Kai;8490278 said:
trick i'm not trying to read your faux dissertation. now unless you've left that racist nacho libre of a husband of yours i'm not buying none of that shit
how the fuck you let speedy gonzalez call you a black bitch with out leaving him on the spot?
@Kai
Many things that you've mentioned, I've already addressed. (I created the term "fat black bitch" in our relationship and we use it affectionately. He has never said it maliciously out of anger or hate).
My husband aint going nowhere because as far as i'm concerned, without him educating me on pro-black matters and on the social injustices that blacks face in today's society, I would still be cooning like a mother fucker. He made me see shit for what it is. And for that reason, he will stay.
We have had countless discussions of what it means when a person has a preference in regards to skin tone. I explained the underlying cause for why men (including many black men) prefer lighter skinned women... it all ties into the brainwashing from white supremacists in this country. Because there literally is no reason why a person's skin tone should weigh in on their "preference" of mates.
We have pro-black discussions often, and also come up with ways on how we will address these things to our daughter when she is old enough to understand. He supports my decision in telling her that she is black, while also informing her of her father's native/mexican american side.
There is so much that you've missed when it comes to the fighting that I have been doing for hours at a day regarding pro-black matters, whether it is in GNS or wherever.
Either way, I would understand your distrust of me and why you would second guess my authenticity.
But I am a black woman living in america with black family. These issues affects me. It affects us. It affects my daughter. And by knowing this, it should be very clear to you that my intentions are pure.