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DarcSkies777;926575 said:For as much as yall say middle class blacks get hated on....I dont ever see it. I really dont.
Not saying it doesnt happen but the only time I hear it is when somebody is saying it happens. BUt nobody can ever tell me a personal story about it.
DEE-LICIOUS;926965 said:When has this ever happened? It's usually stuck up folks having delusions of grandeur and thinking people are hating on them. When in reality you aren't even on folks radar cause they probably think ur corny anyway.
dusouljah;926970 said:if u real, ur real, ain't nobody gonna hate that...
but if you grew up with both parents, in a nice neighborhood, getting dropped off to school each day with a bag lunch and a kiss from your mommy,
then turn 18 and wanna pretend ur a thug, join a gang, and act like u had to fight ur whole life for shit....
niggaz who really lived that stuggle might take a little offense to your cause
blackrain;927661 said:lol true, but let's be real Du...there's sort of an automatic perception that somebody who grew up in the suburbs and comes from a stable home is somehow "soft" or if they display any type of aggressive behavior they are "trying to be a thug"...when there's assholes/thugs in every environment...growing up poor doesn't make you a thug
dusouljah;927698 said:i definitely get what ur saying....u can be from the suburbs, and just carry ur shit real.....ain't no body going to hate on you if you're being...you...
i know a lotta thorough niggaz that had it good growing up....but they not on no ole extra throwing fingers up in the air, screaming thug life type shit either....
it's kinda like flamboyant ass gay dudes.. u can be gay, and be cool....just be normal, be you.. but when u got all that extra ass flamboyant shit... that's wher niggaz have a problem....
same thing with anyone ealse.. u canbe from where ever in the world....rich, poor, just making it, living comfortably... but just be yourself....all that extra shit is wack no mtter where u from.. u can be from the hood and still look like a clown for trying too hard
dusouljah;926970 said:if u real, ur real, ain't nobody gonna hate that...
but if you grew up with both parents, in a nice neighborhood, getting dropped off to school each day with a bag lunch and a kiss from your mommy,
then turn 18 and wanna pretend ur a thug, join a gang, and act like u had to fight ur whole life for shit....
niggaz who really lived that stuggle might take a little offense to your cause
blackrain;927728 said:i feel you Du...anybody that is just being themselves regardless of where tehy grew up will always be taken more seriously than a nigga who is clearly frontin...but at the same time I know that in the hood there's a perception that people who grew up in a certain neighborhood and family environment aren't as "hard" as people who grew up in the hood...like their lives couldn't have had some sort of turmoil in them just because they live in a nice neighborhood w/ both parents
dusouljah;927746 said:i see that sometimes, and i gets you 100% but i personally never really fed in to that shit...cuz once u just start talking to people and see what kinda parents they had, and how shit was... a lotta that shit get thrown out the window.....
prime example is my girls family....they grew up in a nice little part of howard county....but her whole family on so i don't give a fuck type shit
dusouljah;927698 said:i definitely get what ur saying....u can be from the suburbs, and just carry ur shit real.....ain't no body going to hate on you if you're being...you...
i know a lotta thorough niggaz that had it good growing up....but they not on no ole extra throwing fingers up in the air, screaming thug life type shit either....
it's kinda like flamboyant ass gay dudes.. u can be gay, and be cool....just be normal, be you.. but when u got all that extra ass flamboyant shit... that's wher niggaz have a problem....
same thing with anyone ealse.. u canbe from where ever in the world....rich, poor, just making it, living comfortably... but just be yourself....all that extra shit is wack no mtter where u from.. u can be from the hood and still look like a clown for trying too hard
goldenja;927762 said:LOL nigga what?!
dusouljah;927816 said:if you at a job, and a dude openly gay, but dude don't let that shit dictate how he act at work n shit... dude can be cool....i mean yall ain't gotta be best friends n shit, but it's not really a problem...
but when u got them dudes that act all loud, and extra n shit, saying "girl" all the time, acting like they on a reality show.,....shit's disgusting.. not professsional at all.. niggaz can't work around that type of shit
ysl313;926563 said:why all the thugs hate a nigga who came from a stable home, having both parents, and all that?
is it cause god loves us more then them?
is it cause we never had to sell crack?
is it because we only wear our timbs in the winter?