what is it about being with someone for a long time meaning the less sex you have....

[Conscious__Nkechi]

some of the bets me and my girl make on our madden games....got dayum...fun times

Yup.
Competing against your s/o in video games is fun, it's healthy.

 

[kevmic]

i know its not just me cause i have married friends and others thats in long term relationships and its the same type of shit. Sex goes from everyother day or everyday to 3 to 2 times a week.Ive been with my lady for a few years now and for some reason 2x a week is good even though we both work at fucked up times but for some reason i just think even if we didnt it would still be good. Does that mean a nigga getting old?

No it's just means you got shit to do other then fuck every night. Me and my wife been together for 4 year, and we still have a great sex life, but there will be times when one of us or both of us is just exhausted from work and other daily bullshit. I think with other couples the sex dies down because they don't treat sex as something all that important, they don't really make time for sex. Also, with anything, after a while the newness wears off to where you're use to being around the person so much that even though you're still sexually attracted to them, that feeling you get when you got some new pussy really isn't there anymore.

 

[TrueGodHS]

I can agree with the whole you just dont have time. It's not like you not attracted to the person, but sometimes your mind is not really there, and sometimes you just don't have the energy. That happens

 

[KplusK]

switches up from couple to couple..you gotta know how to keep that spark going...

if it seems like too much time is going by..i normally figure out something to turn that shit back up if she don't beat me to it first.....

we're far too young to not have great sex lives.. especially if ur in a relationship[/QUOTE

shit is still hood when we get the time to just that if we dont its not a big priority nomore more thats why im like thats just me getting older but like a few others also means the happyness goes beyond just sexual relations.

 

[KplusK]

This isn't true for everybody.

But for those who it's happened to, I can see that. Kids, work, taking care of the house, cooking, all that tends to make you tired. It can happen to some people. But then maybe some people are so content with their everyday schedule, just having their s/o around who they love so much is fine without sex all the time.[/QUOTE]

yeah thats what she says all the time. sh'e a real affectionate person and im not much but as long as i show some and around she happy.

 

[KplusK]

and wtf this shit turned into a video game freakfest...