I'm not one to give a young lady a hard time about how she looks, but I think this just generally speaks to the fact that men and women alike tend to complain about the shortcomings of members of the opposite sex, holding them to a higher standard than they hold themselves. Simplyspeaking got a thread in GnS complaining about how every guy she meets has something wrong with him, one of her examples being a guy who smokes weed.
Now I'm not saying she doesn't deserve a good man, but she's not perfect herself, though she expects the men she meets to be flawless. I know a lot of great people who smoke weed on a regular basis. People with great personalities, good heatlh, and impressive careers. So my point would be that unless you're a 10/10, you're being a little hypocritical to think a guy isn't good enough for you because he likes to smoke weed.
But no one who is a 10/10 ever complains about petty shit like weed smoking. Beautiful, secure women never complain that "men around here ain't shit" and charming, successful men (nh) don't complain about how lousy all the hoes he meets are. That only happens among people who have obvious imperfections, but refuse to acknowledge it.