I don't think about this. But, if you want me to think about it I'd say before being in love I'd say they're weak, insecure,stupid, embarrassments to themselves. Now, I'd say love can and might make you do things you damn well know or might not know is not good for you but you'll do it anyway. THAT doesn't mean you'll like it while you're doing it, but love is a fucked up thing a person can't always control.