness
I mean I'm young but i thought about it and realized that the first person that one loves is always their mother(or caretaker depending on the circumstances)
You grow to love them because of their selflessness toward you and willingness to put your life in front of theirs.
My advice to any young person is, be selfish. Look out for yourself. Do not let a Woman come between your, goals, family and self. Once you have accomplished what you'd like to in life and then want to throw it all away for a Woman and Love then be guess.