RickyRich;c-10038029 said:
Explain wat happen to em @deadeye
@RickyRich
Some of it's still not adding up to me.
@LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY alluded to it in his post:
LEMZIMUS_RAMSEY;c-10038022 said:
That being said, we tend, we want, or we have neglect another point : SOME OF OUR SISTAS, EVEN ENGAGED, ARE STILL PLAYING WITH FIRE.
And my final take goes to @obnoxiouslyfresh :
WHAT THE HELL DID YOU THINK? WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING!!
YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER. YOU KNEW DAMN WELL WHO HE WAS! it still baffles me how you put yourself into that situation.
I mean, in the FOF thread......... @obnoxiouslyfresh ( or
Shay as Kavio sometimes refers to her) said at least 2 or 3 times that she never considered him to be a stalker.
She only wanted him to leave her alone.
Yet, despite what she's said on multiple occasions.........many people on here are looking at Kav (Trillfate) like he's a stalker.
It's hard to process because we've seen friendly banter/interaction between the two of them for at least 2 years.
So, something had to trigger Shay/Ginger cutting him off.
It had to have either been something he did..........or something that was going on in her personal life that triggered this.
Try and put yourself in Kav's position.
Most of us, if we were on good terms with a young lady for a few years...........and she suddenly cut us off for apparently no reason........and there wasn't any kind of argument or anything that preceded it...........we'd want to know why she did what she did.
I wouldn't necessarily classify that as "stalkerish" behavior.
Especially since, remember..........Shay/Ginger/OB said multiple times that she doesn't consider him a stalker.
However, ironically, it seems like she may have inadvertently caused him to act like a stalker by cutting him off for no reason and not offering a logical explanation as to why she did it.
Which is really all that Kavio/Trillfate was looking for.
So, considering the context in which everything occurred.............we as a community need to ask ourselves:
*wait for it*
"What did Kavio do what was so wrong?"